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totally shocked.
Okay, a really close guy friend of mine just told me last night that he just realized that he has feelings for me. we were VERY close last year, but we don't have any classes this year and we rarely talk. He even has a girlfriend now that he is supposedly crazy about. I was telling him how I have feelings for this other very close friend of mine, and right as I was explaining he was like.."I feel jealous..:-/" then that's how he got into it. He said this, "I don't know how to explain it, but I guess when someone likes someone else that's when you really realize your feelings for them.." blahblah.. then he said that he's really confused. [this was online, I know..stupid] He said that he would call me and explain it to me. I keep saying, "no I don't think that would be a good idea, you have a gf" then he would be like, "that doesn't mean you cant have feelings for someone else.." I see him every once in a while and it's kind of akward.. I think I'm starting to have feelings for him, and I don't know what to do. Any tips would be great thanks!
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Do not do anything not while he is still seeing someone. When two people have feelings for each other but one of them has a partner someone is going to get hurt!. This boy ids obviously confused about his feelings, he says that he likes you but you have heard that he is also crazy about his girlfriend. What you need to do is meet with him face to face, tell him how you feel but also tell him that nothing can ever happen between you while he is seeing someone else, he then will have to make the choice of who he wants to be with.
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its normal to feel jealous, im sorry that he has a girlfriend, but you are luckier, beacuse boyfriends/girlfriends come and go, but freinds stay forever!
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I would normally say "follow your heart," but this guy doesn't seem worth your while. He's obviously not very trustworthy if he's thinking about cheating on his girlfriend. If he's willing cheat on his gf now then how will you know that if you start dating him that he won't cheat on you? Try to get the akwardness to go away and at least become friends with him again.
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If he's serious he will break up with his girlfriend and ask you out. Then YOU will know he's serious too. Make sure it's over with the gf then go for it if thats what you want. Sometimes it's easier for people to write what they are thinking. He was probably telling you the truth. Now you'll have to wait and see if he was serious. :)
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