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Boyfriend problems
My boyfriend is EXTREMELY overprotective. I talk to this other boy like on the computer and on the phone because we're just wicked good friends. We've never really met in person, but I'm thinking this kid likes me. He like always brings up my bf in negative ways and tells me to dump him and that he'd never do anything bad to me. Now my boyfriend wants to kill him even though he doesn't know him and my friend wants to kill my bf even though he doesn't know him. No matter what I say to my bf about not touching him or not worrying about it he just goes on and talks about beating up the kid or killing him and stuff. Now I'm finally going to meet this kid and we're sleeping over my friends house together. My bf is completely paranoid and says "IF THAT KID LAYS ONE FINGER ON YOU HE'S DONE ILL F***ING KILLTHAT KID." can you just please tell me what to do? it's getting way out of hand!!
<3Ashley Anne<3
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What are you thinking?????????? You've never met this guy before and you're going to spend the night at your friend's house together? First of all, until you've met someone in person, you don't really know them, and it's unwise to have your first meeting be a sleepover. Second, I would be worried if your boyfriend wasn't angry. He should be angry and not just with internet boy but with you as well. If you care about your relationship with your boyfriend, stop talking to the internet boy. If you want to be a drama queen, keep doing what you're doing.
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Ok, it sounds like your boyfriend has a right to be jelous...Look at it from his perspective..imagine that he was talking to a girl on the internet on the phone and talking negatively about you..
I really don't think that you would like it that much...So give your boyfriend a break..and I think you should stay away from the internet kid if you still want a relationship with your boyfriend..
So really my advice to you would be to just realize that your boyfriend has every right to act how he is, and you are probably hurting him, so if you are going to continue this you should probably just break up with him..
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You need to tell your internet friend to lay off bad mouthing your boyfriend. He doesn't know him and you shouldn't put up with that. Can't really blame the boyfriend for being mad.
Be careful you aren't telling your boyfriend about this guy to get him jealous. It will lead to a break up if it continues. Nobody wants some stranger cutting them down to their girlfriend. It isn't right.
So, if you want to continue talking to this guy on the internet, you are going to have to tell him to stop talking about your boyfriend to you that way. True friends are helpful, He doesn't sound real helpful. :)
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