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Whenever I try to talk to a girl I have not met I just freeze. I can't get the words out of me. I am looking to start off as friends and if I like her then ask her out but I just freeze. Is there some way I can get myself to get past it? (link)
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Maybe you can have a talkative friend help you out. Go with him up to the girl you want to talk to. Have him start the conversation. Once she starts talking perhaps she will talk to you. You try and talk back!
Have the friend (planned ahead of time), take off once you and the girl in question start talking okay.
Just a thought. :) Good luck.
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i was just wondering how many times a day should you use proactiv? im not sure if its one or two. and please dont tell me that i should stop using proactiv cause i want to. (link)
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According to its advertising ( which I looked up), Its a three step a day treatment. So I would guess its 3 times a day.
Best would be to follow label directions unless they are lost. :)
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What are websites to places similar to Myspace? Like places where you can make a site and have people look at it and have their own? (link)
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OK, here is a list for you to check out. Hope you find something suitable among them! This site lists places similar to myspace, and tells you a little something about each. :)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_social_networking_websites
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my best friend stole my boyfriend what should I do? (link)
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Tell them both what rotten friends they are and move on.
That's about all you can do. Neither is worth a dime. Make a new best friend and go find yourself a guy worth your time. :)
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okay well i have a friend who is 16 and pregnant (about 7 weeks if that matters at all)
well she just started coming to my school at the beggining of this year and i would say im one of the people in the school who is closest to her.
ive havent accually met her bf but ive talked to him online a few times and hes really worried about her and wants be to help her but i dont know how. they have been together for 3 years and i would say they really are too layed back. they have unprotected sex alot and have gotten high and drunk on several occasions and atleast once since shes been preggo (her dad has drug problems as well) and they dont have the greatest background so i really dont expect much from them. but i dont know how to get her to chance her ways! her bf has tried but i guess she wont listen. she doesnt eat well and do what she could to help her baby out..
and she doesnt even have a job or plan on getting one b/c her mom is paying for anything but i think she still needs some resposiblity and so does her her bf (who realizes this atleast)
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How old is her boyfriend? Is he working?
Ideal solution would be for him to take her clear out of the situation where he can care for her and the baby himself.
They both need to get it through their heads that drugs and alcohol while pregnant can lead to birth defects. That is not good. Try to appeal to her feelings about the baby (which hopefully are good).
Unprotected sex at this point in time doesn't matter. Shes already pregnant. Unless they are seeing others as well, of course.
Chances are, if she isn't listening to her boyfriend you don't have much of a chance of getting through to her either...but try. If attempts fail at least you know you did your best.
Good luck. :)
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My boyfriend is EXTREMELY overprotective. I talk to this other boy like on the computer and on the phone because we're just wicked good friends. We've never really met in person, but I'm thinking this kid likes me. He like always brings up my bf in negative ways and tells me to dump him and that he'd never do anything bad to me. Now my boyfriend wants to kill him even though he doesn't know him and my friend wants to kill my bf even though he doesn't know him. No matter what I say to my bf about not touching him or not worrying about it he just goes on and talks about beating up the kid or killing him and stuff. Now I'm finally going to meet this kid and we're sleeping over my friends house together. My bf is completely paranoid and says "IF THAT KID LAYS ONE FINGER ON YOU HE'S DONE ILL F***ING KILLTHAT KID." can you just please tell me what to do? it's getting way out of hand!!
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You need to tell your internet friend to lay off bad mouthing your boyfriend. He doesn't know him and you shouldn't put up with that. Can't really blame the boyfriend for being mad.
Be careful you aren't telling your boyfriend about this guy to get him jealous. It will lead to a break up if it continues. Nobody wants some stranger cutting them down to their girlfriend. It isn't right.
So, if you want to continue talking to this guy on the internet, you are going to have to tell him to stop talking about your boyfriend to you that way. True friends are helpful, He doesn't sound real helpful. :)
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whats the song that has the lyrics
lets get these teen hearts beating faster? (link)
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The song is 'Lying Is The Most Fun A Girl Can Have Without Taking Her Clothes Off' by Panic! At The Disco. :)
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okay so i usually get cramps just right now they are like really bad.. what are some ways to get rid of them other that mydol and laying down cause i have plans for today so i dont have much time and i dont want to walk around with these pains.. they hurts sooo freaking bad! (link)
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A heating pad works wonders.
If you don't have one, find an old dish washing liquid bottle or something with a lid on it that won't leak. Fill it with really hot water (boil some of the water if you have to), put it on your tummy and lie down for a bit. Ir really works good. :)
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I just wanted to say thanks for viewing my abuse thing. I just felt special knowing someone looked at it, haha. :]
You don`t have to answer this, I just wanted to say that I appreciate it. Gracias. :] (link)
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It may take a few days to take care of it.
Figured you shouldn't be left hanging wondering what was up!
I will let you know if I hear from anyone on how to handle it. :)
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. We're really close and I trust him with my life. I think we're ready to take our relationship farther, on a physical scale. But whenever we talk about sex we're just kidding I guess. And he seems really timid to talk to me about it. He's not a virgin, so he's been in the "wanting to have sex" position before. But I'm wondering, am I doing the right thing by talking to him about it, or should I just leave it up to him or go for it in the heat of the moment? (link)
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I think its wonderful you are comfortable enough with each other to discuss it.
It is also great he is waiting for you to be ready. Don't rush it. It will happen when you are ready. Just be prepared for when it does! :)
Here is a good site if you have not been there before...lots of useful info.
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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I forgot to add that I give that website addy to all who are thinking about sex. It really does have a lot of useful info on birth control, and many other things concerning sex.
Thanks for upping the rating, I try to come back if I feel like it will help. I am prone to ramble...;) YG
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Actually I did read the question. Maybe I elaborated to long on the answer.
Its great you talk about it...means yes, talking about it with him is good.so you're doing the right thing.
It will happen when you're ready was meant to mean do it when your ready...usually in the moment.
Hope that clarifies things for you.
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So okay i really want to but some like new bras and more thongs and underwear from victorias secret. But the thing is my mother is always like "nice thong"(sarcastically)when she hand me my luandry. My mom is kind of old fashioned and like really werid about that kind of thing and i am not sure why. How do i buy the things(online) i want without her being all werid.
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Shes probably like me. Personally, I'd rather wear none than have a thin piece of material ...well, you know! Maybe we are just sensitive to those things!
Anyway, unless you have a credit card mom will probably have to order them for you. Does she say you can't have them or is she only teasing you? I bet she is teasing. If so, she probably will get them for you...just can't see how you can stand to wear them. :)
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Ah, don't be embarrassed! Its probably a little embarrassing for her to talk about too. That's why she teases you. She will get over that if you do I'll bet! :)
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ok i am about to have a mental breakdown with scott..i don't know how much more i can take of all this crap...everyday its problem after problem...so he told me that he was going out to eat with his ex and her family...ok fine..then the next day its him vita (his ex), his friend sam and his girlfriend...i was like so your going on a double date and he goes in a way and i was PISSED!! he was like its not a date for me and vita its for sam and his girlfrined...and this is the girl who was buying his presents..i was crying and he goes why are u crying? why the hell do you think! he was like nothing is going to happen and then i said if you cheat on me with her dont even call me...so then yesterday we got into another fight b/c i was supposed to go and see him but my ride bailed and he was pissed and then he told me that he was haning out with vita friday and saturday and i got so mad i was like well i hope you have fun and i hung up then he called me back and left a message saying if you thought i was pissed befor you can't imagine how pissed i am now i dont even want to talk to you today so dont call me.. so thats how things are right now...i dont know what to do anymore..i'm going to have a mental breakdown...help me please (link)
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I'd have considered it cheating the minute he double dated.
Which is what it was regardless of how he wants to paint it.
You are right to be mad, I would have been. He needs to stop spending so much time with a girl who he considers just a "friend", and take care of his real relationship. If he doesn't, find someone who will.
Good luck. :)
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i have , i dont know if its a gas disorder, its really embarssing , and i end up just accidently farting in class, but when im at home i accident shart myself, its wicked embarrasing..people call me the fart machine , i dont know what to do ..please help ASAP...ill rate high (link)
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You probably need to see a doctor. It could be an allergic reaction to something you are eating...or, more than likely you are sensitive to something.
In the meanwhile, maybe you can have mom get you some gasX. Which works pretty good. :)
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My mom will NOT let me go out anywhere. Im 14 years old and i still have yet to go out to the mall with my friends. Shes way too over protective. Im not even aloud to walk down my street to mcdonalds which is not even two minutes away. I have tried numerous times to talk to her about this situation and she still sticks with the same awnser of "no your too young!" She bearly lets me go to school events, and mi grandmother pushes her into the no awnser even farther.
Thanks Rebecca ♥
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If you watch the news at all, you can sorta understand why she is so overprotective. There are bad people out there!
There does come a day though when she needs to let you use your brain, and the things she has taught you to do some exploring on your own.
Have you asked her just when she feels you WILL be old enough to do some going to the mall & things with your friends? Start there. Make her actually think about it instead of just saying no.
You need to stress to her that YOU know what to do and not to do if approached by strangers. Until she is comfortable with it tell her you will stay in a group. Maybe you could have a couple of friends walk to and from with you. Those kinds of things.
If it is easier write it down and give it to her that way. She may still not let you go alone...but she will think about it a little more. :)
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so... i finally got my first makeout. me and the guy had it planned. well, i went in and i'm sure either i messed it up ors omething but he said i wasn't bad at all, but i don't know.... i didn't really like it, kinda? i think it was just the guy. but now i'm scared that i'll think kissing/making out isn't fun at all. is it really fun? or do you think that i just didn't think so 'cause my first time i was nervous and it was all planned...? haha sorry, i'm just really confused, any help will be great. :D (link)
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I think it was probably just because it was your first time.
You were probably both a little ( or a lot) nervous. It would have been better if you hadn't planned it out. That made it more like an assignment or something! Next time will be better. Just let it happen. :)
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ok here im 13 and im ready to do "it" again with my bf the thing is i cant protection the first time i was close to be having a baby and i was lucky but everytime im around him i dont know how to like stop getting horny u know what imean i dont want to get pregneate help me!!!!lol (link)
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This web site has bunches of great info on it.
Never do it without protection and rely on luck.
Carry condoms in your purse or make him carry some. He needs to be responsible too.
Read the sections on birth control, STDs, and pregnancy especially.
Be careful. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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Im thirteen years old and I have this guy that asked me out a couple days ago. He good looking to me and hes like kinda big but not really fat. I said yes but alot of kids think im weird for liking him. Anyone have any advice what to say to him?
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You just go out with him and have a good time.Talk to him just as you would any other person you consider a friend.
Now, those jealous friends... you tell them you will date him because he is a nice guy. If they have a problem with it then they can just keep it to themselves.
Maybe they aren't jealous, they could just be very shallow people. Either way, don't listen to them. Do what you want, not what friends or others tell you to do.
Good luck! :)
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okay i need really good advice for this. my friend, he has some problems from the past dealing with family and friends. that's understandable, but he's really controlling. he used to cut and now threatens to kill himself. would he go through with it? probably not, but there's always that chance one day he might just break, ya know? well he doesn't like people i hang around with like my bf, friends, etc etc. he's very very controlling and today he asked me to choose my friends or him. well i obviously want to be with my friends, but i'm afraid he's going to do something stupid like he says. i really need help. everyone says "you shouldn't be friends with him if he treats you this way" but if you were in my situation (maybe some of you are) you definately know what i mean and how i feel about this subject. any ideas??
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You choose your friends. Don't buy into his threats anymore. Sooner or later he will get the message. If he doesn't then you don't need him around controlling your life. Friend or no friend.
My guess is that as soon as he sees he isn't going to get his way...he'll be pretending nothing happened.
Hopefully he won't off himself. But if you are worried about it, tell an adult and let them deal with the problem. Don't make it yours. You are much to young for that responsibility, and he has no right making it yours.
Good luck. :)
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well me and my friend just started a colum but it seems like everytime we go on something has changed that neither one of us has change and people are deleting our questions. Any ides on what could be happening? (link)
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Looking over your past questions...
This one you asked twice. All duplicate questions get deleted.
The other questions you asked were deleted by level one moderators. Probably because they have answered a question that was real similar recently.
You might want to check under advice topics and see if an answer to a previously asked question will help you out some.
If 5 moderators rate your question a frown face it deletes the question. Check the Help/FAQ as was suggested. Its the best place for anyone new to this site to begin.
As far as things changing on your column...please add to your question and let us know what changes you are talking about. Nothing should change unless you change it. :)
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my boyfriend told me he has a
crush on another girl,
and i don't know what to do.
he says he loves me and wants to be with me,
and that he just wanted to be honest with me.
but now i feel as though i'm going
to be paranoid all the time.
i dont like feeling like this;
but i can't leave him.
i love him too much..
and today he spent all morning with me,
telling me how he doesnt want this to
interfear with our relationship.
he said it was weighing him down
and that he needed to get it off his chest;
but now that it's off of HIS.
it's not been put onto MINE.
what should i do?
-L
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At least he is being honest with you.
Now before you go ballistic on me think about it.
If he tells you something like that, and then tells you he loves you and wants to be with you...you should believe him.
If he is going to dump you, he will be telling you. Hes probably not going to cheat on you.
So, while it isn't the best thing in the world to hear, at least you know where you stand with him. So far its all good.
Now that you have the info, don't bring it up all the time. You want to keep him concentrated on you and not her. It is probably just a crush and will be gone before you know it. :)
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