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i think i'm anorexic... i really don't know what to do but i love the way i feel when i don't eat! but i'm just so fat! i went from 87 to 100 in a couple months and now i never want to eat anything and even if i do i don't... i can stand the way i look and i wanna change. NOW. i think im' anorexic and i don't know what to do

your age wouldve helped. i agree. but if you want help or need any information on anorexia go to http://www.anred.com/ they have loads of info on there. i hope you over come what ever you have. because anoraxia can kill.. and create loads of health problems and sometimes it can preventyou from having kids later on. and its just nothing that you would want to get into so i suggest you do get some help and the sooner the better.
i dont mean to sound harsh if i do. im just getting to the point lol
good luck!
simone

Doe anyone kno any good hair styles for medium length hair, not fancy just every day look im tired of ponytails and just leavin it dwn boring. thanks

when i have my hair cut medium length i like something simple but different. and i know what you mean about leaving it down or the ponytail thing. you could try braids or some cut clip up dos. or you could try curling it if you have straight hair.
h.i.h good luck
simone

Ok. So when I write
Favourite
And
colour.

And I spell check the things I wrote. The spell check says it’s
favorite
And
Color

Now I was wondering, what’s up with that?! Cause- according to my dictionary, my way is the good way,

PLEASE HELP I RATE

the way you spell it is how the english (british) spell it and the americans spell it as color and favorite. so its not technecly wrong.

How do you delete your google history .... Because when i go to www.google.com it shouws all my history of searches...... how so i delete them..... i dont have one like undreneath my address bar so im no ttlak ing about that

go to tools (located on the top bar of your internet explorer) then click on internet options and when a window pops up click on clear history and your google searches are gone.
or if you want to just delete a few sites of the history press Ctrl h and delete what you want off.

i want to tell this girl that she really upset me about something she said...should i do it online...in person or on the fone?

well defintaly not online. personaly i would do it in person. but the fone is okay too. just make sure that you know that they understand what your trying to tell them.

Is breaking up over the phone okay? Or should I make an effort to do it in person?

in person would be better. just because its more upfront and you might not seem as harsh. maybe do it while your alone though not that other people crown around and make who ever your breaking up with feel worse.
good luck
simone

im a 13 year old girl. im really nervous that ill get my period one day in the middle of school. are there any signs that will let me know if im about to get it?

its different for every girl. but some signs are a lower stomach ache, a moody personality like sencetive or grouchy, pain in legs, maybe a head ache. your discharge might get heavier. And if your not sure when your going to get it, like during school for instance, keep a pad with you. just in case. and maybe dont wear any light pants, just so it doesnt show as much if you would happen to leak alittle. and usually your first one isnt as heavy as some others so it shouldnt be too bad. good luck! and if your lucky it will come over the weekend where you can get somewhat comfterble with it before you go back to school.

i think my friend is going anerxic..
what are some signs they she might be?

i did a paper on this.. lets see
some signs are:
not eating much.
insecure about body or how she looks
umm here why dont i just give you a site where i got all my information from:
http://www.anred.com/
good luck!
and i hope your friend isnt anorexic.. but if she is and you wanna talk about it my friend has it and well its not a good feeling i know that..

There is this girl that i realy like. I got her phone number. I am going to call her and ask her out to the movies or somthing.

What should i say to her when i call her? My mind is blank of all ideas right now. I want to let her know her how i feel without being too deep and emotional. Also, is there any way i can ask her out besides saying "Hey, wanna go out?" I am 13 and she is almost 14.

Thanks for your help.

trust me girls get as scared as guys do. i actually called a guy up once and asked him if he wasnted to hang out. and it all turned out great.
just be calm and ask her if she would like to go to the movies with you. or you just can come out with it and say hey i like you would you like to hang out sometime? :P
just be yourself and im sure things will go great!
good luck!

hey everyone! im going to the ortho tonight to get my ties on my braces changed you know? well i had hot pink - total mistake. it drew too much attention to my mouth ahha. what color is the best to get? thanks!

i had braces and i know what you mean about drawing too much attention to the mouth. you can try light/soft colors like a baby blue or a light pink. white probably works best. you could also try light yellow but that might make your teeth look yellow haha so id go for white or light pink.

I love singing, I've been singing on stage since I was 3. People say I'm good so I guess I am. But I also love drumming. I started that when I was 5. Next year I'll be in High School and the way the system works, I can't do choir and band. I really love both alot. Which do you think I should go for.

thats a tough desision. i would be in the same situation if i wouldnt be homeschooled. i also sing and play the drums. but i would ask youself which one you love doing the most and which one you think youre better at. you could also try choir for a year drop out and join band if you are able to do that. because then at least you could do both. or you could start a band, become the drummer and do choir in school. but its basically all up to you.
GOOD LUCK!
$imone

My room has a color scheme of blue and lime green. I have a duvet that has blue and lime green stripes.

I was looking for some inexpensive ideas for nicknacks. Where can you get inexpensive (but cute) grabge cans, picture frames, and other things to put on shlves and my dresser?I want lime green and blue stuff!!!! If you've seen stuff or can direct me to a website. That'd be great!!

welli got a really cute trash can at target and they had a lime green and blue one or purple and green. you could check pier 1 inports or a craft store. they usually have kool frames and other stuff for display.
good luck!

is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old?

2 years differents is nothing. and it is actually more of a normal width apart. age shouldnt really matter though. i mean im almost 16 and i like a guy whos turning 15 i dono when but yea were about 2 years or so appart but in my eyes it doesnt really matter :)

i'm 15 years old & i haven't gotten my period for about two months. i've been having it since september 2004 & it's been sort of normal for about 8 months. i'm a virgin & i know this is going to sound extrememly juvenile but is there some way that i could be pregnant without having sex? as i said, i don't mean to sound juvenile but i've heard people say things like, "it's in the water" & is it actually possible? i'm just really nervous, & i'm racking my brain for an answer. could it just be that my period isn't on time? i haven't really been eating any differently. please don't treat me like an idiot, i'm just scared.

well i doubt your pregnant since you havent had sex. your period is probably just late. sometimes mines a week or two late and im also a virgin. so theres no need to worry
simone

I just watched the ring last night and there's something confusing me. Why did samara's dad say "my wife wasn't supposed to have a child" did he do something to her to make it so she couldn't have children???
plz help!

well she mightve just had some complications so she couldnt have a baby. there are many causes, but sometimes you get lucky.. so maybe she did have a complication with something but got lucky so she had samara. but the dad said that i was inpossible because she did have a complication.
i dont know thats just my view on it. im sure there are some other oppinions toward this too but yea lol hope i helped :P

If a guy tells you to have children when you're young; and then winks at you, does that mean anything? This happened to me with a guy friend of mine. First he started asking me if I wanted children. I said that I was still young (I'm 24) and had lots of time for that. Then he said to have them when I'm still young because I wouldnt want to be 60 when their 18. He has never had children himself (he's 41). This is when he winked at me. Do you think (because this is my theory), that this was his way of hinting he wanted to have children with me? Because obviously he wants them, and was telling me to have them young because if I waited until I was 40 to have his kids he would be in his 70's by the time our kids were in their teens.

yea thats exactly what he was hinting.
but if your not ready i would wait.

Here's the deal: I love singing. I've been singing since 4th grade and I've been in choirs since 5th. I haven't taken voice lessons.

Now, I want to sing a song for a talent show, but my only problem is... MY VOICE IS HORRIBLE. I have experience, but it's just the way it SOUNDS, do you know what I mean?

I recorded my voice on my cell phone, and I got so depressed at the way it sounds.

What can I do? Will singing lessons help at all? Thanks!

okay first off cell phones give off crapy sound. try singing into a good tape recorder. voice lessons might help, but they mainly teach you opera. if you get a voice coach they are more able to teach you how to breath in the write spot and help your voice. so it all depends on what youre aiming for.

i just got my period, but the thing is, i got it 2 weeks ago, too. im really worried, im not expecting it for another 2 weeks! whats wrong?

well if you've had it less than a year then it will be irregular for a while. if you've had it longer than a year or so then maybe talk to your doctor and see if somethings wrong.

Do people hear their own singing voices accurately? Like if you listen to yourself while you sing, is what you hear at all like what everyone else hears? I recorded myself with a $40 recorder---it was muffled and awful and didn't sound a bit like when I hear myself when I sing

when i recorded my self on the computer it sounded horrible but when i recorded myself on my tape recorder it sounded more of what i heard. so the better the equiptment is then the more acurate you voice will be from what you hear. which also means that youd need a more upper class recording studio. the one im going to has really good sound but its like 130$ an hr during the day and 90$ at night.. which is expensive but i know how it will sound. So it basically depends.

Can you fall out of love?

I mean ive been w/ my bf for a while now and its great! this last month however is kinda shaky. I feel myself NOT wanting to hang out w/ him. But i miss him.

Am i falling out of love or whats wrong?
how can i fix it?

you're probably just going through a rough time with him at the moment. try maybe taking a break from him for a few days and see if things get better. Or go out an have some fun and do something that you both love to do.
just give it some more time and if things really don't work out then.. i would call it quits with him and move on, though that could be tough too.
hope things get better!
simone

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