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what should I say to him?


Question Posted Friday March 10 2006, 1:15 am

I just the other day finally heard from a guy I'm friends with. He had moved several months ago for a job and I hadnt heard from him until yesterday. He sent me an email apologizing to me for taking so long to contact me; and said he had finally hooked up his internet.
He asked me if I could write him live on MSN messanger, and I got it all hooked up today. He wants to talk to me on Saturday before he goes back to work. I'm getting really excited, because I feel I am finally ready to tell him how I feel about him. I've been in love with him for the past 3 years. I think he has similar feelings for me. We are both shy and reserved. What can I say to him on MSN messanger that would give him the message of how I'm feeling without freaking him out?


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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Friday March 10 2006, 5:03 pm:
Telling him on MSN messenger is not the best way, I don't think he will get the full meaning of it. I think that you should call him, and explain it to him. It is easier to talk about you feeling then to type them, and he will probably understand more. So call him, and explain exactly how you feel.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Friday March 10 2006, 3:47 pm:
Just give him hints to your feelings for now. If you rush into telling him everything you run the risk of scaring him away. What you should do is keep in close contact with him for a few weeks before directly saying that you like him. If you hint at it for awhile it will keep him interested in you and he will probably take your lead do some hinting of his own whether he realizes it or not. Progressively make your hints a little stronger and you'll have him wrapped around your finger. With all that hinting in the air a relationship is almost a sure thing. Good luck!

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