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how can I become hotter towward guys?
I am a 13 year old girl and I want to know what i can to to be hotter towards guys. I find myself to be okay looking, I am 5'3, pretty straight blond hair, freckles on my nose, blue eyes, straight teeth, and im not fat but I am not skinny either. My personality isn't that bad either, I am kind to everyone, smart, but I am kind of shy toward the guys I like.
I want to know what a guy around my age considers hot and what I can do to be hotter.
And Please do not put answers like I am to young to be worrying about guys or I should not change for a guy. It is not like i am getting plastic surgery! I think it would be for the best because I could get more self confidence.
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At that age, short of going around everywhere in a bikini, wear skirts above the knee or hip huggers and halter tops or blouses tied off just above the belly button. Keep your hair as long as possible (down to your butt if possible, though it is a major hassle to take care of when it's that long). And heels (though at your age heels are bad for your feet and could lead to major structural issues later on). Wear some red lipstick, but otherwise as little makeup as possible. Makeup on a junior high schooler looks really fakey and desperate.
Don't go for pants that show your thong. It makes you look like a hoochie and just is not hot.
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You are a 13 year old girl. First of all, boys should be the last thing on your mind now. `Its bad if you are changing yourself just to impress boys, because most likely, middle school boys wont even notice.
If you want to attract guys, why dont you worry about boosting your confidence. That is always more important than looking "hotter". Trust me. Im a teenage boy, and honestly, if a girl just decided to dress "hotter" all a sudden i would think that girl is a slut. This question is the question that girls ask when they are on the road to becoming a slut, and i dont want that for you, or anybody. America's culture is already so diseased. This country needs more classy, valued, and well-mannered girls who have self respect. Become one of them, please. Believe me. :)
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Well, you are too young to be looking "hotter" for guys whether you think so or not. You're barely a teenager and you're already worrying about your appearance? Damn, just be a kid. Enjoy being a kid. Play. Not worry. Do whatever the hell 13 year olds are doing nowadays that doesn't involve sacrificing their youth to look "hotter" to the opposite sex. You have an entire lifetime of that ahead of you, just be stress free for a couple more years.
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Well, 13 is not too young to be worrying about guys, as long as you continue to excel in classes and other activities. There's also nothing wrong with looking good for the other gender, as long as you stay true to yourself.
To answer your question though, the tried and proven method of attracting male attention is to show more skin. It's a delicate balance though. You'd want to leave plenty to the imagination, and not come off looking like a tramp.
A skirt slightly above the knees, and a form fitting t-shirt. If you have a fit body, try to show off some of the curves with form fitting clothing.
Depending on your personality or fashion preferences, colors and fabrics are up to you. Try looking in some teen fashion magazines, as they are often shamelessly sexually charged despite the target audience.
Remember not to show too much skin! This is important, as any guy worth your time and attention won't want a girl who looks like she's 'easy' or 'slutty'. Makeup is usually helpful, but in very very light quantities. Don't try to hide your face in it.
If you wear glasses, get a pair that frames your face well. Get your hair done if you want to spend the money on it regularly. Do your nails if you are into that, buy some clothing. Looking good costs money, so that's something to remember.
However, looking good is for -every day-, not some days. The guys won't stop looking at you just because you're not expecting it. So try to find a style and cost margin that you're willing to deal with every day. Don't put all this insane effort into it one day and then not wear it later because it's too much work. Keep it constant.
Even after all this, the most important aspect is your demeanor. The way you carry yourself. I mean your personality. Stay cheerful yet reserved, and always be friendly no matter who you're talking to.
Good luck!
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