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kissing not so fun?


Question Posted Friday March 10 2006, 12:57 am

so... i finally got my first makeout. me and the guy had it planned. well, i went in and i'm sure either i messed it up ors omething but he said i wasn't bad at all, but i don't know.... i didn't really like it, kinda? i think it was just the guy. but now i'm scared that i'll think kissing/making out isn't fun at all. is it really fun? or do you think that i just didn't think so 'cause my first time i was nervous and it was all planned...? haha sorry, i'm just really confused, any help will be great. :D

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thesecondwavex answered Sunday March 12 2006, 1:11 am:
you're not alone!

this is so common it's not even funny.
my own first makeout was a disaster!
the wrong guy, the wrong time, the wrong place.
nothing was right.


but theres good news! kissing CAN be fun.
it's all about who you're doing it with,
and how comfortable you are around this person.

my boyfriend and i are so close. so kissing is
completely fun! we always fool around and try new
things or joke around, it's really a great thing
to trust the person youre kisssing.

ANYWAYS, darling don't worry. you will start to
enjoy it more after youve found the right guy.

and as far as planning it? haha. boys are silly.
my first kiss was planned. BAD IDEA. it kills the
moment. you were just nervous, dont think you were
bad there really isnt a "bad" kisser, everyone
kisses differently. some are just more to your
liking.


hope i helped darlingg.

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here2help1143 answered Friday March 10 2006, 9:21 pm:
(good question my first kiss was'nt so fun either)here's a few options,he was a bad kisser,you were a bad kisser,you did'nt really love him when you kissed him(that's what makes it speacial)or it's just not so fun,idk if there's really an answer to that,some people like kissing some people don't,I guess it just depends on what you perfer, ^_^, mabi it will be better the next time u never know

Jasmine,

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kaylaxosays answered Friday March 10 2006, 1:06 pm:
its overrated dont worry about it. it was your first time to so of course it isnt gonna be fabulous. it sucked for me too

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NinjaNeer answered Friday March 10 2006, 9:45 am:
Aww I remember my first time with my ex bf...and it was awful. I hated kissing him. But as you grow to really like the person and be more and more attracted to them, it's a lot more fun and spontaneous, and you just do what comes naturally. :)

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lorawhat answered Friday March 10 2006, 1:43 am:
yeah the first time is too much pressure. the next few times will get better for you and you`ll learn to enjoy somebody elses tongue in your mouth. and a lot of it depends on the guy too. if hes a good kisser, its a lot easier to kiss him and you`ll like it a lot better too.

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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Friday March 10 2006, 1:10 am:
It was your first time, I remember I didn't really enjoy my first time, but you eventually just get the hang of it...

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karenR answered Friday March 10 2006, 1:00 am:
I think it was probably just because it was your first time.

You were probably both a little ( or a lot) nervous. It would have been better if you hadn't planned it out. That made it more like an assignment or something! Next time will be better. Just let it happen. :)

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