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ok theres this boy lets just call him johnny. well lately me and johnny have been talking and its like a friendship thing but lately as i have been talking to him i ve begun to like him as more than a friend but theres a problem earlier this month he had a crush on my cousin and see my cousin doesnt like him shes in a relationship and has been for 2 yrs. but johnny hints that he still likes her and i dont know if i could compete with her or if it would be alright for me to go out with him after him and my cousin have had some "history"
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They have no history if they never dated. Go for it. :)
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My friend Bethany likes the guy that I'm absolutley head over heels in love with..I cant keep my mind off the kid and I just Love him.. Should I get with him? or should I just try to forget him?
Please I need help
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Whoever gets him first! Nobody has him yet so he's fair game. If you like him, go for it. :)
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14/ f..ok to start out i've been with the guy for a little over a month. im really talkative but i still chock up cuz sometimes im not sure he really likes me. he has a hard time expressing himself and he has a phone-phobia. is it wrong for the girl to call everytime. i dont call everyday but i feel like im being pushy since i was the one that asked him out. what your view? thanx. (link)
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I think if you ask is it okay for me to call? And he says yes, then it's okay to call. So long as you aren't calling 20 times a day and driving him nuts, I see no problem with it. :)
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Well everytime i go some where like walking around my neighbor hood or driving in my car all these guys stop and look at me! its really starting to make me mad. I was walking home from school and this guy stopped and asked me my name and stuff. and just today a car full of guys stopped and asked me to come over to them its really gettin on my nerves. i dont dress slutty or any thing i just wear jeans a a big shirt or shorts and a long shirt. how do i get them to stop! (link)
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If you don't know them then keep away from them, hot or not. Maybe walk with another person. :)
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I am a 15 year old female. There is this boy i really like and he flirts with me and i flirt back. He pokes me all the time and makes fun of me and everything. He went out with one of my friends but they broke up in January and only went out for a week. What should i do? (link)
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Just talk and be friendly. If you want to know what he's feeling, simply ask him.
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well there is this guy and i like him a lot and he knida flirts with me but i dont know if he is just plaing or flirting . he does stuff like slap my butt(a lot) and he is really sweet. at the beginning of the year me, him, and some other people were playing truth or dare and we got dared to kiss. oh ya and at the beginning orf the year(before truth or dare) i asked him out but he said ne after a lot of thought like a whole days worth. does he like me or is he just playing?. i rate 5s. please help me. 14 f (link)
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I don't know if butt slapping is considered flirting or not. Probably not. If you want the answer to this one you'll just have to ask him. If he doesn't I'd tell him to keep his hands off the merchandise! :)
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I really love my boyfriend a lot. We have known each other for a long time. But I like to flirt a lot with other guys, sometimes i just can't help it. And my boyfriend will find out sometimes and it makes him feel bad. I don't think he would break up with me but I hate to hurt him. It makes me feel so bad. What can I do? (link)
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Other than stopping I don't know what you can do. He will just have to learn to accept it as part of your personality. My husband is an awful flirt, I know he isn't serious...he's just a flirt. And he does it with me standing right there. Can't say I always like it (lol) but, that's just him. It's just the way you are, try explaining that to him and hope he can understand. :)
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I have liked this kid since like 8th grade... im a sophomore now... my friend told him and he said that we were both busy... him with basketball and me with winter track... this was in the winter and now its spring... i have spring track and soccer but i have no problems... he asked my other friend about me and when im not in class or school he asks my friend where i ama nd the next day he always ask if i was sick and just seems concerned... but i dont know if he likes me or if its just me... i really wanna hang with him as friends but i dont know how to ask or even how to see if he likes me... i need help like crazy...
crazy and confused
Gomesy
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I think it is safe to say he likes you. Just start talking to him and asking him questions. Maybe discuss how a movie playing close by looks good...and boy, I'd really like to see that one.Maybe he will take a hint and ask you to go see it with him! :)
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what are some good questions to ask when you play the game 20 questions? (link)
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oh man, lets see.
Is it bigger than a bread box?
can you wear it?
can you use it in the kitchen (or any room)?
Could I find it in my yard?
Does it have wheels?
Those kinds of things. You can ask anything really, even something really silly.Just use your imagination! :)
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Okay i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15. We really care about each other and he is really open about his feelings. He told me that he loves me and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me . He even said if we were old enough he would marry me!He writes me notes and sometimes he will read them over the phone. We went to the movies and he fingered me and he wanted me to touch him but i wouldn't. I feel the same way he does but i'm too scared to say it. I say that I love him but that's all. Im too embarrased to read the notes over the phone i write him. And i love it when he touches me like he does and i want to touch him but for some reason i just wont. What should i do? (link)
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Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with. You need to make him stop too. You aren't ready for all that yet. :)
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WILL RATE HIGH...i am lost...my best friend is going out with this guy that she knew liked and i told her it would be ok if she did go out with him (vice versa). he doesnt go to our school. i met him through my friend who knows him from outside activities. he liked her for a really long time, but she never liked him back, until now. this guy knew i liked him to but we both didnt know if would work out if we started dating. anyway, he asked my friend out and theyve been going out for a month now. i talk to him on the phone almost everyday and he confuses me.he's like leading me on, almost. he tells me he's gonna break up w/her for this and that reason, and i dont know how to respond. do i want them to stay together, and be a good friend, but i dont really know...i like him still...ive been out w/one guy since they've started going out and i broke up with him b/c i liked this guy...he says for me to wait for him...am i just wasting my time...waiting for something that will never be??? i really need help...WILL RATE HIGH. thnx!
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Oh boy, you are stuck in the middle aren't you?
If he is the one you want then I guess you just wait. You can't really encourage a break up, that wouldn't be nice nor would it look to good. Your girlfriend will probably be mad when he asks you out...be ready for that. Maybe not, but most likely will be. If you want him though you don't have much choice. Wait, but not to long. Don't let him string you both along for months or anything. :)
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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
I rate high!
*depressed and sad
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You can talk about the weather. Or some recent thing that happened at school. Maybe he's wearing a T shirt with a band on it you could comment on. :)
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I have always had this crush on a boy named Riley and so has my friend Anna. But then I realized that Riley was to young, so Anna and I gave up on him. But now, I have a crush on a boy named Camden, and I didn't tell Anna because I didn't want her to "win" him. One day, I went to go get a drink in the hallway, and I came back into the classroom, and I saw Anna FLIRTING with Camden! CAN'T I LIKE ONE SINGLE VOY WITHOUT ANNA BARGING IN! I know Camden doesn't like me, but it's worth a shot. Does anyone know how I can "win" guys without friends stealing them?! (link)
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She didn't really "steal" him since you didn't tell her that you liked him. If you want a guy to notice you ,you'll have to go up to them and talk. You don't have to flirt...talking works too :)
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hi i am had the injection as form of contraception is there any possiblility that i can fall pregnant on the injection is it 100% safe or 99%? im not sure and i really dont wanna sound dumb or anything? (link)
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It works the same as the pill. No form of birth control is 100%. You still need to have your partner use condoms because no form of birth control protects you from AIDS or STD's. :)
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Hey guys-
I have mozilla firefox and i want to delete my google history (like when u go to the search box and a list of past searches come up) please help me! (link)
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Tools
internet options
general
go to history. Under days to keep, set to zero
hit clear history
All gone
:)
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A couple nights ago I got the worst feeling.. like something was TERRIBLY wrong but everyone and everything ended up being okay. So I don't know why I got that feeling. But lately, i started noticing bruises and discolorations on my body. Most of them don't hurt. Then today i started getting sick.. like i could barely breathe, i was dizzy, my head was pounding, and i blacked out a few times. I don't know what's wrong. Someone please help me.. and please be serious.. this isn't funny at all. I'm really scared. (link)
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You need to tell your mom and go see a doctor. Even if nothing is wrong, you will feel better hearing it from a doctor. :)
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About two or three months ago i went to a youth councelor to figure out why i had no friends, was lonely,depressed,angry and sometimes suicidal. They told me that it is because i worry too much about what people think about me and it causes me to have like an anxiety and stuff which made me lack the normal skills a person has for like comunicating with others which causes this friendless life. I was given three choices ither go on medication which i would never do, go to an organised activity with social workers and they would work with you and show you how to communicate and what not, and the other one was somewhat the same thing. Nither of the choices i had fit me well, so i decided to improve on it myself by not worrying about what people thought about me and talk to people and try to make plans to do something, and no matter how hard i try or what i do to try and improve nothing is working. All i want is to enjoy life in high school and have fun, i hate always thinking how my days sucked, my birthday is in 2 days and i wont get one happy bday at school, or have someone make me a card or anything like friends do at school so like i dont know just too much is running through my head and im getting ideas again and i just want to know how i can improve more or what to do....
Yours Truly:
Friendless (link)
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Do one of the activities the counsler sugegested. I think you will be surprised at how much it will help you. Go in with a good attitude and get your life on the right track. Good Luck! :)
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hey the other day my dad made me feel really bad i didnt say anything to him and we talked about ppls death and if I died I asked if he would cry forever like my mom said she would think about me every night and cry but all he said was no i can't put my life away just because u died i would need to move on i feel really bad and my dad has always been caring for just himself. Whenever I try talking to him he starts yelling for no reason. What should I do? (link)
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Mom answered you like a mom. Dad answered like a dad! They both would feel bad if you died. Mom and dad would both cry for a long time. Dad's (for some reason) think they have to be tough guys! They aren't always but it makes everyone feel safer thinking they are!
Dad answered truthfully. Whenever we lose someone we love, we feel really bad and cry for a long time. But, like he said, life does go on. He still has to feed the rest of the family and everyone still has to get up everyday and do their thing. He probably sounded a little harsh but he told you how it is. You will understand it more as you get older and when you experience it firsthand.
Dad's are also sometimes under a lot of stress at work and stuff that can make them yell a lot and sometimes seem selfish. Next time he starts yelling for no reason...ask him why. He might have a reason, you just may not realize what it is. If he's in a bad mood, just kind of steer clear of him until he's in a better one. Hope that makes you feel a little better! :)
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Thank you very much for being so honest with your answer!! I really do appreciate it. I'm going to see my boyfriend tomorrow and talk about our relationship properly.
Just to update you....
I went out last night to the bar where he works-not intentionally though-some of my friends were drinking in there.
Anyway, he turned up at about 9 for work and I got quite shy when he came to say hi to us because all my friends were staring at me and teasing me-typical!! Anyway, I went to the bathroom and on my way back went up to the bar on my own to say hi and get a glass of water. He asked if I was going out to a club after and I said no, he said he wasn't either.
I was worried how he would act after the other night because we were both quite drunk. But it's the little things I noticed last night like he put ice and lemon in my water and no one elses, he always came back towards the bar past us and I caught his eye quite a few times. But then I think he had to come back past us in case we had any empty glasses he could clear away.
Just as we were leaving he came in and put his hand on the small of my back and asked again if I was going out. Again I said no. He then asked me about the ring I was wearing (it was a really massive noticable ring) and he took my hand to have a look at it. Was that being friendly or more? It's so confusing!
He carried on clearing away the drinks and we started to leave. He then asked me the same question about going out again as I was walking past the bar to leave-about two minutes later! I said no again and he said that he'd see me next week then.
He isn't coming back in the fall but my godfather lives in Sydney (where this guy is from) and is always inviting me to stay with him.
Is he just being friendly now or do you think he does fancy me? Could he be embarrassed that I said I was going home when he asked about going out on Friday in the text?
Thank you Karen!!
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Daisy, I think he he is definitley interested! I'm sure seeing your ring he was curious as to who gave it to you and whatnot. He sure wanted to make sure that you weren't going out didn't he?! Also let you know he was going home too (after work). He had no dates or anything planned. I think you said that you had told him you had a boyfriend? I think he is trying to figure out if he has a shot or not. Maybe you will have more to tell him next week.
If you told him you were going home This Friday, I think he is okay with it. He knows he has next Friday. If you see him tonight and it comes up just tell him you have some things to sort out there. He may realize you are going to see boyfriend, may even be a little jealous, even though he knows he shouldn't be.
Glad you have an Uncle in Sydney. There is some hope that if things go well the opportunity to see him after next month exists! Am excited for you! Let me know what happens. KAREN (YG)
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i know that pneumatics means mechanical properties of air and other gases, and how it works and stuff like that. i guess i dont understand it enough to know examples of it though. what would some examples be? thanks (link)
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mfs pretty much covered examples for you i only have a couple more to add. Air compresser tools, and it is used in the tanks divers use. :)
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