I have a problem with my guy friends.. Any guy I become friends with always winds up liking me! If I start talking to a guy from a class or with a locker next to mine, a month later he'll ask me out or admit that he likes me. That usually ruins the friendship & makes it awkward. I mean, I'm flattered, really. But I wish that I could just have guy friends who don't all ask me out. How can I prevent this from happening all thru high school?
anitsangel answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 10:55 pm: Become friends with guys who have long-term girlfriends. Chances are, if the guy has been with this girl for awhile, he's not going to be willing to cheat on her for you, and she won't be threatened by him having friends that are girls.
If a guy starts showing signs that he likes you, talk about your guy problems with him... that will send the signal that you aren't interested.
FernGully answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 10:33 pm: Guys seem to have trouble NOT falling for girls who are really kind to them. If the guy is very sweet and you just dont feel the same way about him, try 'setting him up' with one of your female friends that you think will treat him nicely. That way, you two can stay friends if he is distracted by YOUR female friend. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
Courtney answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 9:56 pm: Tell your guy friends form the get go of your friendships that you only want to be friends because, you're afraid or don't want the friendship to be awkward between the two of you . Stress that it's not him , it's just that u really need him to understand . By . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 9:31 pm: gurl...ur just a goodlookin...nice personality type of gurl...(join the club ahhaha j/k) so i dunno wut to tell u...i guess b mean :-p nahhh not relly just b u...theres nothin u can do cuz they cant tell their hearts who to like n who to not like...oupsses sorry..xoxo effy good luck though :-P [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
Caramelsuga123 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 9:29 pm: I understand ur problem it's happened before to me. Well, what u can do is find a gay guy and hang out wit him, because he wont wind up likin u. Or when u think one of ur guy friends like u start talking about ur boyfriend. If u have one then, it'll be easier , but if u dont u can just make up things about him. And say like omg my boyfrend treats me so well but we just broke up like 3months ago and now were back together I'm so happy.... if u need more advice ask me. rate this to pleez.-hope [ Caramelsuga123's advice column | Ask Caramelsuga123 A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 9:28 pm: hmm... Maybe you flirt or something... I dont really know about this one i'd just say dont flirt and you'll be good to go :) Good luck sorry my advice sucked!
-holly- [ HollyAnn2282's advice column | Ask HollyAnn2282 A Question ]
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