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camp banquet time..
so i go to this camp next week for a whole week. and at the end of it the have this big banquet dinner thing. the problem is i dont get asked by anyone to it. my friend is kind of a "slut" and puts herself out to everyguy she sees. and i dont. people tell me how pretty i am yet NO ONE asks me. this year i want to go with some one. im really friendly. what should i do to get a guy to ask me?
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what i w0uld d0 w0uld put urself 0ut there s0 people kn0w your available .. and maybe even if they say ur pretty and it seems like the like y0u try and ask them becuz y0u never kn0w they c0uld be scared !! and if n0thing happenes and your still al0ne maybe find s0me girls 0r s0mething t0 g0 with y0u 0r s0mething .. s0metimes thts the funnest .. but ii kn0w h0w y0u feel y0u want a guy .. well if n0ne 0f my suggesti0ns w0rk feel free t0 im me tricia ♥
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You should ask a guy! Dont be afraid or be embaressed to. You can do whatever you want and you dont have to be embarrassed, I'm sure it would be nervwrecking to ask a guy, but it could be a cool exspierience to ask a guy to it. What camp is it? I think i know which camp your talking about.Of course your friend will get guys because of how she acts, but you have to find that guy that doesnt want a girl for there looks. You probably are pretty, i'm guessing your in the age between 13-16 if so, guys in thhose years also get nervous asking out girls so dont fret. Good Luck!
~Brina~
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The only reason that guys ask your friend out is because she is a slut, the are not interested in her as a person so in the long run it is her who is losing out. If i were you i would be myself, you have been told that you are pretty so believe it and dont let something like not having a date get you down, if you want this guy to ask you out just be you, drop a few hints that you like him and make sure he knows that you dont have a date for the dinner yet trust me it will pay off, if you dont feel that this method is working you will just have to bite the bullet and ask him to go with you - if he says yes great, if he says no his loss and plenty more fish in the sea. If he cant see a good thing in front of him he is not worth bothering about.
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Hmm. Why don't you try asking a guy yourself? Or if you have any guy friends, ask them if they wanna go with you.
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i have to say that i share the exact same problem as you. But i finally came around when i met this guy that i liked. I tried to sit by him everyday and class called him a acouple of times and just acted like i was so into him every time i was around him. On the last day of school he asked me out. try my philosophy. Good Luck
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