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20, male.
Okay, the girl I'm going out with and I are sitting watching TV. We've only been dating for a few days, but I've been her friend since before elementary school. She mentions a mutual friend was talking about a movie that we passed. So I, the idiot that I am, accidently call her by the friend's name. She pulled away from me for a few seconds, and then went into my arms again.
I explained that it was only because she mentioned her name seconds before, but is that enough? Should I try to explain in detail that I have no feelings for this other girl or should I drop it? (link)
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I think you should just drop it. If you bring it up again it might make you look guilty if you know what I mean. Once was enough.
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how do get rumors to go away....i just had a huge ass rumor started about me...but the thing is its true...just not ne more...i don't want my entire scool to think shitty about me over a mistake a made a while back...wat do i do??i rate high (link)
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technically it isn't a rumor if it's true. Rumors are untrue things said about you.
Who is doing all this to you? You need to find that out and don't trust them with confidences anymore.
I don't know that there is any real way to stop it spreading.You might let those who's opinions mean something to you know the real story.Better they know the truth however bad it is rather than hear an exaggerated story from gossip.
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I've liked this guy for like, seriously, a REALLY long time, I mean we've been friends for longer than I can remember. A couple years ago my cousin was visiting from another state and I was takin her to hang out w. me and a few of my friends (including the guy i like). Now let me get this straight, I told her how much I liked him and how much he meant to me. Well, they meet each other and they decide that hey they like each other, so they start to go out (yea long distance n everything) and i'm like seriously, devastated, you don't understand how much i care for this guy. They broke up after awhile but i have never really been the same w. my cousin since. about a year after that happened, my guy started liking me, and he told me and so we dated for a few weeks and did some stuff n my cousin got soo pissed at me, and i think that i have a right to do what i please, considering she did like, almost hte exact same to me! even though i wasn't doing it to piss her off, i did it cause i really really like this boy. Well, me and my boy still talk alot, and he says that in a few years (i'm 14, he's 15) he thinks that we should get together again, but he doesnt want to right now, and i understand that. My cousins coming into town this weekend. I have plans to see a movie w. my guy and a bunch of my other firends and my mom told me i have to take my cousin, n i'm soo afraid that she and him will start likin each other again. what do i do.!??! (link)
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I think you need to hang all over him and don't let her get a word in there that you don't hear!
Make it known right up front who belongs to whom.I might even let the guy in on it so he isn't totally shocked by your behavior.Ask him and see what he says.
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Ok I have problems trusting people..especially guyys! everytime I put my trust out there fully someone always smashes it... twice I had been cheated on, I have been lied to and ditched and I can't take it... but yea I want to know how do I trust guys more? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years....at the very beginning of our relationship he cheated on me but we moved on... I can't seem to fully trust him, I tell him I do and I believe I should but I can't help question him after he has gone out... he is really annoyed of it ! and me to, I dont mean to question but my head is filled with them... how do I learn how to trust him ?? (PS pleasse dont go saying how i should break up with him because hecheated, or because i dont trust him, IDO trust him...i just cant show it) (link)
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It will always be in the back of your mind. There isn't much you can do about that.If you truley trust him just keep your doubts to yourself.Thats about all you can do.If you say anything it just upsets him so don't even mention it.
You just have to try your best to forget about it. It is not an easy thing to do, I know this for a fact.But your relationship can actually get even stronger if you can just get past it.
Give him the benefit of the doubt and trust unless he gives you a real reason not to.Okay.It happened a long time ago and if he didn't love you he would have been gone by now, right?!
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I have dark brown hair, it kind of looks black. People say I can't dye it blonde, but I kind of want to since people believe they can stop me. My skin has a natural tan, if that matters. My friend said I could dye my eyebrows to match. What do you think? (link)
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I don't know about the eyebrows thing.However you can dye your hair blond.May take a couple of times to do it but you can. I just used a hair frosting kit and dyed mine one time.It can be done.A professional would probably be the best way to go but I personally never tried one myself.
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I just found out that this girl i know is about to die because of cancer. I dont know how to handle it. someone please help me!! (link)
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You treat her as you always have. You ask her questions about it, you ask her how she feels, you let her talk to you.
A lot of people, younger ones especially will totally ignore a sick person because they don't know what to say to them, Or maybe they are afraid to talk about it thinking they will upset the sick person.Don't do those things.She will feel much better if she has someone to talk to and tell her fears to etc.
It may not always be easy, just be there for her okay? You will feel much better about yourself if you don't wait until it is to late.
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Ever since I've injured my knee, I've been feeling like I can't do much... and sort of jealous of the kids that can. I usually play with a tennis ball at lunch, but i want my knee to heal! Does anyone have suggestions as to what i can do? (link)
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Do you have an orthopedic doctor? he/she is the one to ask.You may have to keep off it for a while in order for it to heal right.
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ok i just moved away from my old skool and before i left, i didnt say goodbye to some ppl because i didnt have time and well i didnt like this girl back then who like me back then and well now im falling for her bad and she does like me but shes i dont kno shes kind of mad at me and i just want 2 let her know i like her and i want to go out with her, how do i do this(srry so long) (link)
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If you aren't to far away and can go talk to her do it! Explain that it was kind of a quick thing and you didn't have time to let people know.She will get over being mad. Take her a single rose or something, that will soften her heart a bunch.You just need to go tell her how you feel.
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i wana go on a diet and iv tried alot and im just going by my own rules so i just make it up as i go along. has n e 1 been on a diet and lost alot of wieght? (link)
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I've lost 29 lbs. so far! Yeah!
I be sure and eat 3 meals a day.Between I eat a lot of fruit.I keep my portions small so I eat normal food.I try to eat salads twice a day before meals.I eat yogurt 3 times a day...whatever flavor you like.non fat kind.
My problem has been NOT Eating much and this makes your body go into a starvation mode and actually makes you gain weight.Plus I have thyroid issues.It has been working for me so far.I didn't believe I could gain weight by trying to eat very little but, I guess it's true.so, don't even try that route! And try to do some walking or other exercise depending on how overweight you are.If you need any help sticking with it or just want to talk feel free to ask me okay? Lots of luck!:}
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Have you ever thought that you liked someone when you were going out with a different someone (that you love soooo much!) and sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with the other person?
I know its wrong, and i told my boyfriend {of 1yr and almost 2mos.} but i dont know how to stop. because I don't truly like these other people. I Love my boyfriend tho. I hope this isn't too confusing!!
Anyone experienced this?
Help me to stop please!
Oh, I would never cheet on my boyfriend or break up with him. So your probabaly wondering, "whats the problem them?" well I still dont want to think these things. i mean i know im a teen (freshman/female) but I have a great boyfriend and I know this isnt right! so, anyone??
Thanks In Advance!
-*KeLs*-
p.s.=if this doesnt make since { how i worded it or if you need to know something else}, say so in your answer, and i'll re-ask the question to you differently!
Thanks!! :) (link)
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they call this fantasizing.It is normal if that helps! I don't know how to tell you to stop!It's okay to keep it to yourself and not worry about it.
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Hi
just recently i've found that my scandisc and defrag: processes wont come to a conclusion!!
they just go on for hours and hours!!
sometimes a window will come up on scandsc: saying
another programme is preventing it from completing in normal time!....but I'm not aware of running
anything else.......any advice???? (link)
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oh lot's of stuff are running on there.If you hit ctrl+alt+del one time you will see everything that is running.Just shut everyhing off you don't need running and try again.It will still take hours if you've not done it in a while. Also make sure you have screen saver set to none.When it pops on it stops your defrag.
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hi, remember me? I talked to you guys about this guy I like and I wasnt sure if he liked me back.
Anyway. I went to a party last night and I was shocked. I felt like I was shot twice : he smoked and he dirty-danced with a girl, you know with her butt all over him. I really thought he was different, that's why I liked him in the first place.She's not his gf cause she danced with other guys.
I really need some help...Should I ignore all this and try to get to know his personality better? Or should I move on and forget all about him?
Please don't delete this question, the answers are very important to me. (link)
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If you didn't like his actions at the party thats a pretty good indication that you two wouldn't get along. Look for someone else to love.
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my guy friend lies so much i don't whether to believe him or not. he lies about his age and other stupid stuff and i don't know whether to believe him or not. i confronted him yesterday but he denies that he lies. what should i do? (link)
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You say bye bye! Really, life is to short to be trying to decipher what he's lying about and what the truth is.He is going to make your life miserable. Send him packing.
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my guy friend says he likes me but he is uncomfortable with me kissing him. what should i do? (link)
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Well, don't kiss him then! I don't know his age...maybe he's not ready for kissing yet?
If he is older and doesn't like kissing, then I'd seriously think about getting a new boyfriend.
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Okay so I'm a 14 year old girl. I have 4 best friends...ish. It's really more like 3. One of my friends, is a complete snob! She thinks shes better than everybody else, and shes completely obsessed with shopping. I mean, I'm not against shopping, but whenever we go with her she flaunts about saying how she can buy anything she wants because her parents give her all the money she wants. I'm TIRED OF HER! Yet, no body else likes her, so if we abandon her, she'll be alone. at times theres nothing I would want more, but I don't want her a complete loner.
signed, confused (link)
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You could explain to her that though you other girls like shopping too, you aren't made of money! You might tell her that he flaunting how much money she has to spend is a bit rude and that it bothers you guys. It could be that she just doesn't realize.She's never not had money so she really doesn't understand.Boy, that would be nice wouldn't it? See how she takes that. Don't be mean about it just tell her like it is.Maybe she will stop and make more friends if she just tones it down a little.
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I am to be Chrismated this week at my new Church. It is Melkite Greek Orthodox Catholic Church. I am disappointed that my grandparents refuse to come. On top of that they did not tell me the true reason that they aren't coming. They told me that it was the "weekly hair appointment" that couldn't be changed. Which is garbage. My father told me they would not come because their beliefs do not match. How do they know that without even walking in the church one time? I mean really. I don't know why I am suprised, but it has hurt my feelings a little bit.
They are good people and build churches as part of a mission in the Baptist Church. I have been Baptist up until now but two things have guided me to this church: the need to be a little more celebratory of Christ's Resurrection and Saviour of us people, and my fiance is the Cantor. If my fiance wasn't the Cantor or we weren't together, I would still like to be a part of this church.
I have tried and tried to explain that this is not the Roman Catholic Church and some of the things I have learned. They are so prejudiced as to what a Catholic is to them. Which at one time I heard: mean, Italian, and wrong. Which none of the three are true.
I realize that they aren't going to change to my religion ever, but I am a bit upset they wouldn't come for my sake. At least they are coming to the wedding.
So do I bug them every day until the event so that I can see them, or just let it go? How can I get them to understand my decision? (link)
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I would tell them that you understand they are of a diffrent faith but you'd really like them to be there for you. That is all you can do.
If they don't attend don't feel badly about it.
You just go with the religion that makes you feel good and they will do the same. Outside of that they love you for the person you are and I'm sure they mean no disrespect.
I wouldn't bug them about it. Just explain your feelings about it and leave it at that. They may never understand your decision, that is okay.It is yours alone to make.
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Well, My 5 year olf brother and I walked into the room my 16 year old sister and I share, and we saw her and her boyfriend having sex...
They didnt even know we were there for like two minutes... I was frozen, my feet rooted to the floor, but then finally my brother pulled me away... the problem is... My brother asked me, just as we walked out, "what were they doing there?"
I seriously dont know how to answer him... I mumbled something, but all week he's been persisting, and I need to give him an answer before he asks my parents and gets my sister into trouble... Please help!!! (link)
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It is my opinion that your sister should get in trouble....If you don't want to have your parents answer the question , make her.I think at his age though your parents need to be the ones answering it. I think you need to talk to your sister an advise that since you share a room having sex there is not an option.
Brother is at an age where a wrong answer could affect him down the road. I think you really need your mom to deal with it.
By the way,If your sister was concerned about getting caught she would have done it somewhere else. So don't go feeling guilty about it if you rat her out.
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What do you do when a bestfriend of 20+ years just stops hanging,calling, talking to you without reason (I've asked )to you? I'm a female 34yrs, same as her. (link)
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Something must be going on with her if she just all of the sudden stopped. I think I would pay her a visit and try to get to the bottom of it.I mean is she mad about something,Is she working to hard and just has know time,Is she dating someone and has no time, Did she go through a breakup and is depressed? Man, it could be a lot of things.20Yrs. Is a long friendship and not one that I would just toss aside.Go to her and make her talk to you.Take a bottle of wine or box if your favorite icecream and have a long talk.Good luck, I hope you find out what is going on.
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My friend Ray introdcued me to his best friend Jason. In the beginning Jason and I got along fine, everyone thought he was interested in me. But soon Jason started asking me about other boys.. whether I liked them or not. It wasnt really any of his business so I would just respond to him without really answering his question. Now all of a sudden lately Jason has been extreamly rude to me. A friend of mine seems to think Jason has the hots for me and is upset Im talking about other boys. I think he's just plain rude. Other opinions would be nice. I rate. (link)
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Sounds as if he may have gotten a little jealous.But then I guess he shouldn't have asked! He probably does like you but I agree that it's pretty rude of him to blame you for wanting to keep private info private.
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I dunno how to put this but here we go.
So for spring break I went up to steamboat to go skiing and in the hotel room I would always call my bff's Ana and Tess! Then They were always together when I called they were together every day when I was gone. And I always get jelious when people hang out with out me like I dont care if their friends but I just get soo jelious. I dont know what to do to solve my problem. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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It is natural to be a little jealous and to feel left out. So long as they are still treating you as a friend I wouldn't get to worked up about it.Easier said than done I know! There will be times when one of them get's jealous of you and the other too.Talk to them about it if it will make you feel better.
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