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so now its " some what a double date?"
ok i am about to have a mental breakdown with scott..i don't know how much more i can take of all this crap...everyday its problem after problem...so he told me that he was going out to eat with his ex and her family...ok fine..then the next day its him vita (his ex), his friend sam and his girlfriend...i was like so your going on a double date and he goes in a way and i was PISSED!! he was like its not a date for me and vita its for sam and his girlfrined...and this is the girl who was buying his presents..i was crying and he goes why are u crying? why the hell do you think! he was like nothing is going to happen and then i said if you cheat on me with her dont even call me...so then yesterday we got into another fight b/c i was supposed to go and see him but my ride bailed and he was pissed and then he told me that he was haning out with vita friday and saturday and i got so mad i was like well i hope you have fun and i hung up then he called me back and left a message saying if you thought i was pissed befor you can't imagine how pissed i am now i dont even want to talk to you today so dont call me.. so thats how things are right now...i dont know what to do anymore..i'm going to have a mental breakdown...help me please
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OK,big proablem here!! if he does not put you first it is not worth it!,if you put so much into the realationship and he does'nt it's not worth your time,i would first try talking to him about it,tell him how you feel,he should understand since it's your boyfriend,but if not I would actually consider breaking up with him,he should be dating you and only you,not his ex and you,tell him he needs to get his priorities in order,and pick who he wants,you or his ex,I really hope everything works out for you!1 hope i could help!!
Jasmine,
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I really think you need to give him some time alone to think and try and figure out what he wants.
I know that will be hard for you, but from what it sounds like he has no idea what he wants right now, he sounds like he is just confused and upset.
So hun, I really think for your sake that you should just leave him alone, so you and him can have a break and recover from all of this madness.
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I'd have considered it cheating the minute he double dated.
Which is what it was regardless of how he wants to paint it.
You are right to be mad, I would have been. He needs to stop spending so much time with a girl who he considers just a "friend", and take care of his real relationship. If he doesn't, find someone who will.
Good luck. :)
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I can give you advice and say call him and tell him how you FEEL and then it will go in his one ear and out the other. He doesn't see why what he is doing is wrong so turn the tables on him! Do something similar to what he is doing (let it be all a act) and let him "catch" you or you mention to him your going out with *Chad and his sister and her boyfriend, her brother wanted to come and the sis didnt want him to be my his self so its just a "pity" date, dont worry nothing will happen lol well you get my point, see how he acts when you flip it and get him at his own game.
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Wow that is a big mix up boyfriend and his ex. I know it may seem hard but you have to think deep down and think do you trust him or do you think he is cheating. Either way you are gonna have to talk to him and try not to get upset that may be hard yes but you need to find out why he wants to hang out with his ex so bad I mean it should be over between them. Then you should really find out where both of you are in the relationship trust wise because if he really wants to be with you then he should be willing to give a girl he has already given up. Just talk and try to make him see you really don't like it when he is with her and tell him why. Then to make him really see switch it up on him and tell him well how would you feel if I was making plans with my ex and hanging with him and then see what he says. All you really need to do is you 2 get together and talk it out and fix it just explain to him how you feel I bet he will understand.
Hope I helped,
Good Luck
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