So I'm really good friends with this guy and he has liked me for 7 years. It is beginning to get awkward between us and I wish that he would move on to someone else. I've already told him that I don't like him like that and he should move on, but he won't. I'm just at my wits end about it. How can I make him move on?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LatinaAdvice answered Sunday January 6 2013, 9:36 am: you can't make someone move on darling, best thing to do is respect the way he feels towards you reason being is because your his friend. Yes it's awkward because you may feel a bit sorry for him? However he can't blame you for not feeling the same way.
Time will make him move on sooner or later, if your his first love believe me he won't ever forget you coming from experience. Just stay friends, communicate as normal put aside the fact he likes you, if he crosses the line with you then you know you shouldn't bother being friends but if the guy respects you and treats you like a queen then carry on the friendship.
Don't tell him to move on, you can never make someone move because it's their feelings and their heart.
Hope your friendship works perfectly :)
goodluck [ LatinaAdvice's advice column | Ask LatinaAdvice A Question ]
Pol0 answered Saturday January 5 2013, 11:58 am: or you could take him to a date and then break up saying you like someone else. [ Pol0's advice column | Ask Pol0 A Question ]
SabrinaNaddie answered Monday December 31 2012, 9:21 am: He has been liking you for 7 long years and regardless of what you do , if he chooses to still like you , nothing will change his feelings towards you . It's very difficult to erase the feeling of love in someone's heart because it's his heart (: Don't worry , as long as he respects you , you'll be fine . Maintain the friendship if possible and keep it firm . If he finds the one , he'll move on simultaneously so ease the burden . Pursue happiness in your life , uninterfered by confusion and consume time doing the things you love . [ SabrinaNaddie's advice column | Ask SabrinaNaddie A Question ]
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