how you know when a guy cums? and can girls cum? and umm what exactly does cum mean? Also whenever i give my bf a hand job its alwasy like wet, is that cum?
Cum is a word that is usually used for guys semen. It's just a liquid containing sperm, so yes when you give your boyfriend a handjob it is cum. But you have to make sure not to touch his penis and then your vagina if he's not wearing a condom or you're not on the pill because there is a chance that you could get pregnant.
Girls do cum, but it's not sperm. It's usually just excess vaginal fluids that the vagina produces when a girl is turned on to allow a penis to enter.
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how long after you get your "cherry popped" do you bleed?
It depends. Some people bleed immediately, some people bleed a couple of days after and some don't bleed at all. But regardless of when you bleed, it won't be an awful lot so it's nothing to worry about.
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First off, i appreciate anyone who can answer this. second, this is going to be somewhat long but here goes nothing:
On saturday my mom told me my boyfriend could come over. she wasn't home for 30 minutes and he came over during that time which she said she was fine with as long as we don't go upstairs to my room. But we went up there. while we were up there we had sex for the first time and while we were doing it, she came home. so we raced downstairs and acted like nothing happened. and she didn't suspect one thing at all. then the next day *sunday*, one of my friends called me and asked if i had sex with my boyfreind. i told her yes along with the story. while i was telling the story my mom picked up the other phone line and heard EVERYTHING. she knows now and is calling me a slut, and trash. now she is telling me i am not allowed to see my boyfriend ever again and if he steps foot into this house she will call the police because he's 18 i'm 16 and still a minor. so i guess she could have him arrested for him having sex with a minor.
i still want to continue to see my boyfriend but now we are going to have to sneak around. i know that isn't right but that's the only way we can see each other. any advice on what i can do to get my mom to let me see him without her freaking out and calling me a slut???
This is a difficult situation.
On one hand, your mother shouldn't be calling you a slut and she shouldn't have listened in on your phone conversation. A parent should never say degrading things to a child, it isn't fair at all. She also invaded your privacy by listening to your phone call which was very rude.
However, on the other hand you did disrespect her by sleeping with your boyfriend in her house. She trusted you to let your boyfriend come over and you betrayed that trust by sleeping with him so she does have a right to be angry, even if she isn't handling it in the best way.
I suggest you sit her down when she's in a good mood and start by apologising to your mother for disrespecting her. Next, explain to her that you are upset with her for calling you a slut and listening to your phone conversation. Then go on to say that you wouldn't have slept with your boyfriend if you didn't trust him 100% and that you used precautions and made sure that you were safe.
Tell her that you care about your boyfriend a great deal and want to continue seeing him. Promise her that you won't disrespect her again by betraying her trust but make it clear that you are unhappy with her calling you names.
Hopefully she will be able to see that you are mature enough to discuss the situation with her and that you can be trusted with your boyfriend.
Good luck.
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I'm a 20 year old girl, and I have a problem with masturbating. I do it at least 7 times a day..thats at the least! Ive been told its because I'm still a virgin, but I have lots of friends who are virgins and they dont have this problem. I also heard that masturbating too much can make a girl lose her virginity. is that true? and can someone please help me with my problem?
Firstly, as long as your masturbation habits aren't affecting you or anyone around you then you have nothing to worry about. By affecting you I mean interfering with your daily routine and relationships, but affecting other people I mean offending them. There is nothing wrong with masturbation, it's just a sign that you know how to pleasure yourself and you're healthy.
Secondly, masturbation has absolutely nothing to do with virginity. Okay, so maybe if you were having regular sex you would feel less need to masturbate but most women continue masturbating even when they have a healthy sex life. In addition, you can't lose your virginity by masturbating too much. You may break your hymen, which is the thin layer of skin inside your vagina but that does not count as losing your virginity so you have nothing to worry about.
[EDIT] Some people do think that if you break your hymen then you are no longer a virgin but it's not true. You can break your hymen by using tampons, doing lots of sport and even horse riding. So really, it has nothing to do with virginity at all. You are only no longer a virgin if a penis enters your vagina. [/EDIT]
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ok, this is kinda wierd asking...but, whenever I go poop...when I wipe, there is bright red blood...is something wrong?!?!?!
your advice is greatly appreciated!
I advise you to go and see your doctor. It may be embarassing but it'll be much better if you get yourself properly checked out.
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Okay, one of my friends are bypolar...but i have no clue what that means. I know when he gets really mad, his eyes turn like, blood red and he shakes, i don't know if that has anything to do with him being bypolar any;thing....
i'll rate 5 for good answers
Bipolar Disorder is a type of depression, which is why it is often reffered to as 'Manic Depression'.
People suffering from Bipolar Disorder have very extreme mood swings. Like you said, when your friend is mad he seems much madder than a lot of other people. He will also probably become very unhappy when he is feeling low, and incredibly high when he is happy. You get the picture.
For more information on Bipolar Disorder and how to support friends and loved ones suffering from it, visit http://www.bipolaraware.co.uk/ or http://www.bipolar.com/.
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My best friend just told a huge secret of mine. Do I have the right to be angry?
The secret wasn't that big of a deal but it kinda meant a lot to me.
Thanks in advanced!
Of course you have the right to be angry!
It doesn't matter how big the secret was, the fact that your friend betrayed your trust is enough.
Let her know that you are angry with her and that you thought you could trust her. Hopefully she will apologise and won't do it again, but if she fails to see the problem then I'd be a lot more careful about what you tell her in future.
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THIS IS NOT A QUESTION OF FAITH
I have considered myself asnostic for a few years now. I have faith more in the people I know and everyone, then some silly religion with it's own agenda. I also believe in a greater god, but mostly for comfort, to hate, and to thank. Anywho, this coming fall I am going to have to make a decision of getting confirmed by the Catholic Church. I am not so sure that I should do it. I know that it would make my mom happy, but I feel like I am just flat out disrespecting Catholicism to follow their ways even though I don't believe it. I don't really care if I am found out, I am not like an in-your-face religion hater, but still, it would kill my mom. So, my question is, should go through with it for my mom, or not?
THIS IS NOT A QUESTION OF FAITH, I DON'T BELIEVE IN CHRISTIANITY, PLEASE TO NOT TELL ME OF THE GLORIES OF HEAVAN, JESUS, AND WHAT NOT
I was brought up a Christian, I was christened and confirmed by the Church of England, I go to a Christian school, I'm even in the church band.
But I'm not a Christian.
I went to church and all that because my parents told me to, I never stopped to think about whether I actually believed any of it. They got me christened when I was six months old so it wasn't really my choice at all. I got confirmed because it seemed like a fun idea. I was only 11 years old and I didn't really have a clue about what I was doing. I now realise that what I did was a mistake.
I don't mind going to the church school, it's a good school and my friends all go there. I don't mind singing in the church band because I love to sing and I'm good at it but that doesn't change my beliefs.
The moral of the story is: Religion is a big deal to people like your mum, I think that if you got confirmed into the Catholic church then turned round a few years later and said "You know what, I don't believe in this." Then it would hurt her more than if you told her the truth now.
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I am 14 years old and haven't gotten my period yet. I am pretty sure all of my firends have gotten it by now. I am also one of the oldest out of my firends (cuz i was born in 91 and everyone else born in 92 but whatever) I play 3 sports and i am wondering of something is wrong with me? My mom got it when she was 16 but my sister got it when she was 11.
I really wouldn't worry about it. Different people get their periods at different time, usually you can judge when you will start based on your family but that is not always the case. I started when I was only 11, but I know people as old as 17 who haven't started yet. It really just depends on the person. The fact that you do a lot of sport could be affecting it but it doesn't really cause a problem unless you plan on getting pregnant, and I'm guessing that you don't. If you're still concerned then I suggest you seek reassurance from your doctor.
The truth is, once you get your period you'll hate it. Seriously, they suck majorly.
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my friend told me that she had dry sex but i dont really know what that is isnt it just sex with ur clothes on? how is that possible?
Dry sex is basically what you said, sex with your clothes on. You keep your clothes on and rub against each other in order to stimulate one another.
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I'm not really depressed but ...................
Late at night (well not really late, just about midnight) at the weekends when I'm still up, for some reason I start to feel really sad, like i'm useless, and there is no point in living, not like I feel suicidal, I just think that my life is crap and pointless.
I don't know why, as usually, in the day, I think my life is quite good, I think I'm lucky, and this even happens on days that have been really great.
Why is this? Is it just because I'm tired, or is it more than that?
And how can I stop feeliong like this when its late?
(by the way, I dont get this feeling if I'm partying or with my friends late at night, only when I'm on my own, and I'm not doing much.
If it helps I'm 13/f.
Welcome to Hormones-ville, please tread carefully.
Okay, you're a thirteen year old girl. I'm not saying your problems are worthless because I know that to you this is a big problem but let me tell you now, nearly all girls go through this kind of thing. You're growing up, the chemicals in your body are going all over the place and there will be times when you'll feel bad.
Like you said, tiredness isn't going to help. I'm guessing that it'll be late at night, you'll be sitting alone in your room and it'll seem like nothing's working. Am I right? One of the main reasons that it's specifically late at night that you feel sad is because you're tired and alone. Obviously the whole hormones deal plays a part in it too but being tired and alone won't help.
I suggest that whenever you feel down you think about all the good stuff in your life, because it seems like you have good friends and a pretty happy life overall. You just have to remember that this is normal and your friends probably have times where they feel exactly the same as you do.
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I'm not having sex, but the month is almost over and I haven't had my period yet. I run track and that's about it. Is there any reason why it hasn't come on? Please help me asap. thank u
A lot of young girls find that their period is irregular at first. After a few years it will probably even out but a lot of people find that their period is always irregular and that's normal.
If your period has always been regular up until now then the fact that you run could be affecting it. However this isn't really a problem and it won't harm you in anyway. If you don't run for a few months then it should go back to normal but there's no need for that unless you plan on getting pregnant soon.
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ok i have 2 best friends a boy and a girl,and they been my 2 best friends forever and we been like a little group the 3 musketeers and now all of a sudden he asked her out n now im left out there together and im scared that if they break up i have to pick sides i need help really badly
It's completely normal to feel like that. I used to be very close friends with a guy and a girl and we used to hang out together and stuff. I was really annoyed when I found out that he liked her because I knew it would make things difficult.
What you have to remember is that as we grow up, friendships change and develop. Instead of looking for the bad side in the situation, try to see it as a good thing. Let them know that you don't want to be caught in the middle of their problems but that you want to remain friends with them both, whatever happens. That way they won't expect you to take sides. Make sure there are times when you can all hang out together but you also have to let them have time alone as a couple.
In the mean time, I suggest you branch out a little and meet some new people so that you won't feel as rejected and left out.
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I badly need your advice on something that's been bothering me with a young male officemate and close friend. I'm not that adept to male ego complexities yet. We were good friends turned bad so to speak. Its always been good joking around with him but one incident changed it all...We were drinking at the party and he was touchy-feely all of a sudden. i realized he was just tipsy but he was already suggesting something intimate eversince even after that... when we were sober in a joking way. Now its awkward for both of us, its like we keep on running around avoiding each other. I don't want to lose his friendship but I don't understand where all this came from? Am I reading something that's not there? He's acting so strange lately like I don't mean anything to him anymore? Please help me. Jamimah Eudele Reyes
It sounds like he's probably just embarassed about what happened, which is understandable. He might have feelings for you which would make it more uncomfortable for him as he may have felt like you rejected him. I can't tell you whether he does or not for sure. The only way you're going to be able to get to the bottom of it is to speak to him. I know that may seem a bit daunting but it's the best way to sort out what's going on.
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Hey, ok so i recently just got a boyfriend and i love him! but i feel like he likes me more in a sexual way than he does emotionally. should i do something?
Try not to do too much sexual stuff with him, if he starts to get annoyed with you or confronts you about it then tell him that you want to take the sexual side of your relationship slowly. If he understands and truly cares about you then he'll be prepared to wait for you to be ready. If he doesn't, then he wasn't worth it in the first place.
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I think i might have OCD
-Ive got a habit of washing my hands after everything or whenever touching something. Even when im by a sink i wash them.
-If a word comes into my head, i have to say it otherwise i panic, no word in particular just anything.
-I brush my hair every 5 minutes.
-I look in the mirror all the time
-If somethings out of place i have to move it back.
-I have to double check everything like make sure the doors are shut.
-When i touch something i have to touch it with my other hand aswell so its equal.
and so much more
what do you think?
Many teenagers and young people will have some OCD symptoms, such as having urges to brush your hair or do actions as they come into your head. But you seem to have quite a few symptoms so it might be a good idea to visit a doctor. It doesn't sound like you have it severely but a doctor will be able to diagnose you properly and put your mind at rest.
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Most people say once you have sex it means your not a virgin anymore..and some people say once you had been fingered and not had sex means your not a virgin either is that true?
Fingering, oral sex, heavy petting, whatever you do...You haven't lost your virginity until a penis enters your vagina or you enter your penis into somebody else's vagina. It has to be a penis, tampons, dildos and fingers do not count.
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Can people see the list of questions you asked? like on the side when your logged on it says My questions can they get to that and know who wrote it?
The only way people who can see the questions you've asked are yourself, level II mods and above and anyone who's logged onto your account. The only reason anyone except you and the high level mods will be able to see them is if you've given out your login details or your account has been hacked. The recent site news will tell you how to prevent that happening. The mods will probably only look at your questions if there's been an abuse report or something along those lines so there's no need to worry.
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Hey. Can anybody tell me what CD the song- A little less 16 candles, a little more "Touch Me" by Green Day is on. Thanks a bunch!
That song is by Fall Out Boy and it's on From Under The Cork tree.
For future reference, you could just type in that song name on google. It would save you a load of time.
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What are websites to places similar to Myspace? Like places where you can make a site and have people look at it and have their own?
http://www.bebo.com
http://www.greatestjournal.com
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