Member Since: July 12, 2005
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Last Update: July 12, 2005
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Okay, a really close guy friend of mine just told me last night that he just realized that he has feelings for me. we were VERY close last year, but we don't have any classes this year and we rarely talk. He even has a girlfriend now that he is supposedly crazy about. I was telling him how I have feelings for this other very close friend of mine, and right as I was explaining he was like.."I feel jealous..:-/" then that's how he got into it. He said this, "I don't know how to explain it, but I guess when someone likes someone else that's when you really realize your feelings for them.." blahblah.. then he said that he's really confused. [this was online, I know..stupid] He said that he would call me and explain it to me. I keep saying, "no I don't think that would be a good idea, you have a gf" then he would be like, "that doesn't mean you cant have feelings for someone else.." I see him every once in a while and it's kind of akward.. I think I'm starting to have feelings for him, and I don't know what to do. Any tips would be great thanks! (link)
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Do not do anything not while he is still seeing someone. When two people have feelings for each other but one of them has a partner someone is going to get hurt!. This boy ids obviously confused about his feelings, he says that he likes you but you have heard that he is also crazy about his girlfriend. What you need to do is meet with him face to face, tell him how you feel but also tell him that nothing can ever happen between you while he is seeing someone else, he then will have to make the choice of who he wants to be with.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two years, and he has a three year old boy named Matty. I don't really have a problem with this, because I love the both of them so much. Matty's mom is the one who has the problem. Alex (boyfriend) doesn't EVER see Matty's mom. EVER. But he does sometimes let Matty see his mom. The only thing is that Matty doesn't seem to like his mother at all. He likes me more, so to speak. Alex hates Matty's mom for trying to take custady of Matty, but she lost the case, so he legaly belongs to Alex, but the problem is that she is telling people that I am ripping her baby away from her. I'm not. Alex was 20 when he had Matty, and he's a really great father to the kid, and Matty's mom is threatening to go to court again but this time with me. I don't want this, I'm not saying I like this girl, but I sometimes feel sorry for her. It must be hard never getting to see your kid and even harder when he doesn't like you. I'm tired of coming home and crying on Alex's shoulder. How do I tell this girl and Matty that there are better ways to solve this?
Thnx.
Sammy (link)
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At the end of the day this woman should be happy that her child is being so well looked after, dont blame yourself for this situation you have done nothing wrong! you have to ask yourself though what has this woman done to her child to make him dislike her in the way that he does? Also if she was that heartbroken about losing her kid believe me she would fight tooth and nail with your partner to get the child back to be honest it doesnt sound to me as though she is really that bothered. I think the reason that she is being mean and threatning court is because she is jelouse of the relationship that you and your boyfriend have, ex wives and girlfriends usually find it very difficult when their ex partners find a new lady and starts getting on with his life. I would not worry to much about her threats as i doubt very much that she would see them through. i suggest that maybe for the time being you and your partner dont let her have access to the child to save the kid a lot of heartache and also you.
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so i go to this camp next week for a whole week. and at the end of it the have this big banquet dinner thing. the problem is i dont get asked by anyone to it. my friend is kind of a "slut" and puts herself out to everyguy she sees. and i dont. people tell me how pretty i am yet NO ONE asks me. this year i want to go with some one. im really friendly. what should i do to get a guy to ask me? (link)
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The only reason that guys ask your friend out is because she is a slut, the are not interested in her as a person so in the long run it is her who is losing out. If i were you i would be myself, you have been told that you are pretty so believe it and dont let something like not having a date get you down, if you want this guy to ask you out just be you, drop a few hints that you like him and make sure he knows that you dont have a date for the dinner yet trust me it will pay off, if you dont feel that this method is working you will just have to bite the bullet and ask him to go with you - if he says yes great, if he says no his loss and plenty more fish in the sea. If he cant see a good thing in front of him he is not worth bothering about.
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Well there's a boy-we're both on the same tennis team. We're friends, we've never hung out outside of tennis, mainly because he dated my old bestfriend as a freshman, then again a couple of months ago *sophmore year*. By "old bestfriend" I mean we were BeSt friends in middle school but high school came along and we grew apart. I'll sit with her at lunch and comment on her xanga but that's as far as it goes now-a-days. Recently, these two broke up *again* and it was his fault. He started acting wierd or something like that. The problem is, I like this kid! Before him and her went out my friends told me to 'go for it' but of course I didn't but now after this break-up i don't know if i should. Not to mention we're on the same tennis team. Advice? (link)
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I dont think it would be the best idea for you to try it on with this boy at the moment, not only has he just split from a girl who was once your best friend but he is on the same team as you. If you did hook up it could get messy seeing as you have already said he can act a bit weird and strange at times. You have to find out how his ex is feeling about the spilt and if the answer is not good then you should be a friend to her and not try it on with her her ex boyfriend. You had your chance to get with him before and you never did anything about it, now you have to let him and your friend try and work this out.
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