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Can't tell if this guy likes me or not......
So, I'm a 7th grade girl with a problem: I have a crush on this one guy and I think he has a crush on me too, but I think he's losing interest because I don't talk to him as much because I'm kinda shy around him. What should I do?
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What you should do is first learn what some of the signs are that a person likes someone. There are subconscious signals all people give off without really being aware they are doing it. If the other person is good at picking up the signals, there should be no question as to whether the guy or gal has an interest in you.
Once you've figured they are interested, the next step is the one already suggested, to befriend the guy. Walk up to him and talk to him. An easy way to start if you have seen each other often but never talked is to bring that up as your opening sentence, stating the obvious which feels kind of awkward and maybe even a bit scary.
"Hi, I see you all the time and we've never talked but it seems we're always looking at each other as if we know each other. So I thought I'd introduce myself. I am Leslie. Whats your name?"
Next try to find things in common to talk about.
Rather than making this long...let me know if you specifically need a listing of the signals people give off when interested in you, or if you need more help with how to start a conversation with a guy and things to talk about and how to word your sentences. Or if you need both, thats fine too. Just write to me if you want any of that kind of help.
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Thats adorable! It's normal to feel like that especially at your age, if hes giving you signals then maybe he does, however you never know how a male really feels. But if you really like him you should start some conversations with him! Not always because you don't want to seem desperate or needy but it'll show you have some sort of interest, if he does the same with you then you know he wants to get to know you. Go for it sweety, better to take a risk than to not take one at all. Normal to feel shy around him especially if you have feelings, I'm sure he feels the same, but try talk to him as friends and see what he is about? Hope this helpss !!
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