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So, I'm a 7th grade girl with a problem: I have a crush on this one guy and I think he has a crush on me too, but I think he's losing interest because I don't talk to him as much because I'm kinda shy around him. What should I do? (link)
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Thats adorable! It's normal to feel like that especially at your age, if hes giving you signals then maybe he does, however you never know how a male really feels. But if you really like him you should start some conversations with him! Not always because you don't want to seem desperate or needy but it'll show you have some sort of interest, if he does the same with you then you know he wants to get to know you. Go for it sweety, better to take a risk than to not take one at all. Normal to feel shy around him especially if you have feelings, I'm sure he feels the same, but try talk to him as friends and see what he is about? Hope this helpss !!
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My girlfriend is always texting this guy see says is just a friend that comes into work and he doesn't mean nothing to her. They talk everyday all day while she's at work. Lately I've found her texting him to see what he's doing instead of him looking for her. When I asked her about it she just said I had nothing to worry about and see won't talk to him anymore but now she has him under a females name trying to cover up so I think she's not talking to him anymore. Am I just looking into this the wrong way or should I be worried? Thanks Taz170 (link)
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This doesnt sound so good honestly, your girlfriend shouldn't have to hide anything from you especially when it comes to texting males. Those who don't have anything to hide don't fear anything, if she has nothing to hide why is she trying to hide the fact that she has been texting this specific male?. Have you tried speaking to her about it on a serious level, she can't be playing you out like this. No if i was you i would be paranoid, or it could be just a friend. However if its just a friend she has no way to be acting this way when it comes to speaking to him.
If this continues, you need to seriously think about what is wrong in this relationship, either she continues playing you out or you drop her out. Relationships are mostly based on trust and seriously if you feel that you can trust her because your suspicious of her movements then you shouldn't be with this person.
Cheer up! & don't do anything spiteful just to feel better it's not worth it.
:) hope i could help !!
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I'm 13 and my friend since we were little toddlers, birthday is coming up. All her friends are probably 14 going on 15. I am already not good with making friends and I don't know how to start a conversation. Especially not with older people. What should I do? How should I try to fit in? (link)
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Your not always going to fit in with everyone else believe me I'm 20 and I still struggle myself, just be yourself no need to change te way you are for others it's not worth it. If people like you get would like you they would like you for you you are. Making new friends is a way of building up confidence don't be nervous to speak to people cause you have nothing to lose you may even gain something new. Hope this helps !
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So I slept with this guy last week Sunday (over a week ago) and he came from a handjob! Then we had sex and he came in like 5 minutes.
THEN, I slept with him again a few days ago and it took him SO long to cum. we were having sex, changed positions several times, and it was to the point where I was just plain tired.
Why is it that he came so early the firs time? Did I do something wrong? (link)
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Every male is different babe, not every guy would cum quick even if your amazing in bed.. could also be if your constantly having sex? sometimes when a guy waits a while they cum faster the next time they have sex but this is some guys not all..
Im sure you didnt do anything wrong !
some males cum quicker with different things, some take longer in sex/handjobs etc..
nothing to worry about :)
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Hello,
Usually when sleeping with someone I am always on the bottom. Recently, this guy flipped me over on top and I realized i'm so bad at riding on top of him.
Advice?? (link)
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Has he told you that your not good or do you feel that way? it\'s normal.. i was the same when i first began to have sex but its true with practice you do get better and also you would be different with different people when having sex.. sometimes you would be amazing in certain positions with certain people.
If your not comfortable you don\'t have to go on top you can do the same, however without practice you would never feel better about your self .. it would boost your confidence up!
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So i've slept with this guy twice.
Both times he used a condom, but came while he was inside of me (in his condom). That always scares me because what if the condom breaks?! or Something! Then all that stuff is in me! That's not the best.
Anyways, is it normal to be afraid that something like that could happen?
How do I tell him to just pull out before cumming? Is that rude?
Also, I know when hes going to cum because he goes SO deep in me and pushes real hard - it feels great for me and probably great for him, but I'm so scared!
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Urm first of all is this guy your boyfriend or someone you just sleep with? I do understand where your coming from, however if your old enough to have sex your old enough to know the consequences of what could happen if the cum goes inside. Before you have sex with him again talk to him on a serious level, say your worried you might get pregnant if he cums inside you, but if you do want him to just go on birth control. On the other hand if you don\'t just ask him politely if he can stop cumming inside you? it\'s not rude you have every right to ask, its your body..
I get that you want pleasure and we all do when we have sex but if your that scared I really advice you to tell him to pull out before you make a mistake.. think before you do things! actions mean much more than words..
im sure you won\'t be scared again if you don\'t let him cum in you again :)
take care !!!
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I'm a 14 year old boy. I felt my my penis was small then I got bored and I measured it today. It turned out to be 7in long. Is that good for a 14 year old. I'm not gay or bi. I also have a 6 pack ladies ;) (link)
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Haha this is funny, you are just starting puberty to be honest.. im sure it could grow more.
But in other words DONT TAKE IT OUT !! especially in front of girls they could get the wrong impression of you young man!
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i want to ask ...i was rubbing my penis just near her pussy yesterday but my penis was completely dried and her pussy was wet..after rubbing when sperm abot to cum i tuk my penis little far away and sperm cam out in far place..so m asking is dat she will get pragnent??
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Urm no she wouldn\'t be pregnant unless you had sex with her and you actually came inside her? if your sperm was outside her vagina then no. It could also be pre-cum , if you are planning to have sex or anything i suggest you use protection.
I can tell you sound very young.. and believe me you don\'t want to end up making a mistake.
If you know you didn\'t insert your penis inside her and didn\'t cum inside then you don\'t have to worry :)
hope i could help
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What are the symptoms of pregnancy?when do you start feeling that you are pregnant?
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You can do some research on the common symptoms, and you still ain\'t too sure about that it would be best you went doctors. Because i missed period could mean various things (not only if your pregnant or not).
Don\'t stress to much about it, and don\'t wait too long as well, i suggest you go out there and find out personally :)
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how can I lick my teacher's breast (link)
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That\'s a bit stupid don\'t you think? lol. There are students who are attractive to teachers but you wouldn\'t ever do anything with them. I suggest you grow up if your actually thinking about this ..
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Ok so I really like this girl for a long time. I always think about her which is kinda sad. We used to talk a lot, now every time I'm around her I freeze up and don't know what to say and I act retarded. And the worse part is, I think she knows that I like her too, so I guess she's always ignoring me. What do I do? (link)
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That sounds cute first of all, and i understand how it feels. However it\'s normal for you to feel that you freeze up, my advice to you is for you to actually tell her how you feel this is the only way you are going to know whether she likes you back or not, if she doesn\'t say anything back she\'s being a bit silly. You wouldn\'t know unless you try, if she says she doesn\'t like you i think you shouldn\'t force it, if you really like her just be a man and confront her about it because the longer you wait the more you\'re going to choke up and it\'s going to eventually come out..
If you say she ignores you then maybe she doesn\'t want anything to do with you? Sounds a bit harsh but you get hints when someone doesn\'t want anything to do with you, she\'s also immature if she doesn\'t give you a valid reason to why she is ignoring you, you never know she could feel the same way?
Just tell her how you feel ! you would feel way better afterwards even if she doesn\'t like you back at least its something you got off your chest.
hope i could help :D
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Long story short I was dating a guy last year ended up pregnant and we broke up shortly after.. He threatened to take custody of the baby, threatened to have me jumped so I'd lose the baby, and also said when he gets visitation he would drown the baby.... Well I had to go to the hospital for cramping and he found out and assumed I gaff lost the baby so I just let him believe it and we haven't spoke since... Now I have a beautiful little baby and I can't help but feel guilty... Am I doing the right thing keeping my baby away from him and his psychotic behavior our am I doing the right thing to protect my little one.... Is it wrong that my son doesn't know his father it that this man has no idea he has a son? I feel terrible but on the other hand I feel I'm protecting my baby please help (link)
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First of all this sounds terrible, he is not a man. You really should mention this to someone incase it gets out of control and of course you are doing the right thing to protect your little one as a mother you would do anything if you don't want him to have any custody or to even be close to your child I suggest you speak to someone or the police! Be strong hunny you would get through this, hope I could help hun!
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Hi!
Im in middle school and I start feeling this feeling since November of last year. I hate my life so bad. I always feel depressed. I feel like I'm ugly, I'm stupid,I'm fat and many other things. Then, my friends, I feel like I don't fit in with them. Then, since lately, my boyfriend has been chatting with this blond haired b*tch after class when everyone was gone one day. I'm afraid my boyfriend and I are going to break up and he's going to kiss her. For some reason, we haven't talked since two weeks ago on the phone (He is moving next year). I'm crying while typing this. (I actually cry a lot) What can I do before I hurt myself badly. I'm sorry if you can't understand with my typing I'm just depressed and sad all the time. (link)
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Hey there.
Well this doesn't sound nice at all, i've felt the same way many times but it was because when my relationship ended i felt there was no need to be happy anymore.
The point is here, your a young and i suppose your a beautiful young girl you have your whole life ahead of you, shouldn't feel depressed and if you are feeling this way i suggest you go see a therapist before you make a mistake.
Don't ever feel low about yourself , you have God and your family to support you.
Communicate with your boyfriend sweety tell him how your feeling you HAVE to or else he won't ever know, it's not normal for someone to be feeling this way over life unless something is troubling them.
Talk to your family they will guide you and help you, no one loves you more than God and your family..
Don't cry hunny it will only make things worse for yourself, i think you need something new and fresh in your life, if you don't open up to people they wont understand what your going through aswell.
Always think to yourself that your only going to be in this world once and you have to enjoy your life no matter what.
I hope your safe! !
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So I'm really good friends with this guy and he has liked me for 7 years. It is beginning to get awkward between us and I wish that he would move on to someone else. I've already told him that I don't like him like that and he should move on, but he won't. I'm just at my wits end about it. How can I make him move on? (link)
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you can't make someone move on darling, best thing to do is respect the way he feels towards you reason being is because your his friend. Yes it's awkward because you may feel a bit sorry for him? However he can't blame you for not feeling the same way.
Time will make him move on sooner or later, if your his first love believe me he won't ever forget you coming from experience. Just stay friends, communicate as normal put aside the fact he likes you, if he crosses the line with you then you know you shouldn't bother being friends but if the guy respects you and treats you like a queen then carry on the friendship.
Don't tell him to move on, you can never make someone move because it's their feelings and their heart.
Hope your friendship works perfectly :)
goodluck
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so im a 14 year old girl right i wanna know why i like porn so much especially when the girls double stuffed why do i get so wet?
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I started watching it from a very young age, but it's a natural thing because males do it too, especially when your a virgin your so curious to know how it would feel, you start feeling that sensation of getting wet and imagining all sorts of things.
Your probably just curious.. if your a virgin..
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hi im bi and ive had a crush on my female bff forever now what can i do 13f fyi.not labeling self...just saying (link)
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I understand where your coming, have you ever considered telling her you like her?
On the other hand your still only 13 someone amazing is going to come along and offer you many things, and things you ain't ever experienced.
I think since shes your best friend you need to be open with her and tell her how you feel, it's only going to choke you up more if you keep it to yourself sweety.
Hope i could help :)
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I ate my hair when I was a child along with things such as dirt, paper, glue ect. Now I have started To eat things such as scabs, finger nails, and continue to eat paper along with other things such as chalk, bath salt, soap ect I am a picky eater with regular foods but I enjoy trying stuff that is not supposed to be eaten. What's Wrong With Me? (link)
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That sounds pretty weird, I have a habit of biting my nails like everyday yeah it's nit a good thing nor it's healthy as well but what your saying just sounds odd. I think you should tell your parents to take you to the doctors or to see a specialist?
Is there anything that is bothering you at the moment?
If anything you can write back to me :)
hope i could help
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Okay well first off, we aren't dating yet. We dated for a while and broke up. We worked out our differences and are almost 100% sure we are getting back together, just not yet because we wanna be friends for a little while. But we still kiss. We both have never done more than that. He wants to have sex but I don't feel like I am ready for that because of a few reasons. First off we are both 15, I am almost 16. Second, I don't want to risk getting pregnant, I have my whole life left to live! Third, we aren't dating yet, I don't want to have sex with someone unless I love them and they feel the same. I REALLY like him but idk if I love him yet. I feel like sometimes I do but I am 15 I don't know what love feels like. I feel like if I did end up having a kid, I would be able to take care of it but I don't want one now. Most of my and his friends have had sex and he feels like we are both missing out on it. But anyways my question is, what should I do? I don't think I am ready and I told him that but I feel bad because he really wants to. But that's also my choice to make, not his. Help! (link)
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well firstly you are very young to have sex , but who am i to judge? Babe if he really likes you or anything he will respect your feelings and thoughts, plus you two aint even dating so whats his problem?! he needs to start re- evaluating his life and start thinking of the consequences having sex can bring, its not even the fact your not ready its that he aint respecting you and thats the most important thing that he treats you like a woman.
Be straight up :)
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Hi I'm Female and I'm 16
Me and my boyfriend have sex regularly
We don't talk about it we just like do it
And I was reading a book about sex and there was pre ejaculation. I didn't understand it so please can someone explain it to me x thnx (link)
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It means when a guys sperm comes a bit before you having an orgasm , like he doesn't last. So thats why you should use protection even if you think a condom is quite boring its always the best way if you don't want to end up pregnant.
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My m8 takes drugs and has on more than one occasion offered me them
She smokes weed
And I don't want to tell any of the teachers at my skwl but we go out of skwl like loads for her to have a fag
We are 14
I don't know what to do? (link)
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Im 18, and i obviously understand that ur mate takes drugs. because when i was your age im not gonna lie i did have a go at smoking and it got to the point where i wanted more and more. Its a terrible habit and everything, but your her friend you should tell her to stop and to at least not offer you anything, its very dangerous and unhealthy, however you know how our generation is now. No one really pays attention..
Best thing for you to do darling is to tell her to stop, give it some days and see but persuade her and tell her the bad sides to it and to smoking weed.
If that doesn't work you might aswell have to tell her family, im sorry but 'snaking' a friend up isn't good but when you really care about someone you gotta think about them before yourself, you gotta tell and explain to them the situation.
Shes gonna ruin her health at such a young age
if anything babe tell me how it goes :)
im here to help xxxx
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