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So okay i really want to but some like new bras and more thongs and underwear from victorias secret. But the thing is my mother is always like "nice thong"(sarcastically)when she hand me my luandry. My mom is kind of old fashioned and like really werid about that kind of thing and i am not sure why. How do i buy the things(online) i want without her being all werid.
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if you`re going to buy them online i`m assuming you`ll need to use her credit card, so i think ordering the stuff you want online will be more weird than buying them at the store.
because if you buy it at the store, you can use cash so your mom can`t log where you`re spending your money, and if you start doing your own laundry theres a good chance she won`t see half of your bras and underwear.
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I think the reason she is wierd about it is that she associates atrractive lingerie (ie: anything not boring plain cotton) with sexuality and maybe even promiscuity. Maybe when she was growing up, "nice girls" didn't wear things like that and certainly
not until they were married. Assuming that you're not buying lingerie for sexual purposes, maybe you should just let her know why you like them. You could explain to her that you wear pretty lingerie because it makes you feel good and it's a little treat just for yourself. Or, explain to her that wearing thongs eliminates a panty line and has nothing to do with looking sexy in your underwear. She may not like it no matter what you say or what your reasons for wearing it are but at least you tried to help her understand. Good luck!
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moms can get like that. Mine never did but my aunt did with my cousin. Shes the same age as you and my aunt says the same thing. So i just take her with me and she brings her money. She gets what she wants, goes home and just doesnt say anything. If my aunt asks she will tell her what she bought dispite what my aunt feels she just doesnt say much to my cousin.
Go with friends or someone whos responsible to drive you and what not. Online isnt the best way you need your moms credit card.
If you have to order online the just forget what your mom thinks. When it comes to certain things my mom and i cant agree with or she makes fun of me for i just ignore it and laugh. It'll stop.
Good luck (:
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You can't buy them online without her, because you need her credit card. You can go shopping by yourself, though, and do your own laundry. And then you could always talk to your mom and tell her that you don't like the way she talks to you. But mostly she's not doing anything really horrible, is she? It's not like she forbids you to buy the stuff and then burns all your underwear or anything, she just makes a sarcastic comment. Try giving it right back to her or try not to take it too seriously.
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just buy them yourself, and do your own laundry...no reason for her to complain about it then.
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This may or may not help,just calmly have a talk with your mother about it,and if you can go out to the mall yourself, and buy what you like when your mom is not there,than she can't say anything about it,i'm not saying go behind her back,make sure she know,sbut tell her you would feel more comfterable if you could dhop by yourself,hope this helps
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Well you can't things online without a credit card, so you can just go to the store and buy them. But if your mom is not taking them away from you then she must not care that much. So just keep wearing and buying them.
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well when ur wearing a thong just pull it up and go " look mom , look at this new one" don't be ashamed to be sexyy
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Shes probably like me. Personally, I'd rather wear none than have a thin piece of material ...well, you know! Maybe we are just sensitive to those things!
Anyway, unless you have a credit card mom will probably have to order them for you. Does she say you can't have them or is she only teasing you? I bet she is teasing. If so, she probably will get them for you...just can't see how you can stand to wear them. :)
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Ah, don't be embarrassed! Its probably a little embarrassing for her to talk about too. That's why she teases you. She will get over that if you do I'll bet! :)
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