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I want to die...
Hi!
Im in middle school and I start feeling this feeling since November of last year. I hate my life so bad. I always feel depressed. I feel like I'm ugly, I'm stupid,I'm fat and many other things. Then, my friends, I feel like I don't fit in with them. Then, since lately, my boyfriend has been chatting with this blond haired b*tch after class when everyone was gone one day. I'm afraid my boyfriend and I are going to break up and he's going to kiss her. For some reason, we haven't talked since two weeks ago on the phone (He is moving next year). I'm crying while typing this. (I actually cry a lot) What can I do before I hurt myself badly. I'm sorry if you can't understand with my typing I'm just depressed and sad all the time.
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Hey there.
Well this doesn't sound nice at all, i've felt the same way many times but it was because when my relationship ended i felt there was no need to be happy anymore.
The point is here, your a young and i suppose your a beautiful young girl you have your whole life ahead of you, shouldn't feel depressed and if you are feeling this way i suggest you go see a therapist before you make a mistake.
Don't ever feel low about yourself , you have God and your family to support you.
Communicate with your boyfriend sweety tell him how your feeling you HAVE to or else he won't ever know, it's not normal for someone to be feeling this way over life unless something is troubling them.
Talk to your family they will guide you and help you, no one loves you more than God and your family..
Don't cry hunny it will only make things worse for yourself, i think you need something new and fresh in your life, if you don't open up to people they wont understand what your going through aswell.
Always think to yourself that your only going to be in this world once and you have to enjoy your life no matter what.
I hope your safe! !
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Hi to you too !
First of all , you need to gain control over yourself and think of what actually happened before depression struck you . How were you on October 2012 ? What did you do or what problems did you encounter during that time ? What changed you from who you actually were ? Identify the answers carefully with full honesty . Maybe , just maybe , you failed in certain matters or there were people around you who judged you as dumb , ugly and so on and you believed them , or maybe , life was just giving you lemons and throwing hard stones and bricks towards you and for some reason , you were paralysed and were unable to stand up again . Still , you don't just need an insight and understanding into your problems ; you need to change them right now because no matter what people say , you're still you . Your physical beauty doesn't reflect the special , inner you which is your heart and who you actually are .
The thing is , everyone has a fragile heart and you're included too but you need to remember that the key to happiness is within you , it's already there in you waiting to bloom . It's not in your boyfriend , friends and more but you alone but you must believe in yourself . This is related to your self-esteem and confidence ; it's all about building them up again and making you smile (:
Don't cry now , think about it . This is your life , you were delivered forth to this world for a purpose and life's never free from trials and tribulations ! Perceive the hardship you're enduring as an experience to make you stronger in and out . Allow yourself to change , and don't listen to degrading words people say because truth is , people don't understand who you really are . Never , ever compare yourself to them , believe me . Whatever they say , they can't change you and let go of your past . You're still young and you've your future ahead . Try planning your time by making a journal with positive progresses day by day .
Try affirming yourself with positive words from now on because those words will determine your later actions and feel positive . Take a stroll in the park or any outdoor places , and look up to the sky and see the puffy , white clouds . You'll realise that actually , this world is extremely huge and also , beautiful with the greeneries , the wind gushing through and so on . Life's not about pleasing people but you , and this life is too short to be deeply sad . You deserve to see your sunrise too , right ? No matter how hard your burden is , you have the ability to go through it !
Another thing is , you can also try to become closer to your religion and pray for happiness and believe that you will attain it sooner or later and be independent . Honestly , no one knows whether your boyfriend will become your husband in years to come so please don't depend on him fully to give you happiness yet because the heartbreak you'll deal with will be huge and it can happen at anytime honestly . You alone can give yourself attention , so don't worry . At the moment , try thinking of the brightsides instead of the negative ones . Love yourself now , and believe me , you're beautiful :)) You can do this !
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hey 13f i understand honey...im going through this too.dont hurt yourself.just try not to worry.you caant hange anyone but yourself.hurting yourself wont fix it,beleive me i know.feel free to inbox me i dont want you to cry
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I am feeling a wave of self esteem issues here. Sweetie, You are going to experience many relationships I your lifetime. I hate too say it, this boyfriend is not forever. If he is chatting with someone else I promise you, She is not forever either. I know it is hard to see but he is young too and has no idea what it means too truly love someone. The reason for feeling sad can play several factors such as your age too. I promise you, Everyone has had there heart broken one time I'm their life. You just need to move on and focus on you. One thing I learned in life is you never depend upon a man. A man does not make you happy, You need to make yourself happy first. Do not let this get you down. You are stronger then that
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