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Should I kill myself?
I am married and have been having an affair with a married woman. I am a complete fool as I fell in love with her. She repeatedly spoke to other men whilst with me and admitted she did. She also has a very dubious past, as she possibly worked as prostitute in her homeland. She worked in showbiz and admitted she had taken certain'steps' to ensure the furtherment of her career. I know I do not have a leg to stand on morally. The affair has ended as she claimed she had found God. She has done this in the past but always seems to find other men to speak to. I know she is is contact with another man at this time but do not know what has happened between them. Should I tell her husband? My motivation is revenge, and I know it`s wrong. I am thinking of commiting suicide, as I cannot let go of her. Iam so deeply in love with her. I have tried it in the past but was unsucessful. I pray to God each day to end my life as I cannot bear to be without her. I accepted the end of the affair, but begged her to at least let me text her once a month, but she went back on her word and this has left me desperate. I know I`m in the wrong as well here but what should I do? I`m lucky to have a loving wife, but I do not deserve her. If I tell her husband I will have to tell mY wife and she will leave me. The only thought that gives me any peace or solace is the thought of suicide. I cannot bear to live a moment longer. I am 32 but have high BP and have been very ill of late. I mentioned this to her (not to get sympathy) but to finally establish whether she cared or not. She said she was busy and did not want to talk and this told me all I needed to know, depste her always claiming she loved me. I just want to die. I am a worthless human being with nothing to offer anybody so what is the point of going on? I really wanna know whther I should tell her husband as well, though I know this will end her marriage. This is wrong is`nt it. I kow she won`t shed a tear if I left the world. I just cannot go on.
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No. you shouldn't kill yourself. You do
need to wake up and get on with your life.
You don't tell her husband a thing. It
would only hurt him and I think you have done
enough of that already.
If she is the skank you describe he already
knows and lives with it, or he will find out
sooner or later on his own. To be honest, you
are no better than she is, and no less guilty. Don't make matters worse.
You need to forget her. She has moved on to
other guys. She does not love you, she does
not even care for you. She treats you as
she has probably treated other men for years.
She is not worth your time or energy. Do not
have any further contact with this woman. You
WILL get over it.
Now, you confess what you did to that lady
who married you and trusted you. If you are
lucky and you want to work it out, She may
forgive you. You need to go get tested for
STDs. Condom wearer or not get tested. This
woman you were with has been around. You try
and be a good husband. Work on your marriage.
I have to believe you still have some feelings
for your wife or you wouldn't be worried about
her finding out.
You made a mistake. Learn from it. Love isn't
fucking some woman who don't give a shit about
you at all. Get over it and move on with your life. I have an inbox if you want help with it
all.
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Dont kill yourself, thats never the solution.
You have a loving wife at home, and probably kids that you haven't mentioned.
Yes, you are in the wrong, by wanting to tell her husband, for revenge, and by having an affair.
If you tell anyone, I think it should be your wife, she's earned more honesty that anyone.
You won't kill yourself, or you would have already done it. Turn to God, don't think of suicide. God's always here to help you, no matter what.
Don't say you cannot go on, when you can. & dont use High BP as a pity act.
You need to get this prostitute out of your mind, and care for your family!
I hope you make the right decisions.
Goodluck!
Have faith.
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that would be a stupid reason to be killing yourself for. no one should ever have thoughts of wanting to die. if you really wanted to die, you would have done it already instead of going to this site for help. but you've come to the right place, but in the wrong situation. she isn't worth it, move on and find someone better, more worth of your time and life. don't show her your weakness, it's the things like this in life that you just have to overcome and be strong and fight. don't give up on yourself and question suicide, you deserve better.
i hope i somehow helped you.
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DON"T KILL YOURSELF!! Just when you think you should end your life, just have faith. I know you feel really bad about the whole situation. What i would do, is tell her husband so he is not betrayed and knows what's going on. He deserves to know. After that, i would tell YOUR wife. She deserves to know that you have had an affair. She should go on and find someone else and be treated the way she needs to be. Just let the truth out and you will feel like a huge weight is lifted off your chest. You will feel a lot better. I hope this helps! But, whether you realize it or not, someone needs you in your life. Hope this helps! Good luck!
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