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HELP
I am going to the 8th grade and I did excellent in the 7th grade . I am so nervous, but I don't know how to feel because, I know it's only natural. So last year I liked this guy ALOT ALOT ALOT because, all I did over the whole year was obsess about him . I used to try to act perfectand all and I really lost my true self when trying to be perfect . Well over the summer, I know who I am and I feel great and all , but I don't want to be in any classes with him because, I know that these feeligs will instantly come back and I'll really want him and it'll be a whole repeat of the 7th grade again . Tell me what to do and how to deal with this because, I big time need you HELP . Thanx . I'LL RATE YOU .
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well first off, i'd like to congratulate you on finding your 'true self' because that's awesome. if you can do that, you can do anything! if you do happen to be in a class with this boy, don't let him get the best of you. you have control over your mind, body, and everything else, so don't begin to think that it's HIM changing you. if any changes occurr, it's you letting your feelings get the best of you. just try really hard, stay focused, don't lose who you are.
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If you want you could ask your parents to talk to the school and have them make sure you wont have any classes together but me beng the same age as you and everything I know how hard that could be to ask a parent lol First off Does he know you like him?
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ohmigosh thahs exactly how i was just this past year...the guy i was totally crushin over found out tho at the end of the year and i was able to finally breathe again i gess coz i dunt hab to hold back and try acting all perfect in front of him anymore...so heres the thing....just tell him ASAP...it helps coz then you can just act normal and if he likes you for you then he'll prolly be the one to make the first move...ya noe?
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*hey* i think u should start liking someone new* but u cant try to avoid him all ur life* try being on a team and meeting new people* plus if he has any classes with u, u could try changing ur schedule*
<3Alwayz,
*Anggie*
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Well maybe you could call up the school and have your mom request that you to dont have the same hours (classes) together. As for lunch just avoid him. But just real hard to not think of him and put anything that reminds you of him away for the time being until you know you are completely over him for sure. And put pictures away of him and just avoid calling him for awhile-trix
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i think you should try to stay focused on other things to keep your mind off this person like join a sport or a class there are many different options!
~jessica~
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Well I just graduated from 8th grade and now its off to go to high school and yea 8th grade is the year before "Life actually begins". The worst thing you can do is live 8th grade as if it were any normal year.. why??!! because it's not a normal year it goes by really fast and before you know it you'll be graduating and going onto bigger things. My problem was in the 8th grade I was dating probably one of the best guys ever but after we broke up I looked back and realized how I spent way too much time with him and not enough with friends. And you're right you really shouldnt have any classes with him but maybe and hopefully you'll come to realize that you just need to really let things happen... if you get feelings for this guy again then you do and if you do get feelings for him than I would say TAKE ACTION (because you only have one life to live)!!! .xOx. MaC
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Well, not to come off sounding really old or anything but - at your age (generally speaking) these kinds of obsessions and crushes come and go pretty quickly. Now that you've discovered yourself more so, maybe you'll find that this guy doesn't even appeal to the new you at all. If he does, then remind yourself constantly that anyone who doesn't want you for you - isnt good enough to have you.
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drop out
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Well, if you like this guy, you have to be yourself. Because you don't want someone to fall in love with a person you're not. I'm sure you're an awesome person. All you have to do is smile and hold conversations with him. Don't try to impress him by doing stuff you don't like to do (like sports). All you have to do is smile and be friendly and hold conversations. Hope this helps, if not, just post back and I'll try again! lol.
xoxo Kourtney =P
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Well.. im comming out of the 8th going into 9th and when i was in 7th i was obsessing over this one guy just like you are! i also tried to seem perfect just to get his attention but i also realized that.. thats just not me. Well!.. when 8th grade came around i had classes with him, and i realized being intouch with my true self is much more important to me than seeming fake just to get a guy. just be yourself and dont worry about him! he might like you for the real you anyways! and if he doesnt.. he's not worth your time! you shouldnt obsess over him because there is probably a far more greater guy out there that will like you for YOU not for the FAKE YOU! just go out and try to find that right guy! I DID IT! good luck! :-D
<3 hugs -n- kisses <3
.x. mina .x.
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Just try to ignore him. Dont stare at him all thru class. Go and find you another guy
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Try not to think of this person. Do not write anything about him stare at him during class. Also if he likes you hell like you for who you are not because your perfect.
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