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Okay i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15. We really care about each other and he is really open about his feelings. He told me that he loves me and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me . He even said if we were old enough he would marry me!He writes me notes and sometimes he will read them over the phone. We went to the movies and he fingered me and he wanted me to touch him but i wouldn't. I feel the same way he does but i'm too scared to say it. I say that I love him but that's all. Im too embarrased to read the notes over the phone i write him. And i love it when he touches me like he does and i want to touch him but for some reason i just wont. What should i do?
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I know exactly how you feel cuz the exact thing is happening to me. I love him he loves me. thats all that matters. He does syuff to me, but he knows i am not comfortable touching him....... he respects that and your guy should too. If he doesnt then you should really consider why you love him. Hope i helped!
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if you don want to, then dont! how long have you been together? be glad that he wants to share, it should make you a bit more comfortable but that does not mean you have to do anything physical. <3
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Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with. You need to make him stop too. You aren't ready for all that yet. :)
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Maybe you're afraid to touch him because you're not...READY. When you're ready, you'll know, and you won't be afraid. Touching usually leads to other things, and I'm sure you're aware of what those other things are. Might I add, he is 15. MOST 15 year old guys will not date younger girls except to use them. That's because younger girls are easier to manipulate. Most 15 year old guys have hormones going crazy and they want sex. I am NOT trying to put you down, but please be cautious about him. I am only warning you. He may only be using you for the sex. Don't let him make you do things you are not ready for and don't let words convince you to do them. You're only 13, and you have the rest of your life to have sex with the one you love.
Just tell him you're not comfortable or ready to get intimate. If he really does love you, he will not care if you do not want to get too intimate. Don't worry about it if you want to take it slow. Taking it slow is actually a good thing. Good luck.
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Why wont you? Theres nothing wrong with it. Just do it once to see how it is and if you dont like it then dont do it. But it isnt fair because you are the one who is getting all the pleasure and your not giving anything back to him in return and it just isnt fair. Hes your boyfriend and dont be shy or scared to read the notes over the phone. He reads his to you so you should feel comftrable reading it to him. Like I said do it once and maybe you will get used to it. x0
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