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I'm 25 shes 19, known each other for 3yrs. Get on really well always laughing and flifting etc, lately shes split with her ex. We've done stuff before but no sex which is fine thats not the initial aim here, spent fair bit of time together recently, few kisses etc but then thats it. I'm sure she knows I really like her and she must like me too, but I fear if I lay it on the line with her she may clam up but if not then she'l certainly find someone eles soon, annoying thing is I'm a great guy and definately have qualities her ex's didn't she knows that too. (not meant to sound big headed). Which way should I go? We also work together so I always know when she's seeing someone and I think thats gonna start to do my head in, and if she isn't interested why is she leading me on!? Help please! (link)
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I think you take the chance and ask her out. She may be waiting for you to do so.
Like you mentioned, if you wait, someone else might just ask her first.
If she likes you she says yes and everyone is happy. If she says no she just wants to be friends, well, you'll be sad for awhile but at least you know where you stand with her.
Don't waste anymore time thinking and worrying about it. Find out for sure. :)
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I know you are not supposed to cut you horse's mane with scissors, so how do you cut it? (link)
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Scissors will get dull pretty fast and you can't cut much at a time. They do work though. We used them all the time.
You might check a Farm and Home type store in your area though. I bet they make some scissors for just that purpose. :)
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ok, i'm friends with this guy who has a g/f. But, he gives me signals that he likes me...For Example..I've been at my friends house while he's been there twice. Each time, we've layed either in the road or on the trampoline looking at stars. He asked me at school when we were gonna look at 'em again. I said "who knows?" and he told me that he looked at 'em over the weekend and he thought about me! He always hugs me and smiles at me when he sees me in the hall at school. Today, I saw him and he walked right by me, but i looked at him and he held out his hand and held it for a min. I'm confused...he has a g/f but he gives me hints! what's going on? (link)
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He may like you to. Maybe he plans to break up with the other girl, maybe he just wants to be friends. Being friends is not such a bad way to start things though!
Just be careful that things don't get out of hand as long as he is dating someone else. Its a good way to get yourself hurt.
Good luck.:)
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See, I have these scattered pimples on my back and shoulders, not alot, just a few, I was wondering, is there only way to treat them?
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There are so many things to try! Here are a few websites that have good info on them.:)
Acne…http://health.discovery.com/encyclopedias/illnesses.html?article=2305&page=1
Acne…http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=243&np=292&id=2154
Acne, Can I prevent?----http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/beautiful/prevent_acne.html
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i had my period yesterday..is ok to take like one advil or aleve everyday to reduce cramp pains? (link)
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Yes that will be okay so long as you're not allergic to them or anything. Midol works very well too. Maybe you can get your mom to get you some. :)
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my parents were never married, and shortly after i was born they split up. my father was an alcaholic and he used to come around sometimes when i was little, but when i got older i almost never saw him. when i was like 12 i would go to my grandfathers before for school because my mom worked and one day he just showed up. he told me to come to breakfast with him before school but i kicked and screamed. he picked me up and forced me into his truck, go to breakfast, and then school. since then my parents have been in and out of cort, and me and my mom learned he was a drug attic, and was homeless. i am 14 now and forced to go with him every saturday. i hate it, and we dont speak..we just sit in him old truck. on odd years (like this one) i have to spend thanksgiving and christmas with him. i never thought he even loved me..just the idea of me, but yet he still makes me go. he and his family are like strangers to me, and it is hard for me to be voicetrous and mean to them because of that. i really hate going with him and i want to stop. How do you think i can tell him that? because even though it seems easy, whenever i try i am somehow lost for words. please tell me what you think. (link)
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You probably won't like my advice but I will give it to you anyway.
I think that even though he has problems he is still your dad. He cares about you or he wouldn't try so hard to spend time with you.
You may not think so now but the time will come when you will regret it if you just cut him out of your life completely.
It would be wonderful if he was rich and not into drugs but hopefully his life will be a lesson to you. Maybe one day he will sober up and be a better dad to you. I hope so.
So, I think you need to try your best to get along with him. Get to know him better. Find out why hes done the things he has.
If you feel you are being disloyal to your mom by spending time with him don't be. They may not have been right for each other, but you are his daughter. For better or worse. Try to make the best of it. Change your attitude so he doesn't have to be on the defensive when you are together. You may learn to like him just a little bit anyway. :)
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ok so im dating this guy ;; i REALLY like him and he likes me too ((obviously)) ;; but we live in diff. states and his mom is kinda wierd bout the whole thing ;; if anyones ever been in this situation or knows what i should do ;; reply to this ;; PLEASE ;; i rate 5s ;; ♥chassi (link)
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My advice to you is to drop your question into the inbox of Dangerwench. She met Dangernerd over the internet so I would suppose a lot of their dating was done the same as yours is.
I'm sure she can tell you a few things to help you out. :)
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If a couple broke up, and the guy was on crystal meth the night that it happened, and it's likely he's been strung out on it ever since, is it possible that it hasn't hit him yet what happened? Like, he knows what happened he's just so messed up he doesn't care?
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People who are that messed up don't usually care about anything except their drugs.
Oh, they may have lucid moments, but in the end its that drug they want above all else.
So, I think hes so messed up he really doesn't care. Sorry 'bout that. :)
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Last time my question for deleted.
can someone please tell me what SPOONING means?
Like... i have no idea what it means.
please help
ill rate high
thank you
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spoon
verb
To engage in kissing, caressing, and other amorous behavior: Informal fool around, neck, pet1. Slang make out. See sex/asexual.
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I'm 17/f and I've been best friends with this guy my whole life. Our dad's were friends in high school so it's literally my whole life. His name is Ryan.
Ryan has a girlfriend that I just cannot stand. Last year she got me kicked off of my cheer squad at school and since then I've despised her.
When that happened they were dating and they way she got me kicked off was by showing my cheer coach pictures of a party I was at. At my school, cheerleaders aren't supposed to go to drinking parties and things like that.
Well I asked Ryan to talk her out of giving them to my coach because quite honestly, I never did anything like that to her and I never would have so I still don't understand why she would do such a thing. But anyway, he never talked to her about it and she gave them to my coach.
During this past week Ryan had bought her a beautiful white gold ring with a bow in the middle and in the middle of the bow there was a blue sapphire. He told a few people and it got around to her.
Monday after school Ryan and I were at my locker and she came up to us (him) and asked if he got her the ring. He said yes and she replied with "Ryan I HATE blue! You know that!”
That REALLY pissed me off so I said, "Yeah and I hope he knows you're a bitch too." Ryan told me to shut up and he walked off with her.
What kind of girlfriend would say that when her boyfriend bought her such a nice, expensive gift?
Every time I try to say something about her to him he gets all mad and tells me not to talk about her. Yet, I hear her talking to him about me all the time. And they're way worse things that I would ever say about her. I even have other friends tell me that she says things about me and he AGREES with her!
Today I went over to his house and walked into his room and they were in there. All I heard was "(my name) is such a bitch why do you even talk to her?" and Ryan said, "Yeah she just gets jealous sometimes"
If I were to say that to him about her he's have a fit! I don't know what I'm supposed to do here because it seems that he just doesn't care about me. She’s a bitch to everyone including him but he still puts up with it. Why does he treat her so much better than how he treats me?
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I don't know if you are actually jealous of her, he must feel you are. I don't think I would take that comment as him agreeing with her though. He is actually making excuses for you...which is a good sign.
Don't discuss her with him. At all. I know it will be hard to do, and I agree with you that she is a selfish sounding piece of work.
When you talk about her with him, it makes him mad. It gives her something more to bitch about, so just resist the urge. It will then make you look good, and her look bad.
It will make her look bad because she is very jealous of you. He still talks to you, remains friends with you...and she can't stand it. It will get old sooner or later. Especially if you suddenly become quiet about her. Even if he mentions her just tell him like this. I can't think of anything good to say about her so I'll say nothing. Please don't mention her to me.
No matter how pissed you get. Ignore her. If you see the two of them and stop to talk, pretend she isn't there. That will really get her panties in a bunch and she will start bad mouthing you. She will look bad, you will look good. I guess you could politely say hi or something and then ignore her. Then he won't accuse you of being rude.
OK enough out of me. :)
Oh, almost forgot. He treats her better because he happens to be dating her. Thats the only reason.
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hey i pierced my bellybutton a couple of hours ago and I want to know how to clean it and can I die from this??????? I did it by myself (link)
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Well, its not a good idea but its to late now!
Watch for infection. Any redness, soreness, red streaks coming from it, any crusting that looks to be infection...Tell someone and get to a doctor.
Since you just did it today it will probably be red and sore already. But if this changes in any way...you know what to do.
This site has very good aftercare instructions on it. Check it out. :)
http://tattoo.about.com/cs/beginners/l/blpiercingtlc.htm
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Okay I started my period a few months ago and I'm only using pads. I'm SO scared to try to put in a tampon and I don't even know why! I'm afraid I'll do something wrong and hurt myself. My mom keeps telling me to try one, they are way more sanitary blah blah blah. Can someone PLEASEEE help me? I don't really know what I'm asking, I guess just I need tips for how to put a tampon in for the first time. Thanks! I rate for only GOOD answers! (link)
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You can use whatever you are comfortable with. Its just a matter of getting used to the darn things.
I do have about 4 sites you can visit for more info. I think they cover abuot anything you ight have a question about. :)
Tampon use, FAQ…
http://www.tampax.com/en_us/pages/ques_main.shtml?pageid=tp0002&=1
Tampons, guide to using for the first time
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html
Tampons, how to use………http://www.kidzworld.com/site/p3627.htm
Tampons & virgins…………
http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/virgin.html
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What do you think about a guy that you ask over on a date, and he continually disses you?
I invited this guy over that I had liked for a long time.
I have a small but clean and nicely decorated appartment. Well he would say mean things about it, like when his tea got cold I told him I could zap it in my microwave and he said sarcastically "oh you have one of those"? Then when I asked him if he wanted to watch one of my movies he said "oh, it's the movie queen,". But the way he said it wasn't complimentary. Then he started asking me questions about my finaces! I kept trying to enagage him in conversation by showing him pictures but he looked completely bored. I felt very uncomfortable. I thought if I guy was into you he would say things to make you like him better. But the way he was acting it's like he was purposely trying to make me not like him.
Why do you think he was acting like this? He's still trying to be my friend. What should I do? (link)
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I really don't think I would want a friend like that. He sounds a little jealous to me.
Anyone who would be jealous because you have some nice things is probably not someone you want to have a round.
I don't know why anyone would behave the way he did. I think I would ask him, then tell him because he acted that way you can live without him.
Trust your instincts. He made you uncomfortable. There are better guys than that out there. Meet guys in public places from now on until you are sure about them. :)
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hey I really need some reassurance here....I'm like 98% positive that you can't get pregnant through oral sex but I just need to be reassured. Is there ANY WAY POSSIBLE to get pregnant through oral sex? ....I am about a week + late on my period and I haven't been late since like 7th grade. I really am concerned so please help. (link)
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Absolutely no way to get pregnant by having oral sex.
I have medical background if that helps on the reassurance.
Your period could be late because of stress or worry. Any number of reasons. Don't worry about it. :)
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I'm a 13/f and my friend is a 13/m. And lately I've been thinking he wants more than friendship. For awhile I've noticed that he has been staring at my boobs. Not just once, but like between 15-25 times a day. We are in all the same classes and out the corner of my eye, I see him ALWAYS staring at me. Today when he was looking "there" I asked him,if they were nice? I was doing this to see how he would react, thinking he would look away or ask what I was talking about. However, he said that he "loved them"! I'm like so shocked. I asked him why and he said it was because "he's a guy"! OMG. The worst part was that I really enjoy the attention. I put my hand on this inner thigh and was holding his hand and stuff. However, this isn't strange for us, because I've done that for like ever. I asked why he never touched me, like grab my hand and stuff {because I'm the one who grabs his hand}. And he said because "he wanted me to do what ever I wanted"! And every time I catch him looking and I point it out, he just has this little smirk on his face. Should I give in? Or should stop this thing? Because I really love him and he says he loves me too. So what should I do?
To everyone who gives a serious answer I'll RATE 5's.
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All guys regardless of age have a thing for boobs. Don't know why, guess because they don't have any!
Anyway, hes a perfectly normal 13 year old boy. I won't encourage you to do anything, but it is perfectly normal to enjoy him looking. :)
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is it possibly to get pregnant if you have sex without a condom but the guy didnt cum (link)
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Yes it is. Not real likely but definitely possible.
Check out www.coolnurse.com This site has lots of info on sex, birth control, STDs and anything else you need to know when having a relationship. :)
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Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
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The doctor will not discuss anything you tell him/her. Now is the time to get any of those questions that you have been wondering about answered. If you want to make a list.
Be honest. The doctor can give you some very useful information. You will not be judged.
Don't be scared. It will be fine.
Here is a website that will give you more info on what will happen. :)
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/medical_care/obgyn.html
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Okay so i am a 14/f and i have a disability called cerebral palsy (cp). This diability affects my legs and makes me walk very differently from others which can make people juge,stare and make fun of me. Now my friends who are 13 and 14 have a had at least 1 boyfriend and madeout and stuff like that. I have never had or done either of these, is this because of my disbility (does it scare or bother guys?). Aside from the disability i am a normal person with other than this problem a normal socail life....will i ever a romance coming my way?? please be honest no pity. (link)
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At your age it might well scare off the boys. Probably because they just aren't sure how to treat you. They should know to treat you the same as everyone else, but, that's just how a lot of them are.
Will you ever have a romance? Of course you will.
If you have a good personality sooner or later one of them...or, one you haven't even met yet, will open their eyes and see past the way you walk.
Are you shy, or are you pretty outgoing?
What you might try is going up to guys and talking to them. Let them see you are just the same as they are. Get involved in things and participate as much as you can.
If you have to do something a little differently because of your CP, learn to laugh about it and have a sense of humor.
Discuss CP with them (though don't make it the only thing you talk about!) Pretty soon they will look past it. It won't be something they feel awkward about any more, they will just see it as part of you. Right now its all they see.
Good luck and hang in there. Somewhere out there someone is just waiting for you. :)
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hey. my ex's name is brad. my new bf's name is jace. so... me and brad broke up about a month ago after 5 months. me and jace have been dating since 11/26. not long at all. but i really like him. but i didnt really realize that i still care about brad. he was my firt. if you no what i mean. he was so sweet. then we started fighting all of the time. he blamed me for cheating. so ya. we broke up. and after a while. i didnt care anymore. but then two of my friends told me that they like brad. i felt like my heart just dropped. they were worried i would be mad. but i said i wasnt. im not just hurt. idk what to do. i think im just jealous but i dont know. i want to stay with jace cuz he is so sweet too. how do i get rid of feelings for brad.
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I think you'll always have a soft spot in your heart for Brad. He was your first love after all!
Feeling a little jealous is natural.
I think as you get to know Jace better, you will feel less for Brad. Give it a chance. :)
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I have a problem and I don't know how to go and fix it. My brother had a motorcycle accident in june 2005 and he lost his apartment because he couldn't work. He has healed and now he's working and he's been here for almost six months now. I have given him until then end of December to be out but he's not putting in any effert to look for a place. I some advice to get him out with out making him hate me. I am married and have three children to take care of. Plus since he's working he's not giving anything toward the rent and stuff like that. Hope someone can help. (link)
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I have to agree with the others. You just can't be the nice guy here or he is going to walk all over you.
You have to stick to your guns...even if he doesn't have a place by then. Start now. Anything of his that's lying around the house...start packing it up. Let him know you mean business.
If the end of December arrives and he has no place yet, let him know he will be staying with a friend or in a hotel, but not in your house.
It isn't like he is a kid who hasn't been on his own before. He has had his own apartment. He just enjoys maid service you provide. Stop cooking for him and doing his laundry (if you do). Make him eat out or cook his own. Make him clean up after and do his own dishes.
In other words...make him miserable!
If he gets mad, he gets mad. He will get over it. Don't feel bad about wanting him out.
Good luck and stay tough. :)
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