Ok so My sister is totally alaways ranking on me because I've never had a b/f!I am a female 13 year old ! I get all depressed too. My friends alaways brag about there boyfriends and either I'M GETTING TIRED OF IT OR IM JEALOUSE!!! I dont know what to do! Boys just think of me as a friend and nothing more! My mom says its embrassing to ask them out but I am soooo confused! Tell me your oppinion!!!
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ok. if there isnt someone special that you like right now then dont worry! if someone comes along and youre like WOW, then try and get to know him a little and flirt and stuff and if everything seems to be going ok then just ask him out. loads of people dont get their first bf until their much older than you so dont worry, your friends are probably exagirating anyway. maybe youre just not ready yet. good luck, RC
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wut is discharge?
it's a whitish yellowish liquid you see in your knickers..its the vaginas natural way of keeping clean and healthy. it's nothing to worry about as long as it doesn't smell really bad or irritate your skin.
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well I am having trouble in my 7th grade math class and my grandma wants me to get a touter.She has been buging me for ever and to me if I get a totour I will feel stupid so.. Should I or should I not get a totour.
you should get a tutor, look at it this way: you can not get one and fail all your maths exams and fail high school OR you can get a tutor and be intelligent and get good grades. :)
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I really don't like this teacher at my school. She is mean to everyone and nobody likes her. I really want to pull a prank on her because I'm so angry but what should i do? Should I prank her, or just live with it the rest of the year?
Have you ever looked at it the teacher's point of view??? she probably finds it really hard, how would you like it if everybody hated you? try and make an effort to be nice and she might be nice back, you can't expect her to be nice to you if you're nasty to her can you?
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ok i have a really hot and awsome bf...i get good grades...i have tons of friends...and i am lots of fun clubs..(gifted and talented siging)..my family is awsome...for some reason i feel like i am missing something..like there is a big whole in my body tht is missing..can anyone explain?
you have no time for yourself!!! That's what's missing, you need to make time for yourself that's all. :)
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my friend thinks it's funny that she's not doing her homework. Every time we try to talk to her, she doesn't listen. She's failing and i don't know wht to do.
if she doesn't listen to you, then get someone else to talk to her who she WILL listen to. You could all arrange to go round to someone's house and do homework together, this might help. If not, then you have to let her learn from her own mistakes, one day she'll realise that she isn't doing herself any good. :)
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Ok there is this thing during lunch and I am like, idk, like all WHATEVER! about it. and my friends want me to go and i want to go but i think the preppies in my school are like, oh yeah look at me, and I dont like people like that. But deep down i feel that if i go that i'll become good friends with them. What should I do?
if you want to go, go. if you don't want to go, don't go. it's easy.
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Hi,Can you help me? I think i like 1 boy but what if i like another boy thogh because i think the guy i really like isn't interested in me! I am a female so can u plz get back to me how do i know who i like? at the time i am very confused!
Plz help me from
AdviceGurl88 :) :) :)
well it doesn't matter if you like the first boy if he doesn't like you...get to know the other one. you know you like someone when:
you're v shy round them,
you get embaressed talking bout them
you think about them ALOT
etc etc
:)
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I have a boyfriend, but I have a crush on someone else,what should I do?
are you sure you have a real crush or do you just think this person is fit??? if you really like the other person then you have to let your boyfriend go, it isn't fair on him.
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im a 14 year old 8th grader...and the guy i like is a freshman and i dont want to get pressured into anything bad... ok so... i like this guy... but iv never really met him...but i talk to him on im... and what i know of him i really like...and he asked me out...what do i do???
this is very simple. He asked you out, you like him, so you say yes and wahey, you're going out. I don't see your problem, its so straight forward.:)
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My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do?
Don't tell your friend, it'll cause problems and this guy isn't worth it, move on and find a guy who likes you like you like him.
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my parents don't let me do anything they treat me like a child altho im 13 and almost 14 how am I suppoed to let them let me do stuff????
you need to talk to your parents. try and compromise with them, eg, if you want to go to a party and they want you back home by 9, then ask them if you can stay out til 10 if they pick you up. get them to talk to your friends parents about what they let their children do so that they can see if they really are treating you too young. try and see it your parents way too though, they obviously care about you a lot and want you to be safe. good luck. :)
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I've been really good friends with this one girl for nearly my entire life (I'm a girl too btw) and I've always considered her my best friend; however, she's never been very nice to me. She's not a very nice person at all actually. We may have had laughs and great memories together, but as long as I've known her she's always done incredibly bitchy things to me. She would give me something for my birthday and then take it back and give it to her bf. She's stolen the guy I liked right infront of me (and whenever I'm around she calls him on her cell just to make me jealous), she invites all of my best friends to her parties so they won't come to mine telling them that if they go to mine instead of hers that she won't be friends with them anymore... she constantly complains about how stupid I am... and other things like that too. I know that she's not a good friend, and I admit that I don't like her at all anymore! but she thinks that I'm her best friend... and it makes me sad to look back at all the things that we've gone through together. I can't just stop being friends with her can I? We've been "best friends" for over 11 years now! I don't know what I should do. If I told her that I don't like the way she acts I have the feeling that she'll punch me in the face because she's done that before... what should I do?
OMG. How did you put up with her for so long??? you need to tell her how you feel, she may punch you in the face but you have to tell her. If she can't change then she's the one who's going have a lonely life and no fun, not you. you don't have to be her friend, she has no power over you. You don't have to put up with the insults and her cruelty, just tell her how you feel, if she can't change, ditch her.
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how do i get one of my guy friends to like me?
well. you can't make someone like you, all you can do is flirt and get to know him really well. i'm sorry but really, thats all you can do. :)
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hi
im a 14 yr old female. ive got a boyfriend and hes recently aske me 2 give him a blowjob. im scared my parents will find out
wat shud i do???
did you give him one??? if not then GOOD. dont let him force you into things when your not ready. make that clear to him. if you did, then i think you should tell him that you arent doing anything else like that. dont tell your parents and they wont find out, just dont let him get you to do stuff with him that you dont want yet. :)
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is is normal to want to kiss your own arm?
hmmm...not really...do have a mental illness?
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hi. i cant get a boyfriend what should i do?
well. This is complicated. OK. boys may not find you attractive, this could be down to: 1) what you wear, 2) how you look etc. You could try and get a new hair cut, wear make up etc but that would be changing you and you shouldnt do that for a guy. Try and make friends with guys and do some flirting and you never know. you may not be ready for a boyfriend yet..take life as it comes to you. good luck xoxo :)
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