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how does this s@#t work
so im in high school. i am a junior. now the thing is girls always talk to me i'm not a "playa". but it seems every time i get close to a girl i end up fucking up every time so i'm just wondering what other guys do and don't do.
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Anesthesia. Works everytime. *lol
Seriously though, the main thing about women is they want to know that you are hearing what they are FEELING, not necessarily what they are saying. Listen carefully to their words and the underlying thrust of them and then just repeat it back to them in your own words. When they have a problem they often don't want you to solve it for them, they want their feelings validated instead. Yu can start sentences with stuff like, "so what I'm hearing from what you are telling me," etc.
Once you start going out with a chick, just be honest. They also want you to be their dad (this doesn't mean you treat them like children or be a blowhard control freak, but someone who will tell her the way it is; for example, you don't ask her where she wants to go or eat, you tell her where you two are going, etc).
If you can get those two things right you are well on your way.
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Im a guy too, in high school. And i totally understand your situation 100 per cent.
Since i am about to graduate, i have noticed that girls in high school have high school brains and they are flatout.... stupid.
Some guys have game, some dont. Im a guy who has no game, and i fuck up with girls as well. And when i see other guys with girls for like months to a year, i wonder, how? I have always questioned myself for the longest time throughout highschool and kept wondering, why dont girls like me and why do i mess up always?
If you want a realistic explanation, is that some guys are different and girls are not used to different guys. What happens happens, and its for a reason. If girls think you mess up and dont wanna talk to you, its because you are different or its human nature. They dont feel the interest in you anymore and they go for someone else.
Girls are interesting creatures haha. Dont worry about it now, because highschool girls never last. Wait for it to come to you, and THEN you will know that it is truly natural and the girl likes you for who you are.
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Okay so what you need to do is think about what it was you did that missed it up. Whem you figure out what it is try to change it or not do it again. Some timea guys don't even realize what they do wrong. Trust me you'll figure it out. Hope this helps!
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