I known this guy since 6th grade. In 8th grade we got really close. He always made me laugh and everything.We would look at eachother and just laugh sometimes. We had soo many memories. He told me that he had feelings for me and I had feeling for him too.We talked all the time.We couldnt go together because I went with his friend before and he went with mine . I told him that I was moving away and I wasent going to go to the same highschool as him. We talked that last day of school. And after that we kinda lost touch and we didnt talk. I tried texting him and calling him but he wouldnt never reply or answer. I moved back and when I got back and I saw him at my highschool. Hw hugged me for so long and smiled for so long like he missed me . I told him i was mad at him because he hasent even tied talking to me. He said that he was mad at me for leaving cause he liked me . I put my books in his locker. And the fist few days he was so happy to see me . HE would hug me and say hey. Now I dont know if he still likes me beause he dosent hug me unless I ask him too. And he dosent talk to me much like he use to. He dosent say hey unless I say hey first. I am soooo confused. Does he like me or not?
I would suggest that you start talking to him again because it has been a will and he may not still like you. just become friends like you guys were and see what happens. Don't rush things, let them go as they are meant to happen. If after you guys are talking for awhile he shows signs of liking you again you will know. Hope I helped.
~Jani~
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it's been 8 months and i still can't get over my ex , its so hard i try and try i do everything. and i feel like he feels the same my heart feels it ...
im a female/ 18
What I suggest is that you start talking to other guys, it helps when getting over someone. Just remember not to start anything serious if you still have feelings for your ex because then you'll end up even more hurt. What also help is keeping yourself busy. Do some volunteer work or pick up more hours at work. Make yourself so busy you won't have time to think about him and then it will get to the point that even when you do have time to think he won't be on your mind. Everyone takes their own amount of time to get over an ex. There is no specific set time that it takes to get over an ex. Hope I helped.
~Jani~
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when i do something my cousin always tries to do it better than me even if she isn't interested in what it is she just wants to prove she can do it better
Competition and rivalry is very common between cousins and siblings. And as the years go on it fades away. I use to be the same with my cousins when I was growing up and then after a while I started to realize that not everything was a competition. Its normal especially if the person it very competitive.
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Im a preteen so I understand this might b a little weird for my age.Well I hav this cousin and shes like in her 20's . Well any ways shes my favorite cousin and we used to spend a lot of time together. But now that shes starting a family I cant spend any time with her and plus she lives in a different city than I do now. She haves a new born and i dont want to tell her that i feel like we dont spend any time together anymore. I just dont know what to do. And I hav no cousins my age to tlk to or to b my favorite cousin. I need some help plz and thank u
Its normal that you guys don't hang out anymore. Shes going through a transition in her life with a new baby, it can be very time consuming. I went through something similer with one of my older cousins. I say you give her alittle time to settle down with her family and then maybe ask her if you can go over her house or if you guys can hang out one day. I'm sure she'd love to spend some time with you. Hope I helped.
~Jani~
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Okay so I need some advice. I was on vacation with my best friend and she has a brother who is going to be a sofmore in college. He brother had brought a friend who's the same age and whatnot. Well Im going to be a freshman this year and I never knew what love felt like until her brothers friend walk through the doors. I thought I was too young for love but I don't really know. But anyways I don't know what to do because I have mocha ce with him he's so much older than me but I can't seem to get him out of my mind. What should I do? Please help
-teen in need of advice
Okay so this boy is in collage, right? This means you have to be careful. Most collage boys are only intreasted in flings. So I wouldn't let your emotions cloud your judgement. Also another thing is that I don't believe you can fall in love with someone at first sight. It could be that you have a strong intreast in him or an infatuation. I say that if you're really intreasted in this guy that you start to talk to him, get to know him. I know that can be difficult considering his older and you probably don't see him much. But have your friend set up a fun night with her brother ad ask him to bring his friend along. But again procide with caution because the age difference may come with different veiws and desires. If he's not intreasted don't push it. There are plenty of other guys out there, and the feelings will fade. Trust me I have been in a similar situation. I hope I helped. Let me know if you need anything else.
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My boyfriend of 4 months gave me his expensive senior class ring around a month ago and I came back to my moms and I can't find it. I don't know if I sat it down somewhere before I went to my dads or what. I'm freaking out because it costs a lot of money and if I tell him he'll hate me and his parents will hate me and I don't have any money to pay him back right now. Ive looked all over my room and plan to search the house as soon as possible. What do I do?
What I would recommend is to relax, because if you are in a rush while you’re looking for it you’re never going to find it. After you've taken a few deep breaths think of all the possible paces it could be. If you have searched those places and still haven’t found it, look again it never hurts to check twice. If at the end you can’t find it there’s nothing more you can do but to tell your boyfriend. He might be mad but he won’t hate you. Good luck.
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hi, i am 13 i like this guy at school but i don't know if he likes me back he kinda gives me those looks that are really mysterious and he keeps on standing in my way where ever i am going and he does all of those childish stuff and then in the summer he got him self a girlfriend
and i dont know what to do please help!!!!
thanks :)
Well considering that he has a girlfriend there's not much you can do. What I would suggest to do is just wait until school starts again and if he doesn't have a girlfriend then start talking to him and then maybe he'll get the hint that you like him. But for now i would let it go because he has a girlfriend. Hope I helped.
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I've been searching everywhere for this show: Nikita
I need to start at season 2 episode 1
I've watched season 1 on Netflix.
Well since the show is show on The CW I would say go on www.cwtv.com they usaully update their episodes 3 to 4 days after they have aired. Hope I helped.
～Jani～
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okay.So i ahvent started my period nor do I have any boob I mean not even a AA cup I have little tiny buds those buds started in the seventh grade and they never finished and now iam in the 10th grade this really sucks because all my friends have boobs
so any way I am under 5ft and i am about 80 to 9 pounds and I am very small . So about my period I have had mood swings and discharges that come before I pee and it turns very crusty it do-sent stink doe.
is something wrong with me?
There are many reasons to why you could be delay. It could have something to do with your wieght. Some girls do not get their period because they are under weight or do to much excise. It could also just be that your a late blumer. Either way you should just consult with your docter and see what he/she says. I hope I helped.
～Jani～
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does it hurt your first time when you have sex?
If your a virgen yes it does hurt the first time because of your hymn breaking. But then the pain begans to dull out. Hope I helped.
～Jani～
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SO I had a normal breakfast this morning then when I was done I wanted to eat more but didn't have time. I had to go to a violin lesson. Then afterwords I wanted to go home and eat, about 9:30. But my dad wanted to go somewhere. When we got home at 11:30 I ate a doughnut,a LOT of mashed potatoes, a cup of water, a cup of chocolate milk, 2 beets, spagetti, and a ton of carmel. I think thats it. I'm usually very hungry but not this hungry. I want to eat more but I dont want to get sick from so much food...Is it just a growth spurt? Im 13/f
It can have something to do with your growth spurt. Your growing and your probably are going to start eating more. It can also have something to do with you motabalisum. You could have a fast motabalisum meaning you burn calories quickly. If you continue to feel this hungry I would mention it to your doctor. Hope I helped.
～Jani～
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Hi. So recently I have started making myself throw up. The first time was this one night when I was really depressed about everything. It felt like I could no longer change anything about my life, so I wanted to change my appearance. At first nothing came out except clear saliva, but slowly my dinner began to make it's way back up. I have made myself throw up three times after this. This began about 2 weeks ago. Does this make me bulimic?
There are healthier ways of changing your appearance then becoming bulimic, like excise. This is obviously not only about your apperance. You always have the ability to change you life because of the simple fact that it is called your life. You may not see it because you are so depressed but its true. What you are doing will harm you and if you continue to do this you are bulimic. If you need anyone to talk to about anything inbox me.
~Jani~
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Well I really need some love advise. My ex has recently popped back into my life for the fourth time we have gone out three different times that only last a month or so each month in different years. Everytime we talk so many unsure feelings come back but everytime we say we should give it another try it never last mainly because of me. I'm only 19 and I always feel like maybe Im too young to be commited. But this time I'm more sure of who I am and so is he. we have gone through our little phases and we aren't really young and lost. So my question is if anyone can help me figure this out somehow, it is really confusing for me and I really do not want to hurt him in anyway or hurting myself
I think its not that you were too young for a relationship but maybe you just weren't mature enough. I personally feel that after the secound time you should give it a rest because there is obviously a reason why you guys haven't lasted and broken up before. I say that if you don't want to hurt him be completely certain that you are ready for this relationship. It is not the best thing to be in a relationship if your confused so I say talk about taking baby steps in to the relationship to make sure you are certain your making the right choose in getting back with him. And even if it doesn't work out there is always going to be some left over feelings but it doesn't mean that you should get back together. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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I am 12/F and there is this guy that I was best friends with for 4 years. But on my 5 birthday, WHEN I TURNED 5, he kissed me. He always gives me presents like he's raided his mom's jewelry box for presents. Now he will text me and ask stuff like "what level are we at" and I don't like him I mean he's kinda rude and he likes to show off. I'm confused so help. Please?
Hun the best thing you can do is tell him that you don't like him, Trust me. when it comes to situations like these its the best you can do. I also think that a kiss at the age of 5 doesn't mean much. Just tell him you just want to be friends and thats thats. And as for the jewalry i would give it back to his mom as the previous answer said. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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Hello there :) well this is my problem. I have a boyfriend we been together for 4 years. on and off. Recently there has been this girl on his Facebook that likes his pictures and also he starts liking her statuses. Last night i was going through her page and saw a comment her friend post on one of her status. It said "oh look who liked this status Jake" I automatically knew she was talking about him because they call my boyfriend jake. There was another status were they were talking about him. he goes to party's with them and his brother. I'm confused because i been seeing this random things on Facebook so if they do this in Facebook imagine in parties. i think im just going to end up breaking up with him even if it hurts. I know it will get better with time :'(
Ok first things first, there will always be some one that gets in the middle of a relationship there just is. The first thing you should do is talk to him. The main problem here is Facebook. Facebook and relationships just don't mix well. What I suggest is that you guys talk this out. Maybe you guys should both consider deactivating your Facebook accounts, which is what every couple should really do. This why you guys can avoid problems like these. And as for the partying thing tell him that you don't feel comfortable with him parting with these girls or maybe that you would like to party with him also. The main thing is that you talk to him before doing anything else. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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So there is a boy @ school that I. Have liked for 2 years... i m popular but way to snooty and spoiled for him! He's so cute and he isn't to popular for me! People say tht we would make a cute couple but he doesn't think any thing like tht of me! How do I get him to like me? I'm obviosly a girl and I'm in 7th grade.
Popularity isn't everything. There are more things in life then that. If you really like him than talk to him like the previous answer says. But also remember that if he ends up not liking you that your only in the 7th grade you still have alot of time ahead of you for boys. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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17/f . For the past year and a half i have been with my boyfriend and he did a lot of shady things such as drink at his house with a girl who gave him oral sex in the past, went out to parties and never told me until i found out from someone else and other things of that magnitude. On the 9th of february, i got really fed up with the disrespect and i never really got over the things he did to me, so i decided it was time to get my revenge and i broke up with him. I went out with my "friend" and she took me to parties with her, convinced me to hang out with guys with her and smoke weed and drink. i realized that lifestyle is not for me and i was much happier with my boyfriend because nobody can compare to him and he was so angry that i was out without him, that he changed his # and completely stopped talking to me. i had my "friend" text him and call him and try and help out the situation by telling lies that we werent really out. little did i know, she was telling him EVERYTHING that we were doing, while she was lying to me and supposedly helping me out. i confessed to us going out, but apparently she told him that i cheated on him with 3 guys when i really didnt. since she was telling the truth about everything else, he doesnt believe i was faithful to him and for the past 3 days all he has done is call me a liar and has BEGGED for me to tell him what he thinks is the truth. what do i tell him, i have done everything i can to try and get him to believe me but he wont. please HELP! i need to keep him in my life, going out wasnt even worth it.
I think the best you can do is forget about him. He odviously doesn't respect you and you said it bothered you that he acted this way, so why would you go back with a guy who treats you this way. I say let him believe whatever he want to believe, you know you didn't cheat on him and thats all that matters. And as for your friend she is obiously a bad friend because she went against you that way. So my advice is to forget them both and meet someone that treats you the right way and a friend that will help you not harm you. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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alright to sum up the situation theres this guy i like who wanted me for a while then we hookeup up once when we were drunk and now were friendly-ish but like nothing is going on. how do i change that?
Well first thing nothings probably happening because you hooked up with him. If you really wanted something to happen then you gave him the wrong idea. If you just want this as a hook up on and off thing then I suggest talking to him about it. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now. I have come to accept the fact that he is just not the type who give gifts and all. But i thought at our first valentines together, he would at least give me something. I am not materialistic but im sure i am not the only one who wishes that our special someone will put some efforts in surprising us during special occasions. My birthday passed, Christmas and new year, the only gift he gave me is the couples ring we both buy for each other. Dont get me wrong, i know he loves me, i am certain of that. He knows how disappointed i was last valentines day because he led me to believe he is up to something. I am not wishing he'd be all hopelessly romantic, but on love days i really really wish he'd grow a tiny bone of romance.
What i would say is to talk to him about this. this is something that obviously bothering you and you have a point. Every girl wants to feel special and get a gift from their boy friends. i would just say to talk to him because nothings going to change unless you say something.
~Jani~
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i need help finding a nickname for my boyfriend
You could use the usual Babe or Baby, or you could do something with his name depending what it is. Hope I helped, let me know if you need anything else.
~Jani~
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