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MY 2 BEST FRIENDS ARE GOING OUT
ok i have 2 best friends a boy and a girl,and they been my 2 best friends forever and we been like a little group the 3 musketeers and now all of a sudden he asked her out n now im left out there together and im scared that if they break up i have to pick sides i need help really badly
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It's completely normal to feel like that. I used to be very close friends with a guy and a girl and we used to hang out together and stuff. I was really annoyed when I found out that he liked her because I knew it would make things difficult.
What you have to remember is that as we grow up, friendships change and develop. Instead of looking for the bad side in the situation, try to see it as a good thing. Let them know that you don't want to be caught in the middle of their problems but that you want to remain friends with them both, whatever happens. That way they won't expect you to take sides. Make sure there are times when you can all hang out together but you also have to let them have time alone as a couple.
In the mean time, I suggest you branch out a little and meet some new people so that you won't feel as rejected and left out.
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The best thing that you could do is to tell them both what you are feeling. Don't shield or hide your feelings because that could complicate things between all three of you in the future. Tell them both that you are worried. Tell them what you're worried about calmly and make them promise that they won't make you choose who to be friends with between them. Make them promise that. Also, try at least to make them feel as if they were you. Then they'd understand why you're so stressed out and that could so work to your advantage. That will. It just depends on your approach. Be honest and not too the OC DRAMATIC. Just state your feelings and be for real. Hope I was some help. Nice day to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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O.K. talk to them and tell them that if they break up you're not picking sides. You're gunna act like you always do. They'll prob. agree and when they break up they're gunna forget but keep reminding them after they break up!
*Hope I Helped*
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