ok well theres this guy in my history class and lately we have been closer. "Josh" has even told me that he liked me, but everytime i flirt with him ppl ask "are u 2 going out?" and hes always like, "NO!!!!" i dont get whay he would tell me that he liked me and know that i like him but not do a single thing about it. Does anyone have any advice on how i can approach the situation?
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spoiledx3shortii answered Friday April 22 2005, 1:00 pm: Many guys are like that -- they know you like them and they like you. but they dont do anything about it. im thinking you two should spend some more time together. actually get to know each other like just act like 2 really close friends. than he may get to like you more and eventually ask you out. <3 hope i helped [ spoiledx3shortii's advice column | Ask spoiledx3shortii A Question ]
Peachgirly answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 10:49 pm: I think that he may be embarrassed by the questions he is being asked and the attention he is getting and just doesn't want other people to know. I think that the only way you can get your answer is to talk to him about it. if it doesn't work out between you two then he probably isn't the one or is worth it. good luck! ♥ Peachgirly [ Peachgirly's advice column | Ask Peachgirly A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 9:58 pm: well, ask him why he won't go out with you if he likes you. Maybe he get's embarrassed when he's asked those kind of questions. Ask him about that. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
dearheart answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 8:20 pm: well i think u should ask him out yourself if you like him.cause you guyz have been getting close. and boys are just like that they can be shy at times well hope i helped
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luv2swim109 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 8:09 pm: Well i think he says no because he feels pressured aroud other people. um your best bet is to talk to him. sxtraiten things out. guyys are just so wierd. but maybe you'll figure out waht his problem is. (why he is doing that)
K2204 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 7:56 pm: He could be scared of what people think! or maybe he is scared of what you think!
try to talk to him about it. just be like hey, i have been meaning to ask you something, why is it that you said that you like me, but then when we are "flirting" or talking together and people question us if we are going out or not, you say no, fast and strong?
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