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I've had sex with my boyfriend and i love him more than anything but i don't like the thought of giving him oral. I have gave oral to another guy before i started going out with my recent boyfriend so he never really lets me live that one down. Now i'm kind of easing up and would want to give him a bj but if he cums does that not mean we can't have sex? like i wouldn't want to give him one and it be done with. When i done oral for the first time the guy warned me when he was going to sum so he didn't do it in my mouth which i was so relieved about. Also if i have my mouth down there and then we have sex i don't think he'd want to kiss me which is also kind of offputting. Is there a happy/medium anywhere lol
I think my question is alot of questions in itself so answers to any would be grateful.
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Hmm.
Well, my personal opinion is that sex is messy, sex is fun, and mess is part of the fun. Thats why you shower afterwards. The point is that you do something like that for your lover, and you enjoy it because of the pleasure you're giving them. Its fun to be a bit dirty to please your boy/girl.
As far as kissing, just tell him if you can put it in your mouth he can kiss you after. After all, it does belong to him.
The happy medium is you both learn to enjoy doing things to each other as long as it something you're willing to do. You compromise by sharing that trust and intimacy with each other that you can do these things and its not only "ok", but very fun for both of you.
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if you are uncomfrontable then don't do it and as far as him cumming doing bj or hj get him back on hard and have fun,.
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OMG! I was in the same situation.
Me & my boyfriend have been dating eleven months.
We had sex and had done everything else, besides me giving him a BJ, around 4 1/2 months.
About 3 months ago I started giving him head.
I really didnt want to at first, but I knew he would go along with what I said.
I think your saying that you don't want him to cum in your mouth, that you want him to cum else where? You should be able to have sex after he cums, maybe not directly afterwards, but yeah, you should be able to have sex.
He shouldnt care to kiss you as long as he doesnt cum in your mouth. Because if he has good hygiene he should smell, or taste bad (lol).
My advise, you don't have to do this, just a suggestion.
Steps ... lol...
1- Give him head, but dont let him cum.
2- If you have unprotected sex, then just climb ontop of him, without letting him get off from the BJ, and go at it.
-If you have protected sex, have a condom nearby, and put it on him, use your mouth, this is a turn on.
3- After you have sex, and YOU get off, move back down to his lower area, if he has a condom on, take it off, and start giving him head.
If he isnt wearing a condom, give the penis time to dry and then give him head.
I promise theres no taste as long as you have good hygiene also.
4- Give head, until you want to stop, or he gets off.
Good luck with everything!
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Well to answer your first question, if he cums you can still have sex but he'd have to be able to get it back up fast. If he can't then you probably won't be able to have sex afterwards. I doubt he'd want to kiss you after that because most guys think that's kinda gross. I mean imagine a guy eating you out and then kissing you. It seems kinda nasty to me but he might not mind. Then again he might be in such a lust filled haze that he doesn't even notice the fact that you had his dick in your mouth before yo kissed him. The happy/medium will only be there if he's a certain type of person. You might want to try all this out with him though. Sacrificing sex once will be worth satisfying this dude if you really like him.
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