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i got my belly button periced 2 weeks ago . well i was cleaning it last night and this morning and i noticed white puss coming out of it . i dont know if this is normal , so can anyone who actually knows about this sorta stuff help me . thanx so much (Indeed)
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Its possible you may be allergic to the jewelry itself. You should have a look at this site and find out if anything there pertains to you or you recognize:
http://www.body-jewelry-fun.com/info/belly-button-piercing-care.html
It might be simply that your body isnt too happy about having a piece of metal shoved into it and puss is the bodies defence/healing, and it could be infected. There are a whole lot of possibilities.
I'd say if it keeps up for a while, then go back to the place that did the piercing and ask them what they think about it. If you still have problems, head to a doctor.
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i'm 14 and i weight 115lbs,. i'm soo fat compare to my friends. So i'm bulimic,. after every meal i throw up,. Its a habit now since i ahve been doing it since i was 12.. i know its wrong but it seems to be working since i lost 15 lbs,. i use to be (130) My best friend .. the only person i told is gonna tell a doctor which i dont want her too!! I kno i should but then my mom will take me to a couslor... what should i do
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You should keep that friend for the rest of your life, she's really a true friend. Shes only concerned about your health and you should be concerned too. Bulimia will in fact kill you if you don't get some help, thats scary - but its also true.
You aren't fat.
Not even a little bit. Ya know what your friends are in my opinion? Way too skinny. You are perfect. There is nothing wrong with you at all. Never compare yourself to anyone else, because YOU are whats important, not everyone else.
Tell your mom about your problem, or write her a letter and let her come to you about it. She needs to know and you need to go to counsellor, its scary and maybe you dont really want help, but you have to go.
You can no longer help yourself because in fact, you aren't really in control of yourself any longer. Tell your mom, or let your friend get help for you. If you dont get help you are going lose more than a couple pounds: it is going to cost you your life.
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I am sure that this auestion has been asked before but I'd like some answers pertaining to my exact situation. I ussually hate online advice forums, but thougth I'd give it a try before I critisize it. Ok, so enough, here's my problem.
My best friend is a girl. She (and I) are 15 years old. I've known her for about two years now. We have been through so much together and help eachother out in so many ways that I see our friendship permanent unless I personally screw it up. When we first met, I immediatly liked her and wanted to date her. When I found out she felt the same way, I planned on asking her out. But some stupid girl found out that she liked me and proclaimed it to the school and also wrote a letter from me (which I didn't write) to her asking her out. Then this menace of a girl embarrased her in front of the entire cafeteria by starting a chant of "ask her out (then my name)". After that, we just became friends and never really brought it up again. It's been two years since then and we have both had at least one boyfriend or girlfriend. I am starting to really like her and it haints me that we never even gave it a shot. But I am not sure if she likes me more than a best friend or if she would agree to go out with me. She is the only person I trust and I can't give her up as a friend, which is why I haven't risked our friendship by asking her out. So, where do I go? What do I do? What do I tell her? What will she say? If she refuses to go out with me, will our friendship be awkward and ruined? (Indeed)
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She probably still has feelings for you. You'll have to decide if being with this girl is worth the risk. Is it possible that you could want to just stay friends? Or would you be losing out on a possible love for your whole life? You need to think about that and decide what shes worth to you. If you read those questions and thought 'Well duh, she means the world to me' well then - what are you waiting for, take the change and ask this girl out. If you dont ask her, you will never know what might have been.
If you are worried about wrecking your friendship, try and think about it this way: What if she has feelings for you and is really hoping you will like her too and you dont, she may come to resent you or feel a bit rejected by that, that could jeopardize your friendship anyhow. Also, if you neglected to ask her out and she went out with someone else - wouldnt that tear you up inside? How could your friendship stay the same?
Take the risk, ask her out and if she says no, well then you can yell at me.
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Hey..
I am just wondering...what is the south beach diet? What is normal for a girl that is around 5'7 to weigh? (14 years old) Thanks! (Indeed)
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Normal is completely irrelevant. There is absolutely no 'normal' for your age because well, nobody is even close to similar at your age.
I looked up the South Beach Diet and, its not for a 14 year old girl. Talk to your doctor about what is safe for you.
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my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him? (Indeed)
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whoa dejavu. You won't be able to convince her of anything right now, shes mad and nothing will get through her head. Just leave her alone for a few days so she can come to realize that you are worth more than that guy. And dont worry, because eventually she will.
Wanna hear my scenario? Well too bad because you don't have a choice. A loooooong time ago I liked a guy, and secretly, a friend of mine had liked him also. She knew *I* liked him, but still never told me she liked him also AND proceeded to be angry at me even though she never told me. The guy ended up to be a pretty big scuzzbag and hurting me. My friend didnt really take this into account when she continued liking him and he ended up hurting her too. He was a nice guy. Hah. ANyways, back to you. Females often lose sight of true friends because a guy gets in the way, but we always realize whats important sooner or later.
I'd give it a few days and suggest both of you stay away from the guy because no matter what you say - either of you will be angry if the other gets closer to this guy. So just decide whats worth it more, this guy or your friend. If you chose your friend (which you definitely should) then you guys will patch things up easily. In a few days, talk to her and let her know that you had no idea she liked him and that you think he isnt worth your friendship being jeopardized. She's your best friend, and she'll understand.
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Hey...
What does the word modest mean? Is that a good thing if you are modest? Thanks!! (Indeed)
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Lets consult www.dictionary.com shall we? We shall.
mod·est
adj.
Having or showing a moderate estimation of one's own talents, abilities, and value.
Having or proceeding from a disinclination to call attention to oneself; retiring or diffident.
Observing conventional proprieties in speech, behavior, or dress.
Free from showiness or ostentation; unpretentious.
Moderate or limited in size, quantity, or range; not extreme: a modest price; a newspaper with a modest circulation.
----- and there it is.
Modest means generally that you aren't making a big display of yourself, either with your actions or the way you dress. Its good to reserve a lot of modesty, because who wants to be annoying and conceited. But too much modesty can also be bad, because then you refuse to take credit for anything good you do, and that can be equally annoying. Try to find a happy medium!
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Ok guys, here's ,y question! I'm turning 18 soon so I can legally pierce anything I want. When I was 16 I got my belly button pierced on the top. For some reason something went wrong and i got very infected and I had to go to the docotrs n take it out. Now I have a scar there. When I squeeze the scar tissue it hurts. And my doctor said yesterday that it would be difficult to repierce through it. Anyways I guess my question is do u think it would look dumb or hurt if i got it pierced from the bottom??? I heard people say it hurts more but maybe thats just a rumor? Thank You guys so much for your help!!! (Indeed)
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Getting it repierced into the scar tissue would be possible, but more painful than if it hadnt scarred. It wouldnt kill you or anything, but it would definitely hurt. It might look a little odd to have the scar on top and then the piercing below, but it isn't a big deal and I doubt people will gasp when they see and say amoungst themselves 'Oh look away its hideous'. Or maybe they will.
While you're deciding on where to repierce, why not put some Vitamin E lotion on that scar and help it disappear or at least improve.
I'm sure its just a rumour that the bottom hurts more to get pierced, it probably hurts equally lots no matter what really. I suppose if you have more fat collected on the bottom half of your belly button (and hey some people do) then it would hurt a bit more, but even then - not a whole lot more.
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I am going to the 8th grade and I did excellent in the 7th grade . I am so nervous, but I don't know how to feel because, I know it's only natural. So last year I liked this guy ALOT ALOT ALOT because, all I did over the whole year was obsess about him . I used to try to act perfectand all and I really lost my true self when trying to be perfect . Well over the summer, I know who I am and I feel great and all , but I don't want to be in any classes with him because, I know that these feeligs will instantly come back and I'll really want him and it'll be a whole repeat of the 7th grade again . Tell me what to do and how to deal with this because, I big time need you HELP . Thanx . I'LL RATE YOU . (Indeed)
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Well, not to come off sounding really old or anything but - at your age (generally speaking) these kinds of obsessions and crushes come and go pretty quickly. Now that you've discovered yourself more so, maybe you'll find that this guy doesn't even appeal to the new you at all. If he does, then remind yourself constantly that anyone who doesn't want you for you - isnt good enough to have you.
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Does anyone know where I can get brown reebok classics supercourt? I looked everywhere and can't find any, not the reebok store, not journeys, not on google, not anywhere. Please help. (Indeed)
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I'd try a more general google search, for lets say reebok supercourt shoes. At least leave out the brown, because that might not be listed on the page you need (for example some sites have no words for colour listing, simply those tiny colour swatches so you can actually see the colour). I'd even leave out the word shoes.
I did a google search for this. I simply typed "reebok supercourt".
http://www.pickyourshoes.com/casual/reebok_
supercourt_mid_brown.htm
Copy and paste that into your browser. It seems to be what you are looking for.
I threw in the word classic and got something totally different:
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/1888351/c/
18620/g/men/s/2.html
http://www.dotcities.com/reebok/Reebok-
Classic-Supercourt-
Leather-Casual-Shoe-Unisex.html
and heres another just in case:
(you'll have to scroll down to see the supercourt shoes)
http://www.topsellingbrands.com/Styles/Reebok
-Men's-Men's-Athletic-Classic.shtml
MMmyea.
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This should be common sense. Please report any activity of this sort to the various moderators and/or the site admin.
Thanks. (Indeed)
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K COME ON the one I run out of my basement is way more legal than YOURS.
Yes, as I feed the annoyance fire.
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I'm going into the 9th grade this year. I'm looking forward to it, except for one part.. I have to ride the bus. I rode it in the 7th grade & part of the 8th grade. A bunch of the guys on the bus are total jerks. They harassed me & my friend & one guy even grabbed my friend's butt! And the bus driver doesn't give a crap about it. I dreaded going to school if I had to ride the bus that day. What can I do to prevent myself from riding the bus? I don't wanna be a victim of harassment anymore. (Indeed)
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If this is going on on the school bus then you can talk to your principal and have yourself and your friend transfered to a new bus or those jerks transfered to another bus. If this is the city bus, well then you might want to consider a new bus route if you really dont want to deal with this at all. If you'd rather have the situation dealt with, then contact the bus company, or the government section that deals with the bus line and lodge a complaint. Something should get done about the situation.
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I have a problem with my guy friends.. Any guy I become friends with always winds up liking me! If I start talking to a guy from a class or with a locker next to mine, a month later he'll ask me out or admit that he likes me. That usually ruins the friendship & makes it awkward. I mean, I'm flattered, really. But I wish that I could just have guy friends who don't all ask me out. How can I prevent this from happening all thru high school? (Indeed)
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Guys seem to have trouble NOT falling for girls who are really kind to them. If the guy is very sweet and you just dont feel the same way about him, try 'setting him up' with one of your female friends that you think will treat him nicely. That way, you two can stay friends if he is distracted by YOUR female friend.
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I'm going into my freshman year in high school. What are some do's & don'ts for high school? (Indeed)
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DONT:
Bump into someone and give them attitude
Ignore friends from middle/elementary school
Take school work lightly
Take up smoking because you think it makes you cool
Think that an attractive boyfriend/girlfriend makes you more worthy and valued person
DO:
Study, at least TRY
Be polite, smile, even when you dont have to
Make new friends
Take school seriously, even from the beginning
Have fun
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Ok well my parents divorced when I was only 2 years old. I don't see my real dad a lot. Maybe once a year at the most. My mom remarried and has been with this guy (my new step-dad) for about 12 years. He is never nice to me and I don't know how to act around him. At points he is very nice and I can get along with him really well. Other times I think about running away and just never coming back to him. I don't know what I should do to tell him that I need him to be nicer to me and to stop favoring my two little brothers who are his and my mom's children. HELP ME!! (Indeed)
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I think you need to speak with your mother about this. There is always hope that your step dad can change. You should talk to your mom first because she knows your step dad the very best and can let you know the kind of reaction he might have, she also might know how to help the situation. If you dont want to talk to your mom about it then go straight to your step dad. Be serious and tell him that the way he treats you sometimes really hurts you.
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Is anyone here psychic? I think psychic people are fascinating. I would love to be Psychic! If anyone here isn't Psychic but has read a helpful book about being psychic please tell me. Thanks ;) I know I'm weird but so what?:) (Indeed)
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I may be perceptive, but I doubt I'm psychic. :) There are loads of sites out there just waiting for you on the subject of psychics, you simply need to find them.
I'll list a few for you. (just copy and paste these into your browser)
http://www.sylvia.org [sylvia brown website - world renowned psychic]
http://www.psychicworld.net/ [where the psychics of the internet come to meet plus lots of information]
http://www.bellaonline.com/code/psychic/index.asp [test your level of psychic abilities]
http://www.psychicselfdiscovery.com/ [how to discover your inner psychic abilities]
http://www.powells.com/subsection/MetaphysicsPsychicAbilities.html
[a list of books regarding psychich abilities]
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Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly? (Indeed)
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It comes and goes extremely quickly. The people you meet in the beginning of high school are going to be with you for 4 years and these people will shape all of you high school experiences. Choose the right ones to spend it with.
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Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe. (Indeed)
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I wouldnt break your friendship, long lasting friendships are important. Your friend needs to know that after time, two people who spend a lot of time together will go through changes. Nothing will stay the same forever and your friend needs to know this. A friendship that stays in the semi-comfortable mode for forever will never really grow continuously, it will just be stopped until the point where you can't feel comfortable enough around that person. Sit down and talk it over with your friend. If she thinks the friendship is worth fighting for then you can both work things out for sure. You may need to set up some ground rules such as trying to include each other or always letting each other know when something the other person is doing is making you upset. Don't give up on your friendship.
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I was just wondering, since you are 17...probably in high school...what makes you so qualified to give advice? You haven't been to college, so how much experience could you have to give such insightful answers? Wisdom comes with age. (Indeed)
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Technically, I'm no longer IN high school since I graduated this year. But qualifications? I don't think I really have any qualifications at all. I took a psychology/sociology course last semester... but I don't think that counts. I just base my answers on what I would do in that situation or try and plan what I know other people would do also. I don't doubt that my answers are no where near insightful, I could only describe my answers as my own opinion or my own thought process and the way I govern my own life, I just pawn it off as advice you see.
I think a lot of my experience with people is experience as an outsider, meaning, I don't usually do the interacting with others, I am usually the person watching the situation from the outside. This means I get every view and vantage point. The only way I can adequately answer this question in regards to how I answer other peoples questions is this - I don't so much have a lot of experience, but before I act on anything, I think it through a lot and the same goes for my answers for advice. I think about possible outcomes and the positives and negatives that might occur, and squish them all together into the best possible course of action according to what I think personally. And thats pretty much it.
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i straghten my hair with a CHI straightener (which is one of the best and really expensive ones) but i can never get my ends totally straight they always curl a lil bit...i was wondering if anyone knew something i cud do or something i cud put in it that would help...
thnxxx!!! (Indeed)
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Ah yes, the CHI. The CHI is a staple hair product for many and it works amazingly. As for the ends of your hair, they are the primary target of humidity which causes the curl in your hair. The end is the first part to curl. You can try using some hair spray on that section and holding the CHI in that spot a *little* bit longer (not too long because you might fry your hair). You might also want to try getting a spray bottle with water inside and getting your hair a little bit damp on the ends before using the CHI on those spots.
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hi ok i have a bf i like him alot we dont get to see eachother alot i am pretty sure he is losing interest. like for ex. idk if its his pc or if he doesnt like me but whenever i am on AIM ill im him and he wont say anything it sucks. i dont want to call him just in case he just doesnt want to talk to me or becuz idk we dont talk on the phone a ton. and he used to say bye i love u no he signs off randomly without sayen anything. i dont no for sure why but i am very confused i hate it i just really want to mak him and me last long. (Indeed)
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You should call him. It doesnt matter if he doesnt want to talk because its important. Give him a call and if he isn't interested in talking to you well then - the relationship probably isn't going anywhere. He might think that you don't care about him, so call him and this will let him know you do care.
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