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I recently found my dad and he agreed to take a dna test. But then never has. Is there any laws or anything that will make him take the test? I have all his info. (link)
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Take hair from his comb, make him seal and envelope with his tongue.
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Me and my girlfriend want to have sex. I'm 17 and she's 18. How do we do it ? (link)
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You take your penis and stick it into her vagina... But make sure you wear a condom, unless you want a child. Yep, seems pretty simple.
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Sorry this is long...hope you like novels :P
I was going out with her for 9 months but it was the slowest relationship ever! We enjoyed each other’s company but we were so shy. We hardly ever went on dates and never got very far, it was a bit pathetic really. By the time we got to the point where we could have had a normal, awesome relationship she’d lost interest and we broke up a couple of months ago. Of course we said “we’ll still be friends” but that’s always just the nicest way of saying “I want to break up with you”. Stupidly I took this to mean that we both just wanted a break (that’s how I felt anyway) so it was pretty heart wrenching when she got a new boyfriend about a month ago. I’ve spent the last 2 months trying to get over her, forget her etc but I can’t seem to do it. I spend every moment at home trying to convince myself that it’s over, it’s for the best and I don’t love her anymore etc but as soon as I see her again at school that all goes out the window. I’m always daydreaming about her coming back to me or about how I could have done things better and stuff and then I realize how pathetic it is that I’m still doing this after 2 months, snap out of it and get really angry with myself. Then 10 minutes later I’m doing it again, it’s tearing me apart and becomes a huge distraction (I’m meant to be doing an art assignment right now :P) I love her but I guess I have 2 options:
a) use advice from you guys to move on (realistic)or
b) use advice from you guys to get her back (desired)
Thanks soo much :)
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Hey man, im a 17 year old guy, and i can say, ive recently went through THE SAME EXACT THING haha.
I went out with my gf for a month or two, and even though it was a short time, it was great. We connected and felt like we knew each other for years. But then, overnight, she transformed into a total biznatch.
What is so much worse is that i dont even know the real reason why she broke up with me, so its still a big mystery. And it happened a month ago, and im still not over it.
Im probably not the best guy to give you advice, since im searching for this advice myself lol. But what i can say is that jealousy is a total bitch, even worse than your ex-girlfriend.
It is MORE THAN normal to be jealous, you are human, and it shows that you still care for her.
As for trying to get her back, im sorry to say, you need to move on. Relationships dont get back unless there has something that has changed, and from what ive seen nothing has changed between you two. You gotta move on, man. Plenty of girls out there, especially in college:).
Getting over her? That is hard. YOu have to give it time. It wont take weeks, or even months. It might even take a whole year, but time will heal it, time heals everything.
Other things that can help is cutting off contact. Cause think about it, you can't quit smoking but at the same time still look at smoking and still be friends with smoking and still watch smoking and think of smoking. If you see her at school, take other routes so that you dont see her. If she is in one of your classes, ask the teacher if you can switch because you are distracted by her. Your teacher will definitely understand. If she has the same friends, avoid some of those friends for the time being. Make it so that you literally dont even see what she looks like in a week, or even to a month. Hey, im doing that right now with MY ex, and its working, im finally healing. BUt then again, she is always in the back of my head. But dude, you will get over it. You can find a girl whos 10x hotter and 10x nicer, she is out there somewhere...
You may think you love her, but i think you are just loving the pressence of a girl. Its not her that you love, its your desire for a girl to be around that you love. You are just remembering all of the good stuff. And next time you look back, look harder, and then you will know that she wasnt that special.
You cant let this chick slow you down. Occupy yourself. Find a parttime job to make some money and have satisfaction. Study more, get ahead in classes you are behind in. Invest in a new interest, habit. Start working out (That always helps for me:) And one thing you SHOULD NOT DO, NEVER DO: is to look sad when you are around her. That is the biggest mistake ever, because if you walk around her with your head down and looking all sad, she will only talk to you again out of pity, and you dont want that. IF you just happen to be around her, look nice, shave, dress nice, smile, laugh with your friends, that way, she will realise how handsome and great you were and she will possibly come back to you (not that i suggest it)
I hope i helped, and sorry this was long advice, its just that i can relate to you. And please, ask me anything, anytime man. Hang in there.
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I'm the girl that cuts and thinks about suicide too often. I know there has to be something wrong with me mentally and that I need help. But I have no friends that I can trust, no one that even likes me. The teachers all look away whenever I come by. My parents are the type that are obsessed with image. If I tell them anything that could damage their image, they ignore it and pretend like it's not even there. So what do I do? I don't want to do it, but some days are harder to ignore than others. Who do I turn to? (link)
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STOP CUTTING YOURSELF. IM BEING SERIOUS.
you are not being cute, you are not being funny, you are not going to get attention, so stop it. Im being blunt here, but inflicting pain on yourself is not only wrong, its inhumane, and you are stupid for doing it. Im telling you the truth, im not gonna lie to you and say that "its okay to express by killing yourself"
You have problems? You think so? Think about starving kids in Africa and people with AIDS in southeast Asia. THEY HAVE PROBLEMS. You think you have if bad? Get the hell over it.
Turn to a friend, a parent, a teacher, a counselor, your principal, a doctor, a psycologist. Anybody. There are billions of people in the world, pick one to help you and stop cutting yourself. Its not going to help.
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How can I turn on this guy and make him want to have sex but just tease him because I dont want to go all the way yet? (link)
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We as guys, are assholes. Big, impatient, dick-headed assholes.
If you keep teasing him, he will leave and not even want you at all. So i suggest thinking about this more. Guys are impatient. Just remember that.
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Hey do you think its odd to be 13 and still sleeps with your parents? it is really embarrasing and my grandparents make fun of me and even my own dad but my mom dont. I didnt have my own room until i was 4 and so I always slept eith my parents. Also my siblings and things would scre me about ghosts and stuff and a lot of times I see things like wierd stuff in the middle of the night and I think about ghosts. Also another thing i worry about is that someone will break in and I want to be with my mom. When I have friends spend the night with me I sleep in my own room with them and things (which most of the time we don't sleep) but anyway. Do you think it's wierd or abnormal please help!! Thanks! (link)
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I slept with my mom until i was like 14. But not like everyday... and im a guy too haha. I didnt do it everyday, i only did it when i felt uneasy when i slept or had bad dreams or was paranoid and scared. But i didnt even sleep through the whole night with her, i would usually just rest in her bed for a few hours and go back to my own room.
If you do it everyday, then i would say it is a little unusual. But hey, you are 13. These are the times where hormones take rollercoasters and you dont know what you are feeling. You feel scared, and there is no reason why you should torture yourself by sleeping alone. If you do it everyday, then i suggest taking an alternative, but seriously. Its not that unusual. You will grow out of it.
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I am a junior, 16, female. School is over June 11th at my school. I did not take my SAT's yet, I was just planning to take them maybe three times next year. But everyone is telling me I made a big mistake. I should have taken them my junior year. I kind of don't even understand what they are? Do you think I made a big mistake? Or is it not a big deal that I waited? (link)
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Even if you dont take it at all, it wont matter. Unless you are going to a University. if you are just going to a junior college then dont worry.
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so im in high school. i am a junior. now the thing is girls always talk to me i'm not a "playa". but it seems every time i get close to a girl i end up fucking up every time so i'm just wondering what other guys do and don't do. (link)
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Im a guy too, in high school. And i totally understand your situation 100 per cent.
Since i am about to graduate, i have noticed that girls in high school have high school brains and they are flatout.... stupid.
Some guys have game, some dont. Im a guy who has no game, and i fuck up with girls as well. And when i see other guys with girls for like months to a year, i wonder, how? I have always questioned myself for the longest time throughout highschool and kept wondering, why dont girls like me and why do i mess up always?
If you want a realistic explanation, is that some guys are different and girls are not used to different guys. What happens happens, and its for a reason. If girls think you mess up and dont wanna talk to you, its because you are different or its human nature. They dont feel the interest in you anymore and they go for someone else.
Girls are interesting creatures haha. Dont worry about it now, because highschool girls never last. Wait for it to come to you, and THEN you will know that it is truly natural and the girl likes you for who you are.
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If you live in Kentucky, yes. But here where I live, in Ontario, Canada, you can't. ... pretty much ANYWHERE you can't, exept Kentucky.
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I am a 13 year old girl and I want to know what i can to to be hotter towards guys. I find myself to be okay looking, I am 5'3, pretty straight blond hair, freckles on my nose, blue eyes, straight teeth, and im not fat but I am not skinny either. My personality isn't that bad either, I am kind to everyone, smart, but I am kind of shy toward the guys I like.
I want to know what a guy around my age considers hot and what I can do to be hotter.
And Please do not put answers like I am to young to be worrying about guys or I should not change for a guy. It is not like i am getting plastic surgery! I think it would be for the best because I could get more self confidence.
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You are a 13 year old girl. First of all, boys should be the last thing on your mind now. `Its bad if you are changing yourself just to impress boys, because most likely, middle school boys wont even notice.
If you want to attract guys, why dont you worry about boosting your confidence. That is always more important than looking "hotter". Trust me. Im a teenage boy, and honestly, if a girl just decided to dress "hotter" all a sudden i would think that girl is a slut. This question is the question that girls ask when they are on the road to becoming a slut, and i dont want that for you, or anybody. America's culture is already so diseased. This country needs more classy, valued, and well-mannered girls who have self respect. Become one of them, please. Believe me. :)
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So I have this friend, he's a really nice guy and a good friend but I really can't see myself with him. He likes me alot and does really cute things for me like brings me flowers and my favorite candy when I'm sick and always asks me on dates like in cute ways and I go on the dates with him cause I do like hanging out with him, but I told him I don't wanna be more than friends. Ever since I told him he still does cute things for me and asks me on dates and everything. Is he just being a good friend or does he not get it? He says he loves my personality and finds me easy to talk to and stuff and hopes that something would "spark" but I just can't see it and I told him that but he's still acting the same...what should I do? He's such a nice guy I don't want to hurt him but then again I can't force myself to feel something for him. (link)
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Not to be totally rude or anything, but you REALLY need to hear a guys point of view.
I personally HATE it when girls act like this, when they say "i wanna just be friends"
Like, come on.
Follow your heart. All girls say they only wanna stay in the friend zone because their scared of committment or to be heartbroken. From what you have told me, this guy seems to be the real deal. Hes sweet, caring, kind, cool, polite, and he knows how to make you smile.
SHOULDNT THAT BE WHAT YOU WANT IN A BOYFRIEND? Instead of some punk ass football player who will break your heart in a week.
Im sorry, but this is what i dont goddamn understand about girls. They totally ignore the sweetest guy there, and go for Mr. Big-Shot whos hot and has a six-pack.
Follow your heart. Of course, you dont wanna force feelings, but i hate it when girls reject nice guys like this because literally, it is like rejecting a chance at true love. This guy could be your next husband.... you never know until you give him a damn chance for once instead of shooting him down all the time. At least give him a chance, because life will suck if you never take a risk. And if he doesnt work out, you can always be friends with him still. And btw, its not just with this guy, its with other guys too. Open your eyes, and look at what you really have and go for the BIG picture.
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So there is this guy that I recently met, and we have been talking a lot. I mean everyday for hours. I am really interested in him, we get along great and have a lot of similarities which makes me like him more than I could have imagined. And it SEEMS as if he is into me too but he says that he isn't looking for anything. I honestly respect that, but I also wish something would happen between us. So my biggest thing is should I just let it be, or should I try to spend more time with him and see if things go anywhere? As of right now we have plans to hang out a few times with friends, but where should I go from there? (link)
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The last guy who answered is partially right. He might be gay, but he could just be emotionally introverted, or he might be healing from a breakup.
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what type of prom dress color would i look good in, or at least give me some pics for advice.
This is how i look like:
-asian -long black hair -dark brown eyes (my eyes are kinda small) -very tall and skinny -my intrest is animals, romance, art
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Maybe black. different colours look better on certain people, but i went to my freshman homecoming with a girl and she wore black and it was nice. so go for black!
and btw... im a senior with no date to the prom. You wanna go with me???
haha jk ;) and im asian too......
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is it bad to push your other friends away when you have one main friend?
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not at all. girls do it all the time. you can't be friends with somebody forever. but that doesnt mean you should necessarily "Push" them away, i'm just saying that if it happens, it happens, and its not bad.
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me and my boyfriend have been together for half a year now and things are changing a bit. usually we only see eachother over the weekend cause he lives far away but recently we've been seeing eachother every day and ever since we dont get along too much anymore and it seems like he doesnt care about me as much cause things got "boring" so we decided to only see eachother over the weekend again but what else can i do to spice the relationship up a bit and make it more exciting like it was in the beginning? (link)
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dont just "talk to him". Thats not being specific.
The cause of a relationship of getting boring is too much contact. Like you said, everything was great when you only saw each other every weekend. This is why highschool relationships tend to fail, because the guy and girl breathe the same air, every second, or every hour, of every single goddamn day.
Distance is always good because its more special whenever you meet, and you get reminded of what you really have.
First, talk to him, yes. But let him know this:
when you guys talk, does it seem like you are talking to him as you would with your brother? or your dad? your best friend? That is the problem. You guys are getting too comfortable to the point where its no fun anymore. talk to him about boyfriend/girlfriend type stuff. And know when it gets too comfortable. Hope i helped :D
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He is married with 3kids and he is having problem with his wife but wants me and i love him what should i do? (link)
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2 things you need to find out before romantically going for someone:
1. If they have issues.
2. If they are single.
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So my prom is coming up.. in 1 week to be exact. I'm a senior in high school and lets just say I don't have many friends. I'm not really sure why not. I'm kinda the girl who gets picked last when its time to pick teams for games.
Anyways, on with the story. so prom is next week and last year's prom was ok. Its my senior prom and I really want it to be amazing. I want the whole experience. being in a big group, taking lots of pictures with friends, being in a limo or party bus, going to an afterparty. all of those things I didnt get to experience last year. And i know to you it may sound childish and selfish but its really important to me. I'm going off to college in a few months and there aren't any Prom's in college. This will technically be the only time I will get to experience something like this and I want it to be amazing.
SO.. I talked to my friend Nicole and she said I (and my date) could be in her group. Well we made these plans about 2 weeks ago and just today I texted her and said "do you know any details about prom yet? like if we are getting a party bus and when are pictures?" and she replies "you can come to pictures but the party bus is already full"... so pretty much she's kicking me out of the group.. (This was all during school) so I went to my boyfriend and told him and I got so mad and frustrated that I just started crying..
I know I may sound like a drama queen or whatever but this year's prom really means a lot to me. I'm always that girl who nobody knows. I want to stand out and be part of something special. I want to feel beautiful in my dress and I want to look back at this thinking "wow that was a great night" but all i see right now is a disaster... I'm just so frustrated. I already have a million things on my mind like I have to go spray tanning and I need to get my hair done and get my nails done etc etc ect.. the last thing I need on my mind right now is more stress.. My boyfriend said he would help and try to find another group to go with, but I'm not sure if any more groups are willing to let us in, considering prom is next week!!!
helppp!!! I just wanted this prom to be special :( but now it sounds like its going to go downhill :( please. this really means a lot to me.. I wish my mom was here to help me but she moved to Europe for work and I don't have any other friends that can help me out. (link)
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apparently, the last person who answered posted 3 links to this question... trying to prove a point. And, i can't believe im saying this, but he is right.
Anyways, MY senior prom is a week away as well, and im a guy and i havent asked anybody. My girlfriend dumped me last week, so now im not interested in going. And i have nobody to ask.
but in your case.........
YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND.
So what is the problem? Why you stressing out over having a big group and being all exclusive and shit????? Just go with you boyfriend, dance with him, take pics with him, and have a good time! I really dont get why you are stressing out over all this materialistic shit.... sorry if i sound rude, but. If i was in your case, (which i am not) i would be so grateful to have somebody in a relationship that i could actualy spend my prom with. But for me, i HAVE NOBODY. And im still not thinking of it as a disaster. Honey, its a highschool prom, its not like you are having a disaster at GRADUATION. All you ever need is that diploma, that one sheet of paper. Who gives about prom, gradnight, etc. They're all just side stuff about senior year.
Girl, you have a boyfriend and he is already your date. Go to the dance with him and just him only and have a great time. Okay? :)
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Ok I was just wondering how do you get a guy to notice and look at you like when you pass them in the hallway? like to make them notice you and wanna talk. Cuz there is there are some really cute guys at my school but I only see them in the hallway so yeah! please help!!(: Thanks!! (link)
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Its always the hardest thing when you like someone... but you have no idea who they are and you have no connection with them.
Im a guy, and its been hard to get girls who i didnt know. Its easier to attract your crush when you know them a little bit, (friend-of-a-friend), you work with them, you sit next to them in class, church group, etc. But when you have absolutely no connection with them.. its hard.
I had a girlfriend, but we broke up last week, she dumped me over the phone. Anywyas, i didnt know her at all. I only saw her in the library every day at breaktime. What i did was that i literally stared at her all the time, smied at her whenever she looked, walked past her to make myself noticeable. Thats what you have to do, make yourself noticed.
Then what i did was that i asked my friends if they knew her, and i said "wow, she is so hot...."
I kept doing that. Added her on Facebook outta nowhere, asked for her number outta nowhere, and then bam, we started a relationship.
It all depeneds on the guy:) it should be kinda clear if he is not interested.
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my mom wont let me get my belly botton peircered so i did it my self now i can't find a belly ring any where and i dont have any money (link)
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i got mine at claire's. you probably shouldn't have pierced it before you found a bellybutton ring
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Track season ended a couple of months ago and I have placed 3rd place at my first track meet and 1st place at my 2 track meet and 1st place at my last i couldnt run at the beginning when the season started because it got to lat and they couldnt get to my event, anyways I got a medal for first place at the regionals..And i beat georgia's top 30 runners and i was basically so fast i was leading the whole time, and so i google my team and me to find photos of me running or something because at every track meet photographer with his camera taking photos everywhere at the track and stuff...WHERE ARE THE PHOTOS!? i have no photos of me running or my teamates..I goto valdosta middle school.. let me know if you find my teams photos and stuff please! (link)
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you should ask your coach where you can find those pictures. the photographer could have been someone's parents or something. good luck!
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