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Im always here to help You! Thanks to all you guys who have helped me already!


My boyfriend and I have been togeter since Feburary 2nd,2004! We are still great, and going strong!! :)



That car to the side is a 1999 Honda Prelude in pearl white! My favorite car!! :)


I have had a bunch of friends that have had wierd problems, and I Have always experienced a lot.



I babysit a lot, so if you have questions about that, Ask away!




I love fashion questions and Questions about clothing and what looks good with what and where to find cheep stuff.



I love make-up questions and most hair questions!




Although I do answer them, I hate sex questions.




I am good at the whole "being a girl" thing, like shaving and periods. Ask me those, I'd love to help!



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Mackenzie She is amazing! :) She is REALLY amazing!!!


YG Yeah, She is definately awesome!


The Old One He is good! :)


Karen Can we say genius?


Selectopaque Excellent!


Emily *Clap Clap Clap*


NaImEE amazing advice!!


Bryndon Pretty good advice right there!!


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and I'll be adding more soon! Could it be you? :)


I would love to and gladly accept any questions on anything, it does not have to be anything above.




Favorite Books:


*Go Ask Alice
*Annie's Baby
*It Happened To Nancy
*Teen Idol
*All-American Girl
*The 1-800-Where-R-You Series
*The Mediator Series
*The Body Of Christopher Creed
*Freaky Green Eyes
*Of Mice and Men
*The Wattsons Go To Bermingham
*To Kill A Mockingbird
*The Earth, My But, and Other Big Round Things
* The Secret Life Of Beez
*Where the heart is


Favorite Movies:


*Now and then
*where the hear is
*Honey
*Save The Last Dance
*Love Don't Cost A Thing
*Kate and Leapold
*Miss Congeanility 1 and 2
*Beauty Shop
*A Cinderella Story
*Confessions Of A Teenage Drama Queen
*Raise Your Voice
*Drumline
*The Notebook
*Coyote Ugly
*Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants
*Hitch
*Where The Heart Is
*Now And Then
*10 Things I Hate About You
*Drop Dead Goregous
*The Wedding Planner
*Uptown Girls
*Finding Forrester
*Greese
*Leagly Blonde 1 And 2
*Sweet Home Alabama
*What Women Want
*Napolean Dynomite
*Shrek 1 And 2
*Finding Nemo
*Pirates Of The Carriebean
*Pay It Foward
*Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
*Maid In Manhatten
*Charlie and The Chocolate Factory
*The Unfinished Life


Music:


*ALL COUNTRY!!!!
*Usher
*The All American Rejects
*New Found Glory
*My Chemical Romance
*Sugar Cult
*Black Eyed Peas
*Switchfood
*John Mayer
*Gavin DeGraw
*Trapt
*Ashlee Simpsion
*COHEED AND CAMBRIA
*Lonestar
*Fall Out Boy
*Hilary Duff
*311
*Systen Of a Down
*Chronic Future
* The Gorillaz
* My Chemical Romance
*Fall Out Boy
*Embodyment
*Boxcar racer
* Alien Ant Farm


Songs:


*Kyrie- By Mr. Mister
*We Danced Anyway- Deana Carter
*Breathless- The Corrs*



And Much More!!




If you want to know about any of the books, movies, bands, artists, or songs, please feel free to leave one in my inbox!! Always There For Ya!!



I Love To Help!!



Feel free to ask me anything! :)I try to help as best I can! :)




*You get what you give, & everything you do comes back to you*


One night, the moon said to me " If he makes you cry, why don't you leave him?" I looked upto the moon and said, "Moon, would you ever leave the sky?"


I know there's something in the wake of your smile. I get a notion from the look in your eyes. You've built a love, but that love falls apart. Your little piece of heaven, turns to dark.Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile, the precous moments are all lost in the tide. They're swept alway, and nothing is what it seems, the feeling of belonging to your dreams.AND THERE ARE VOICES THAT WANT TO BE HEARD,so much to mention, but you can't find the words. The scent of magic, that's the beauty that's been, when love was wilder than the wind.


♥ -Kelsey- ♥

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Does anyone have any good ideas for a mother's day gift? I have no ideas! It could also be a home-made gift.

cake, cookies, breakfast, flowers, card, clean the house and make breakfast/dinner/lunch cupons!! i did that for my mom, i made them on the computer!! it was awesome!! like one day out to get nails and toes done, and lunch @ bread co! it was cool, and since i have a little bro, he made some to cut the grass and clear off the table @ dinner!!

thanks for letting me help you!!
always there-
Kelsa :)

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I got my first period in January. I haven't gotten it since then! I know I'm not pregnat.

What's wrong with me?

http://www.beinggirl.com

its an amazing site that helps with that kind of thing.

well, its because it was your first.

I have had mine for 3 years, and it STILL is not regualr!! so, dont worry about it!!! you will possibly expierence discharge, or you already have, it is a clearish-white-yellowish "glop" and it is normal, it is your body cleaning itself out. its okay! its normal for it to do that "down there"

uh, if you have anyother questions about anything, esp. this, leave one in my inbox!!
I am really good at this!!

thanks for letting me help you!!
always there-
Kelsa :)

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hey! my dad told me that if i get a 92 or above on my report card at the end of the year, then he will get me a new cellphone. but see, i have a problem..softball has started and so that is what im worried about. and i havent been finishin my homework at home and i havent been studying. i need some tips to start buckling down. my lowest grade is a 78 and my highest is an 89(?)..can someone help me? i only have about 4 weeks left of school...

well, this is what i do, since i have track, and seeing as to you have softball, we both coudnt stay after school, i go in before school, and get help from my teachers!! that has helped me turn a 76 or was it a 74? well anyways into a 92 in just 6weeks!! so you only have to go up like 3 or 4, points!! so you are going to do great!! also maybe a little study group with some of your friends, or you could do homework together!! but i do go in early alot and it has helped, and if there is ever a day when you dont have pratice after school, stay after and get some help, and make sure to always go in when you dont understand anything, and before a test and/or quiz!!!

thanks for letting me help you!

if you ever need anything else, please leave one in my inbox!!!!

always there-
Kelsa :)

*(school is almost out!!! WOOT!)*

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ok i'm a 15 year old girl and i need some answers about 2 or 3 weeks ago me and this sophomore that goes to my school we did some "stuff" we went to like 3rd base. I went over to his house like 2 or 3 weeks ago on monday and we just made out ALOT then on tuesday was when everything else happend everything was fine before that and then on thursday i asked if he wanted to come up to school and just hang out or w/e and he was like "no thanx" and so i asked why whether it was b/c he couldnt or there was nothing to do there and he said both and that i didnt talk and i was clueless after that i obviously wanted to kno why he said that so i called him and talked to him and all he gave me were half ass answers and he was being an ass the next day at school when i was trying to text my brother and he texted me and was like "stop talking to me" so i was like wtf but i didnt care i was mad at him than and still kinda am so my question is what is his deal and did i get used?

and that was my answer from another question like yours, and well, my story is there, and it was the same thing basically that happened, only just not as "far"

well, what happened was you got cought up in the moment. happens to the best of us. you need to, for the next time, set a boundary for youself. as in, i wont go past making out, or feeling up, i dont know. and i dont know what your "3rd base" defination is, but make sure that if that happens again, the guys hands are clean. there are ways to get pregnate like that, i went to a seminar on it. okay, welll, i know why you still like him, and its because you two did stuff, and he made you think that it was the "cool" thing to do. and he doesnt talk to you now, or do anything with you now, because people know, and he doesnt want his rep. to be bad, even though you are the one that got really hurt from it. I was the victim of something like that. I was somewhat forced to do things witha guy. he persuaded me into thinking it was cool, and everyone was doing it, so it was pressure too, because he was older. and then when i would tell people he would get mad at me, and of course i wanted to tell because, i was a lot younger then, and he was a whole grade older. and anyways, he wouldnt talk to me in public, well, he would only talk to me before anything tookplace, and during, ect. so, i dont want that to happen to anyone else, and it sounds like it did. and i know how you feel, about the love thing, because thats how i felt, and i would put my head on his shoulder and hug him, and he would tell me not to because it made him feel uncomfortable. yeah, i am dead serious. so, just make sure that no matter what, you set boundaries for yourself. I have a great boyfriend now, who knows all about what happened, and i have been with my boyfriend for almost 15 months, and we have bounadries set, and we wont cross them, and thats good to have in a relationship, and also, we talk like all of the time, its good to have communication in a relationship!!




anyways- if you ever need anything else, please leave one in my inbox.

thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
Kelsa :)

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On me n this guy's first date, we went all the way to 3rd base... and thenw e went out for like a week or 2 longer and then broke up.. rumors flew around the school which caused the break up.. now he and I merely talk.. but consider each other as friends still... I think i still like him.. but I don't think he likes me... how can I change his perspective of the relationship.. and why do I still like him? Thanks ahead of time!

well, what happened was you got cought up in the moment. happens to the best of us. you need to, for the next time, set a boundary for youself. as in, i wont go past making out, or feeling up, i dont know. and i dont know what your "3rd base" defination is, but make sure that if that happens again, the guys hands are clean. there are ways to get pregnate like that, i went to a seminar on it. okay, welll, i know why you still like him, and its because you two did stuff, and he made you think that it was the "cool" thing to do. and he doesnt talk to you now, or do anything with you now, because people know, and he doesnt want his rep. to be bad, even though you are the one that got really hurt from it. I was the victim of something like that. I was somewhat forced to do things witha guy. he persuaded me into thinking it was cool, and everyone was doing it, so it was pressure too, because he was older. and then when i would tell people he would get mad at me, and of course i wanted to tell because, i was a lot younger then, and he was a whole grade older. and anyways, he wouldnt talk to me in public, well, he would only talk to me before anything tookplace, and during, ect. so, i dont want that to happen to anyone else, and it sounds like it did. and i know how you feel, about the love thing, because thats how i felt, and i would put my head on his shoulder and hug him, and he would tell me not to because it made him feel uncomfortable. yeah, i am dead serious. so, just make sure that no matter what, you set boundaries for yourself. I have a great boyfriend now, who knows all about what happened, and i have been with my boyfriend for almost 15 months, and we have bounadries set, and we wont cross them, and thats good to have in a relationship, and also, we talk like all of the time, its good to have communication in a relationship!!

anyways- if you ever need anything else, please leave one in my inbox.

thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
Kelsa :)

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ok so i have this bf for about 3 months...he is being mean to me..in the halls he says break up with me jokingly n tells me he would rather hang with his frinds to go airsofting than hang with me...i really like him still n all but he doesnt care about me like i think a boyfriend should...should i talk to him maybe he will change or should i dumb him...my guy friend has said to me that my bf doesnt care about me n that he is being an ***hole towards me.im confused b\c i still really like him n if i break up with him i might regret it...im confused on what to do..

kate!!!!1

ITS KELSEY!!

hey yah, i think that you two should *break* or he needs to change!!

oh, and ashley too- shes right --->there!

yay!! okay well we will see you soon!!

WE LOVE YOU KATE!!!!!!!

ASHLEY AND KELSEY

oh , and you were so hyper last night, LoL!

:)
thanks

and oh, please rate me/us a 5!

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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait?

DUMP HIM!

you should remail true to yourself. because i am the same way, but i will never give into anyone, its too special.

kelsa

AND DONT GIVE INTO HIM- IF HE IS PRESEURING YOU TO DO THAT- GET A DIFFFERNT GUY WHO WILL WAIT WITH/FOR YOU!

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I'm a shy girl (13/f) and I always feel lonely. I was wondering what's an easy way to make new friends?

be open minded, and listen to people!! people love people who listen! also, dont gossip, but just talk to a few people each day in each of your classes! and like in the restrooms and in lunch line ect!

best of luck-
Kelsa

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Well everytime i go some where like walking around my neighbor hood or driving in my car all these guys stop and look at me! its really starting to make me mad. I was walking home from school and this guy stopped and asked me my name and stuff. and just today a car full of guys stopped and asked me to come over to them its really gettin on my nerves. i dont dress slutty or any thing i just wear jeans a a big shirt or shorts and a long shirt. how do i get them to stop!

dont EVER go with them. this happens to me too, but its not cool! keep a cell with you, and do not walk over to their car, okay?

if you ever need anything else, ask!

always-
KelsAAAAAA

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I was just wondering if any of you guys out there are seirous about this- Okay, I was wondering when should you start having sex? And please please be serious.


Thanks~ Jessica

Jess-
I do not believe in sex before marrage.

Kelsa

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Hey gals,
to any of you who arent very close to your moms, how did you tell her when you started your period and how did she react?

YEAH, AND I JUST YELLED AT THE top(sorry for the caps there) of my lungs, because i didnt know what to do! i was like just done going to the bathroom, and i was standing there, and going crazy!! lol, and she helped me alot tho, and she still does! everytime that I need new stuff, I would just say tell her, or when you are at the shopping place with"feminine items" tell her that you need some, and then maybe she will get the hint, some moms get really excited about it like and hug you and everything, and those are usually the moms that want to know everything, like about school, hot boys, kisses! ect, but i would say that a mom who wants to know everything would just ask you if you had it, so i duno, anyways, i think i am done now, I have confused you enough! hey! its early in the morning, okay?

thanks for letting me help you!
Best Of Luck!
Always there-
Kelsa

P.S.= and thanks for not being like all of those other girls who say that they have their period and dont know how to tell their mother, and dont want to, and need to know how to buy and hide the "stuff"

thans for being mature!

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Earlier today i went to the orthodontist and got my braces changed and now they are extremely sore and i can't stand it i've taken medicine and everything but it didn't help...I need your advice on how to make them stop!...they hurt so bad ive cried my eyes out over them!..thanks in advance i will rate if thats what you want!

THEY WILL HURT, I DONT KNOW WHAT I DID,I HAD BRACES!!! and like they hurt alot too, and itook advil and just triend to put up with it! and also, just told myself that it would be better soon!

im sorry- hope the pain goes away soon!

kelsa

if you ever have any other questions, please ask, i would love to help!

always there-
KelsA :)

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hey there! im 5'6(i dont kno if that has anything to do with it..) but anyways..my jeans always fit tight when i first put them on..and by the end of the school day their baggyish in the butt..the other girls get their jeans to stay tight through out the whole day..yet school day..i dont kno wat to do..is there any tricks.. or something..lol? thanksss a bunch!

I want nice-tight fitted jeans!! :-/ and i buy..AE..EXPRESS jeans..and they fit perfect the 1st time i put them on..but as the day goes on..they stretch out or something!> again THANKS

yeah, that happens to me too! and also, i would have to say that you should make sure that they are washed and dont "Sag" them or pull them lower than the should be worn.

sorry if that doesnt help to much, but thats what i did!

always there-
Kelsa

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what do you think about giving head do you think it is the rite thing to do I told my boy friend I would but I dont know if I am going to do something wrong what do yuo think about this whole siduation? PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVISE

i wouldnt, i am againt that "stuff"
i will and if i were you, would wait until after marrage, if he wants to be with you and wants to do that, he will wait for you!!


but that is my oppinion-

if you do decide to, be careful.

Always-
Kelsa

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Ok! I am 13 and a girl and my boyfriend is 14. He has a younger brother my age. He wants to keep our... um... love, a secret from almost everyone, expesically his mother and father. Now here's the problem, he said that we have to do that until his 16 when his aloud to date!!! I do truely love him and he loves me. What should I do? I don't want to keep it a secret but he said he'd break up with me if his parents or brother finds out! (P.S. I don't want to hurt him cuz he just broke up with a girl that he was dating for 2 years! She just said we're done and walked away! I don't want to hurt him...)

well, if you love him, you have to be willing to go to extreams to be with him! i know how you feel!!

Thanks for lettting me help you
always there-
Kelsa! :)

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I have a problem my dog, just recently died and so we got a new puppy Razberry. But as he has gotten older he has become vicious. I just go into the backyard to try to play with him after school and i throw a ball or two. Then I go check if he needs more water in his bowl or not. But then out of the blew he jumps up bites me really hard in the back then I turn around and he bites me in the leg which leaves a scratch and a popping out bruise. Then i try to get away from him and out of the backyard but he keeps biting me. This has been happening for a while now and I dont know what to do to make him stop. I love my puppy and I dont want to give him away. He can be soo sweet to me and i can just tell in his eyes that he loves me too. I think he is just trying to play but doesn't know when to stop. I just would like any suggestions on something I could do to understand that biting me like that is wrong and it hurts. I have tried disciplining him but then he becomes more vicious and bites more. Please help me!
thnx a bunch!

I DONT HAVE AN answer but ask
selectopaque

she is great at pet questionS!!!

she helped me alot!!

THanks for letting me help you!
always there-
Kelsa! :)

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theres this boy we arent dating or anything but we used too. well lately ive been hearing that he wants to date me again and he has been flirting with me. and also he has been asking me to have sex with him im a virgin and im not really ready for sex or anything wat should i do.

dont do it! that is sooo bad! I do not believe in sex before marage, if he doesnt stop asking, i woudl tell an athority, a parent or teacher, or even cops or prinicipal, if he goes to your school because that is sexual harassment!


hope i helped-
Kelsa

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Okay, a really close guy friend of mine just told me last night that he just realized that he has feelings for me. we were VERY close last year, but we don't have any classes this year and we rarely talk. He even has a girlfriend now that he is supposedly crazy about. I was telling him how I have feelings for this other very close friend of mine, and right as I was explaining he was like.."I feel jealous..:-/" then that's how he got into it. He said this, "I don't know how to explain it, but I guess when someone likes someone else that's when you really realize your feelings for them.." blahblah.. then he said that he's really confused. [this was online, I know..stupid] He said that he would call me and explain it to me. I keep saying, "no I don't think that would be a good idea, you have a gf" then he would be like, "that doesn't mean you cant have feelings for someone else.." I see him every once in a while and it's kind of akward.. I think I'm starting to have feelings for him, and I don't know what to do. Any tips would be great thanks!

its normal to feel jealous, im sorry that he has a girlfriend, but you are luckier, beacuse boyfriends/girlfriends come and go, but freinds stay forever!

:)

thanks for letting me helpyou!

if you ever need anything else, please leave one in my inbox!

always there-
Kelsa!

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ok well theres this guy in my history class and lately we have been closer. "Josh" has even told me that he liked me, but everytime i flirt with him ppl ask "are u 2 going out?" and hes always like, "NO!!!!" i dont get whay he would tell me that he liked me and know that i like him but not do a single thing about it. Does anyone have any advice on how i can approach the situation?
Anything is great!

He could be scared of what people think! or maybe he is scared of what you think!

try to talk to him about it. just be like hey, i have been meaning to ask you something, why is it that you said that you like me, but then when we are "flirting" or talking together and people question us if we are going out or not, you say no, fast and strong?

thanks for letting me help you!
if you ever need anything else please leave one in my inbox! i would be more than happy to help!
always there-
Kelsa

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Hey, I want one of those livestrong braclets except I want one for breast cancer. Where can i get them and how much are they?

in the mall at the clinique counters and also online at ebay.com and they are $2 at the mall where I live!

Kels!

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