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Bestfriends ot Befriended??


Question Posted Thursday March 17 2005, 10:47 am

What do you do when a bestfriend of 20+ years just stops hanging,calling, talking to you without reason (I've asked )to you? I'm a female 34yrs, same as her.

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xxASKAWAYxx answered Thursday March 17 2005, 10:38 pm:
oviously something along the road happended really bad. i know that you have asked her but thats the only way to find out. So ask her again and say that you really like her and you want to get through this.

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karenR answered Thursday March 17 2005, 5:20 pm:
Something must be going on with her if she just all of the sudden stopped. I think I would pay her a visit and try to get to the bottom of it.I mean is she mad about something,Is she working to hard and just has know time,Is she dating someone and has no time, Did she go through a breakup and is depressed? Man, it could be a lot of things.20Yrs. Is a long friendship and not one that I would just toss aside.Go to her and make her talk to you.Take a bottle of wine or box if your favorite icecream and have a long talk.Good luck, I hope you find out what is going on.

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xolilabbs214ox answered Thursday March 17 2005, 5:06 pm:
i know what it feels like .. me n my bff since we were 4.. she like blows me off. but for u .. that is a long time. i would just talk to her... maybe she is mad at you or sumthing.. hope i helped! please rate!
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jbdreamer answered Thursday March 17 2005, 4:11 pm:
No one just cuts off someone for no reason. You did something to turn her away. Whatever the reason you have to admit your falt if you want her to come back.

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LindasCounsel answered Thursday March 17 2005, 12:51 pm:
Dear Bestfriends,
Twenty years is a long time. It seems odd that a long-time friend like that would just "suddenly" stop calling or talking to you. You say that you've asked, but you don't say how she responded. People tend to give up on things that aren't working for them. Do you think there are reasons why this friendship isn't working for her? You don't give much detail so one can only guess about the reasons. Can you tell me more?
Linda

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