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I really love my boyfriend a lot. We have known each other for a long time. But I like to flirt a lot with other guys, sometimes i just can't help it. And my boyfriend will find out sometimes and it makes him feel bad. I don't think he would break up with me but I hate to hurt him. It makes me feel so bad. What can I do?
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Try not to flirt? Or maybe you should ask his permission. If he says you can flirt with other guys, you won't feel as bad. And in order to get his permission, say you promise you won't ignore him, or that you'll flirt with him more than anyone else. I was in this same situation once. Give it a try.
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There is a simple answer to this solution if you really love your boyfriend you wouldn't flirt with other guys. I know its hare but you have to resist if you truely dont want to hurt him!
Luv,
advicehotti21
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try your hardest to not flirt with other guys. what do you think you owuld do if you saw your b/f flirting with the school slut? you would not apriciate it. just try to get in his head and see how he feels. i know where your coming from because im just like you , i just cant help it, its just the way i am. just really try hard, because you dont want to ruin your relationship. try to limit it to just talking, not touching. never ever flirt with a guy if your guy is in the same room with you. my guy ruined it for us wen i saw him flirting with the skool slut when he was sitting rite across the room from me...not fun...trust me...i hope all goes well...
...remember you only live once...
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my boyfriend likes to flirt a lot too, but i know that he loves me more than anything in the world, i suggest talking to him. let him know that he's the guy that you love and no other. flirting is just part of who you are, it's meanless. you just have to make sure that he knows how you feel about him.
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Weigh the situation. What do you want? to go on flirting with other guys and by the process hurting your boyfriend? or not flirting with the guys but feeling happy since you didn't hurt your boyfriend. if you choose the 1st then think of the consequences. What if your boyfriend feels so bad that he'll break up with you. It won't be easy so as early as now make your decision.
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Other than stopping I don't know what you can do. He will just have to learn to accept it as part of your personality. My husband is an awful flirt, I know he isn't serious...he's just a flirt. And he does it with me standing right there. Can't say I always like it (lol) but, that's just him. It's just the way you are, try explaining that to him and hope he can understand. :)
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There's one thing I would like to point out. If you really do love your boyfriend, you would have no desire for other guys and you wouldn't need to flirt with anyone else. If you're guy is really special to you, you don't need any other guy in your romantic section of your life. Flirting with other people while with a boyfriend usually means your boyfriend is not that special to you enough to keep you from flirting with other guys. Just keep this in mind.
Your boyfriend has every right to feel bad. Just imagine him flirting with a bunch of other girls. It's not that lovely of a scene and I'm sure you'd love to shoo all of those girls away from him.
What you need to do is keep from flirting with guys. Don't start to flirt with other guys. Just talk to them as a friend. Not a friend with benefits. If they are the ones to start with flirting, just smile at them and talk about something else. If you really can't keep from flirting with other guys, it's time to break up with your boyfriend because it will only end up in hurting him even more. Hope it works out.
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Dont flirt back? If you relize that you are flirting with a guy just swich the topic and stop. You wouldnt really like it if your boyfriend flirted with girls infront of you and stuff. And if you do flirt dont do it right infront of him. x0
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That sucks! Try not to flirt with guys, especially in front of him. No guy wants to see that! Good luck.
-Brianna
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Don't flirt with other guys, you do have a boyfriend. Place yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if he was flirting with another girl? Everytime you feel like your flirting with a guy, switch the topic, or think about how you would feel if he was doing this to you. Maybe once you realize how he feels, you'll stop the flirting.
♥ Krissy
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Well first let me start with if you really in truely LOVE your boyfriend then you probly wouldn't flirt with other guys... And since you do and you don't want to hurt him theres 2 solutions either stop flirting with other guys or break up with him.. so yeah you take your pick!
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Don't flirt with other guys then. When you realize you are flirting, stop and start a new topic.
Hope I Helped!
Ke
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