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The Australian!!


Question Posted Thursday April 21 2005, 6:28 am

Thank you very much for being so honest with your answer!! I really do appreciate it. I'm going to see my boyfriend tomorrow and talk about our relationship properly.
Just to update you....
I went out last night to the bar where he works-not intentionally though-some of my friends were drinking in there.
Anyway, he turned up at about 9 for work and I got quite shy when he came to say hi to us because all my friends were staring at me and teasing me-typical!! Anyway, I went to the bathroom and on my way back went up to the bar on my own to say hi and get a glass of water. He asked if I was going out to a club after and I said no, he said he wasn't either.
I was worried how he would act after the other night because we were both quite drunk. But it's the little things I noticed last night like he put ice and lemon in my water and no one elses, he always came back towards the bar past us and I caught his eye quite a few times. But then I think he had to come back past us in case we had any empty glasses he could clear away.
Just as we were leaving he came in and put his hand on the small of my back and asked again if I was going out. Again I said no. He then asked me about the ring I was wearing (it was a really massive noticable ring) and he took my hand to have a look at it. Was that being friendly or more? It's so confusing!
He carried on clearing away the drinks and we started to leave. He then asked me the same question about going out again as I was walking past the bar to leave-about two minutes later! I said no again and he said that he'd see me next week then.
He isn't coming back in the fall but my godfather lives in Sydney (where this guy is from) and is always inviting me to stay with him.
Is he just being friendly now or do you think he does fancy me? Could he be embarrassed that I said I was going home when he asked about going out on Friday in the text?
Thank you Karen!!
Daisy


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karenR answered Thursday April 21 2005, 7:41 am:
Daisy, I think he he is definitley interested! I'm sure seeing your ring he was curious as to who gave it to you and whatnot. He sure wanted to make sure that you weren't going out didn't he?! Also let you know he was going home too (after work). He had no dates or anything planned. I think you said that you had told him you had a boyfriend? I think he is trying to figure out if he has a shot or not. Maybe you will have more to tell him next week.

If you told him you were going home This Friday, I think he is okay with it. He knows he has next Friday. If you see him tonight and it comes up just tell him you have some things to sort out there. He may realize you are going to see boyfriend, may even be a little jealous, even though he knows he shouldn't be.

Glad you have an Uncle in Sydney. There is some hope that if things go well the opportunity to see him after next month exists! Am excited for you! Let me know what happens. KAREN (YG)

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