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How to make love to my girlfriend ?
Me and my girlfriend want to have sex. I'm 17 and she's 18. How do we do it ?
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you stick it in her bellybutton.
and make it come out of her nose.
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Environment and atmosphere is important to women. Wherever you do it, make sure it is clean and smells good or has no smell at all. The bed clothes should have been washed within the last day or two. She will probably be kinda shy if it is her first time, so get some candles and put them around the room and light them. Just make sure you aren't creating a fire hazard. This way, it sets a romantic mood and you will be able to see what you are doing while it won't be as stark as having the lights on.
Put on some nice romantic music. Al Green's greatest hits volume one is an excellent choice, the Stylistics greatest hits, some B.B. King, Judy Collins Wildflowers album, or mellow jazz like Russell Malone or Shirley Horn would also be good. George Benson's Breezin' album is good, too.
If you two drink, have a small glass of wine to help you relax.
First, you start off with some long, slow kissing. Cradle her faced in your palm and caress it as you kiss her. Tell her how beautiful she is and that your life is better for having her in it.
Then pull her top off slowly or unbutton her blouse and then reach behind her and unhook her bra. Usually, you just pull the hooks away from each other to undo them. Start lightly kissing and nibbling on her neck while you begin to stroke her naked back. Lightly run your fingernails over it. Enjoy the scent of her hair and the feel of her skin against your hands and your lips. Again, take it slow. Don't forget to keep kissing her every now and again on the lips. Tell her how amazing she looks in the candlelight.
Gently begin to massage her breast. Run the pad of a finger the length of her nipple and around it. Slide your body down and suck tenderly on her nipples. Listen to her responses. If she is wearing a skirt, start lightly running a hand up and down her naked thigh. If she is wearing pants, undo them and slowly pull them open. Slide your hand under her panties while you continue to suckle her nipples. Gently rub the area in the middle of her vaginal lips but at the top of them, the clitoris. Ask her if that feels good. Ask her if she wants you to rub it harder. You will feel her getting wet. Again, take your time. If she starts to moan, keep rubbing her clit and sucking and licking her nipples. Have patience, it will take some time for her to cum. Keep your hand relaxed so that it doesn't get tired. Rub her until she has an orgasm. Do not insert your fingers into her yet.
After she finishes her orgasm, pull her pants or skirt and panties off so that she is totally naked. Scoot down further and spread her legs open and crawl between them. Kiss and nibble her thighs. When your tongue finds her vagina, lick up and down the slit a few times. Keep your jaw, tongue and mouth relaxed so they don't fatigue. Find her clit. If you can't find it due to the dark, ask her to guide your mouth to it. Start licking it and listen to her reactions. Suck on it gently (note that some women don't like that; they prefer more indirect pressure) and alternate that with licking it. Encourage her to tell you what she wants you to do. Then take one finger and slip it into her vagina and begin to lightly rub the upper wall just inside the opening (the g spot). You will feel a group of spongy ridges there. When you rub it, she will initially feel an urge to urinate, but that will pass and become very pleasurable. Keep using your tongue and mouth on her clit while you do that. Enjoy the taste of her. Insert another finger and rub her g spot with it, too. Be gentle. Hopefully, she will eventually orgasm. When she does, don't stop licking and sucking her clit, Keep it up. Try to make her have multiples. Suck on the clit repeatedly in the same way you would want your cock sucked. If your mouth or jaw get sore, stop.
Move up on top of her and have her guide your penis to her opening. Then push it into her and slowly begin to thrust it in and out. Don't try to suppress the urge to cum. Instead, make your body limp as you pump your cock into her and keep your head empty. Become like a piston machine. Once she has had another orgasm then you can kinda switch your brain back on and cum. Hug her and kiss her while you are thrusting into her. Wen you hear her breathing get more rapid, start thrusting faster to try to push her over the edge.
Okay, after writing all that, it is possible that when you eat her for the first time she may not orgasm because you just need more time to really learn how to trip her trigger that way. No big deal. At least you made the effort. Also, if she tells you to fuck her, do it. That could be one polite way of telling you that your oral efforts aren't doing anything for her. Don't fret about this. This is only your first time.
After you have cum, have some tissues available to wipe her as the cum comes dripping out of her. Then cuddle her and tell her you love her. DO NOT ask her if she came! Women hate that question! Also, do not just roll over and go to sleep. Give her little kisses and tell her your glad to have such a wonderful girlfriend and that you wish what you were feeling with her would last forever.
Incidentally, just for reference, it would probably help if you masturbate before you meet her that night. It will help you last longer in bed if you've already popped a load.
Good luck! I hope this helps.
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need diagrams? good, because I don't have any. here's what you do- fool around with each other, and if she says it feels good, keep doing it.
-Gunner
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You take your penis and stick it into her vagina... But make sure you wear a condom, unless you want a child. Yep, seems pretty simple.
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