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Terrified that I might be bisexual
I've always considered myself straight - no matter how physically appealing/sexually attractive I find some girls, I haven't had the urge to date any of them before. I just started at a religious university this year where homosexuality isn't very supported, and I think I'm crushing pretty hard on my roommate. I've never felt this way before and I'm extremely stressed because I know my parents wouldn't approve, and my roommate doesn't support gays/lesbians either. I feel sick with worry about what this might imply about my sexual orientation and I just don't know what to do anymore. Any advice would be very appreciated!
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No matter how hard you might want to, you can't change yourself. And even if you're parents don't support homosexuality, I'm sure they'll still care about you. You might think it's a problem now, but look at all the wonderful gay/bi people out there. Like Ellen DeGeneres, she has her own talk show! (And played Dory in Finding Nemo.) You might want to wait and make sure that you actually are bisexual before bringing it up. Hope I helped,
~Jacquelyn
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All I can say is never feel sick with worry about being who you are. There is nothing wrong with who you are. So others don't approve? Who said you had to share such intimate details of your life with them? Don't be afraid to be the real you.
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If you were to be bisexual, Why would that be a bad thing?
I know this may not help but I really think people under estimate the large variety of people who are gay/lesbian/bisexual. In fact in today's society it is not uncommon and is rather excepted. Of course if you are surrounded by people who do not support sexual orientation other then straight you are going to think the same as they do. If you like your roommate then that's fine, It really is not as big of deal as people make it out too be.
You live once and it should be lived freely. You live for you, Not other people. If you are bisexual then let it happen. Why hold back? You are who you are and again, There is nothing wrong with it at all.
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