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Mind Playing Tricks....
Have you ever thought that you liked someone when you were going out with a different someone (that you love soooo much!) and sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with the other person?
I know its wrong, and i told my boyfriend {of 1yr and almost 2mos.} but i dont know how to stop. because I don't truly like these other people. I Love my boyfriend tho. I hope this isn't too confusing!!
Anyone experienced this?
Help me to stop please!
Oh, I would never cheet on my boyfriend or break up with him. So your probabaly wondering, "whats the problem them?" well I still dont want to think these things. i mean i know im a teen (freshman/female) but I have a great boyfriend and I know this isnt right! so, anyone??
Thanks In Advance!
-*KeLs*-
p.s.=if this doesnt make since { how i worded it or if you need to know something else}, say so in your answer, and i'll re-ask the question to you differently!
Thanks!! :)
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It's normal to like other people when your going out with someone, even if you love them, but you need to make a decision on who you want to be with more. My friend was in the exact same situation, but she decided to break up with her b/f for the other guy, even though she doesn't even know if he likes her, which, in my opinion, wasn't a smart move. Just try to focus on your b/f more than other people.
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Yeah, I have gone through something like that once. But what stopped me from loving the other person and almost breaking - up with my boyfriend, was like, if I broke up with him, then it would soon haunt me in my future. So, if I were you re - think this like hardcore! If you don't really like the other people then like forget them and stay with your boyfrined. I mean, it's the best thing to do.
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Its normal, dont panic, if you really love your boyfriend dont let this likein someone else bother you. It happens after you've been dating someone for a long time, but you get a crush on someone else just because sometimes you wonder what it is like to be with someone else, but just stick with him you'll get over likeing someone else, because i know you said you wont break up with him but if you were you'd realize how much you miss his ways, Stay with the one you love, because like comes and goes, love is forever...
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they call this fantasizing.It is normal if that helps! I don't know how to tell you to stop!It's okay to keep it to yourself and not worry about it.
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I think those feelings are normal. I mean, it seems like you truly love your boyfriend. If that was true, you wouldn't let these other people interfere, and it seems like you don't. You said yourself you would never dump him, so I wouldn't worry about it. You seem like you love your boyfriend a lot, and would never let anybody else ruin your relationship. Sorry if I didn't answer what you asked =.
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omg i am going throught the exact same thing i dont know what to do so this prolly isnt any help
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Wow, that's exactly how long me and my boyfriend have been together. It'll be a year & 3 months on April 8th. I look at other guys sometimes, and I wonder, but that's it. I'd never cheat on my boyfriend, and I'd never even actually do that. I don't even like them, it's just a feeling you get sometimes. It's human, and it happens to everyone. Especially since you've been with your boyfriend for a long time. It's normal, nothing to worry about. If you really want to fix it, then just stop looking at other guys. It's hard, but you can do it.
I hope that helped!
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Don't worry, it's normal. Even though you love what you have, you might just be naturally attracted to guys you can't have. There's nothing wrong with imagining, just don't follow through on it.
Just remember how good you have it whenever you want to go out with someone else.
hope I helped!
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It's normal to have these feelings sometimes, even when you aren't a teenager. The good news is that you at least have a good communication line going with your boyfriend. I think you need to figure out what is missing in your current relationship that you are searching for in fantasizing about another one. And if you did break up with your boyfriend, you probably wouldn't feel for the other guy necessarily. This is part of "being in love" that may not settle out until you are ready to forsake all others and be married to your beau. So do some soul searching and don't beat yourself up too much.
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