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Guy problem.
Hello there :) well this is my problem. I have a boyfriend we been together for 4 years. on and off. Recently there has been this girl on his Facebook that likes his pictures and also he starts liking her statuses. Last night i was going through her page and saw a comment her friend post on one of her status. It said "oh look who liked this status Jake" I automatically knew she was talking about him because they call my boyfriend jake. There was another status were they were talking about him. he goes to party's with them and his brother. I'm confused because i been seeing this random things on Facebook so if they do this in Facebook imagine in parties. i think im just going to end up breaking up with him even if it hurts. I know it will get better with time :'(
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Girls have this very powerful gift of intuition. So if you think something is going on, most probably there is. You better talk to your guy and figure out things. Tell him your concerns. Tell him you need assurance more than anything. :)
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Ok first things first, there will always be some one that gets in the middle of a relationship there just is. The first thing you should do is talk to him. The main problem here is Facebook. Facebook and relationships just don't mix well. What I suggest is that you guys talk this out. Maybe you guys should both consider deactivating your Facebook accounts, which is what every couple should really do. This why you guys can avoid problems like these. And as for the partying thing tell him that you don't feel comfortable with him parting with these girls or maybe that you would like to party with him also. The main thing is that you talk to him before doing anything else. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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Well, I hate to say it, but I think you answered your own question.
If you can't trust him, there's no foundation for a good relationship - especially not if you guys have been on and off for four years. You can't even trust him to remain your boyfriend, it sounds like.
I had a relationship like this, and as much as we tried to make it work in the end, we had hurt one another too much to be able to forgive and move past all the damage we'd done the past years.
I'm not sure how old you are, but regardless of age, I think it's a pretty safe assumption that you will find someone who you can trust, who'll really appreciate you. Get rid of this one. He's not worth the stress and pain, and you WILL heal, I promise. I did. :)
If you have any other questions, please feel free to send me another message, and I'll do my best.
Siren
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Heyaa awww this is sad, but i know what you mean ive got a boyfriend to and in a relationship there is always someone who wants to come and ruin it all especially a female. Personally i dont think on & off relationships are good at all they make them seem weak , for that reason you might aswell end it.
But what i think is that if he actually truly feels something for you and if hes proved himself then you should trust him always. Hunny facebook just ruins things for relationships , it would be bad if your boyfriend started liking this girls pictures but if he aint then i dont know.
I dont think he is committed to this relationship not 100% because if he was he wouldnt be out partying alot, if he cared he would have the discreet to invite you as his girlfriend spend time together.
You need to talk to your boyfriend before making any sort of decisions you might regret later on, yes it does hurt but if something strange is going on you have to get up off your feet and talk to him like a woman :)
Dont be sad because of this of course it hurts , no one has the right to make you sad cheer up sweetie !
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Hello; I feel like you left something out.... I take it he's cheated on you before and that's why it's been a off and on thing for 4 years? If so then I can see why you want to break up with him over this, if not then you really need to break up with him (let me explain). I believe people can change but if he's cheated before chances are he's going to cheat again. If he hasn't cheated before then something is seriously wrong if it's been four years and you still don't love him. Maybe you think you love him but I can assure you that you don't. If you did you would NEVER think to break up with him over something so little as this. You might need some help figuring of what to do (how to talk to him about it or ignore it) but you wouldnt break up with him.
So after four years of being with someone, you don't love him, and or he's a cheater then YES! Break up with him. You are wasting your time with him, go find someone else
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