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My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do?

Don't tell your friend, it'll cause problems and this guy isn't worth it, move on and find a guy who likes you like you like him.


my parents don't let me do anything they treat me like a child altho im 13 and almost 14 how am I suppoed to let them let me do stuff????

you need to talk to your parents. try and compromise with them, eg, if you want to go to a party and they want you back home by 9, then ask them if you can stay out til 10 if they pick you up. get them to talk to your friends parents about what they let their children do so that they can see if they really are treating you too young. try and see it your parents way too though, they obviously care about you a lot and want you to be safe. good luck. :)


I've been really good friends with this one girl for nearly my entire life (I'm a girl too btw) and I've always considered her my best friend; however, she's never been very nice to me. She's not a very nice person at all actually. We may have had laughs and great memories together, but as long as I've known her she's always done incredibly bitchy things to me. She would give me something for my birthday and then take it back and give it to her bf. She's stolen the guy I liked right infront of me (and whenever I'm around she calls him on her cell just to make me jealous), she invites all of my best friends to her parties so they won't come to mine telling them that if they go to mine instead of hers that she won't be friends with them anymore... she constantly complains about how stupid I am... and other things like that too. I know that she's not a good friend, and I admit that I don't like her at all anymore! but she thinks that I'm her best friend... and it makes me sad to look back at all the things that we've gone through together. I can't just stop being friends with her can I? We've been "best friends" for over 11 years now! I don't know what I should do. If I told her that I don't like the way she acts I have the feeling that she'll punch me in the face because she's done that before... what should I do?

OMG. How did you put up with her for so long??? you need to tell her how you feel, she may punch you in the face but you have to tell her. If she can't change then she's the one who's going have a lonely life and no fun, not you. you don't have to be her friend, she has no power over you. You don't have to put up with the insults and her cruelty, just tell her how you feel, if she can't change, ditch her.


how do i get one of my guy friends to like me?

well. you can't make someone like you, all you can do is flirt and get to know him really well. i'm sorry but really, thats all you can do. :)



im a 14 yr old female. ive got a boyfriend and hes recently aske me 2 give him a blowjob. im scared my parents will find out

wat shud i do???

did you give him one??? if not then GOOD. dont let him force you into things when your not ready. make that clear to him. if you did, then i think you should tell him that you arent doing anything else like that. dont tell your parents and they wont find out, just dont let him get you to do stuff with him that you dont want yet. :)


is is normal to want to kiss your own arm?

hmmm...not have a mental illness?


hi. i cant get a boyfriend what should i do?

well. This is complicated. OK. boys may not find you attractive, this could be down to: 1) what you wear, 2) how you look etc. You could try and get a new hair cut, wear make up etc but that would be changing you and you shouldnt do that for a guy. Try and make friends with guys and do some flirting and you never know. you may not be ready for a boyfriend yet..take life as it comes to you. good luck xoxo :)


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