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showing my girl friend that i really love her
What is the best way for me to show my girl friend that she means the world to me and that i fully trust her and love her with all of my heart?
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First, don't try so hard. I know you really like her, but women don't like guys who are kissing their butts all the time. So relax and look at it as you need someone who can enjoy life with you rather than being so concerned with pleasing her to the exclusion of what pleases you. You got to have a balance because, in truth, she wants you to effectively be a substitute father figure (I am really simplifying here, so be careful how you grok this point).
Okay, having said that, the main thing women want in a relationship is to be understood. When she complains about something she usually doesn't want you to solve the problem (she is more than smart enough to do it herself) for her, but to get feedback that you comprehend the depths of her feeling on the matter. Listen carefully to how she is phrasing it, ask her a couple of questions about it, and then basically use your own words to summarize what you are hearing emotionally from her. Women bond with each other through self disclosure and she is reaching out to you when she talks about something that is bothering her and wants you to understand so she will feel more connected to you.
You can also write her notes about how you felt while you were with her last. You don't have to write a novel. Just something concise and honest. Learn to pay attention to simple things and integrate them into your messages. Do this only occasionally, not all the time or it takes the spontaneity out of it for her.
Or when you can get an extended period of privacy, turn the lights off, light some candles, warm up some massage oil and give her a full body massage. Don't expect anything out of it, just throw yourself into pleasing her and take your time. Ask her questions about what feels good, where she wants to be rubbed or touched and try to get her super relaxed. Then take a hot shower together. After that, go back to bed and hold her while you feed her little chocolates or strawberries. Don't feel her up, just make it all about her. Kissing is okay, though. Tell her how lucky you are to be with her and how it makes your life brighter. Tell her what you like most about her personality and how her eyes are like little jewels and you never get enough of looking into them. If you liked something she was wearing the other day tell her how you reacted to it, but not in a crude way, but in a way that validates her as a whole human being.
I think that would be pretty good for starters. The rest is up to you.
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very sweet :) My boy friend compliments me everyday, asks me how I am doing and what I am up to. I never get tired of that. He also asks about my family, and simple things. But the number one thing that all girls (and guys love) is when you remember the smallest details (their fav color, movie, vacation,food, animal etc) that means the world to me, even though I do not expect that :)
As for trust, share your hopes, fears,secrets, and dreams with her, she'll do the same. By doing that you guys will connect on a deeper level. Trust me
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Go to her and say "I love you."
If she dont believe that, then book it.
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just be yourself and be cute to her.
ill give you some tips that my boyfriend did:
- he wrote me a poem for no reason at all.
- he buys me flowers and surprises me with them for NO REASON :]
- when we're cuddling and he thinks im sleeping he'll whisper in my ear, telling me how much he loves me.
- he remembers the little things :]
- he takes me out to dinner, or we'll cook together :]
- he tells me his secrets.. things no one knows.
- he listens to me.
- he cries infront of me.
- he tells me im beautiful and that he trusts me and loves me more than i know.
- we made eachother 200 reasons why i love you lists.
- he gets me hot chocolate [even though my skin AND waistline cant take everyday hot chocolate haha]
and i mean, im not a material girl, but if you would like to give your girlfriend a presnt, you could get her an engraved necklace with both of your initials on it and maybe like the word forever or the date you started dating her on it.
the main thing is not showing your grilfriend, but telling her and proving it. and when i say prove it, i mean tell her how much you love her everyday and dont break any promises or anything. just love her for who she is and i promise you, she'll know.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo. :]
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Being thoughtful is something every girl can appreciate. For instance, say that she's telling you about how her last hair tie broke, go to the store and surprise her with a new pack. The little things mean so much. I promise!
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Well comeing from a girl I would say that just little things can show her.
Like hugging her alot, holding her hand, tickleing her, makeing her feel wanted and needed. But not too much you know?Getting her favorite candy or flowers, showing up to see her randomly at her house or job. And then once in a while plan something big for her, like a diner on the lake or at a park just the two of you. Write her letters in school, kiss her cheek and forehead alot. Just little things that will make her happy and smile.
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Buy her a dinosaur.
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