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Girl Friend texting a man
My girlfriend is always texting this guy see says is just a friend that comes into work and he doesn't mean nothing to her. They talk everyday all day while she's at work. Lately I've found her texting him to see what he's doing instead of him looking for her. When I asked her about it she just said I had nothing to worry about and see won't talk to him anymore but now she has him under a females name trying to cover up so I think she's not talking to him anymore. Am I just looking into this the wrong way or should I be worried? Thanks Taz170
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I agree with LauraGracey. Whenever my boyfriend asks who I'm talking to I'll tell him (guy or girl) If he has a problem with me talking to someone I will ask him why and see if it's reasonable. If it is i respect that, but i don't let him tell me who to not talk to.
Now here's the alarming part of this question.
If he is under a girl's name on your girlfriend's phone that is a REALLY bad sign. It sounds like she might be cheating!
And like LauraGracey said. If you haven't been together long; break up with her. If over a year or close, talk it out.
If you do talk to her, tell her how you don't like that she talks to him so much. That if she says she will stop talking to him, to go through with it and not hide this from you.
What she is doing is disrespectful. If she is hiding it, that sounds like cheating.
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If you think she's cheating, then she probably is. I have super close guy friends, but you kind if have to draw the line at some point. I never tried to hide any of my guy friends from my boyfriend, he could have been reading the texts over my shoulder for all I cared. If she hasn't been your girlfriend for that long, you should probably just dump her bow, but if it's been over a year, the talk to her about it.
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This doesnt sound so good honestly, your girlfriend shouldn't have to hide anything from you especially when it comes to texting males. Those who don't have anything to hide don't fear anything, if she has nothing to hide why is she trying to hide the fact that she has been texting this specific male?. Have you tried speaking to her about it on a serious level, she can't be playing you out like this. No if i was you i would be paranoid, or it could be just a friend. However if its just a friend she has no way to be acting this way when it comes to speaking to him.
If this continues, you need to seriously think about what is wrong in this relationship, either she continues playing you out or you drop her out. Relationships are mostly based on trust and seriously if you feel that you can trust her because your suspicious of her movements then you shouldn't be with this person.
Cheer up! & don't do anything spiteful just to feel better it's not worth it.
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