If a guy tells you to have children when you're young; and then winks at you, does that mean anything? This happened to me with a guy friend of mine. First he started asking me if I wanted children. I said that I was still young (I'm 24) and had lots of time for that. Then he said to have them when I'm still young because I wouldnt want to be 60 when their 18. He has never had children himself (he's 41). This is when he winked at me. Do you think (because this is my theory), that this was his way of hinting he wanted to have children with me? Because obviously he wants them, and was telling me to have them young because if I waited until I was 40 to have his kids he would be in his 70's by the time our kids were in their teens.
tasuki answered Saturday January 28 2006, 5:48 pm: I don't know. I don't think so. I do know that when you're older there is a higher chance of birth defects and miscarriages. Personally I think 24 is the perfect age. However, it's up to you. I think he was just being flirtacious when he said it. If he is just your friend, he wasn't being serious. If you were in a more committed relationship, then I would say it was serious. But then again, if he was serious he wouldn't have chosen such a vague way of saying it. He may not want children with you right now, but he atleast has a crush on you. Ask him out. [ tasuki's advice column | Ask tasuki A Question ]
orphans answered Friday January 27 2006, 9:28 pm: I think he was hinting that he wanted sex.
Sex- children.
Guys-Sex.
Or you and me, could be seeing to far into the lines, of it.
Maybe i helped out a little?<3 [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Friday January 27 2006, 9:24 pm: You probably shouldn't worry about it. A guy friend was telling you this, anyway. You guys aren't together, if he's hinting around something, maybe you should wait until he's man enough to come out and say it.
xomegaroni answered Friday January 27 2006, 8:49 pm: you can't really tell by that. he could've juss been kidding er flirting with you. it doesn't exactly mean he wants to have kids with you. you should ask him about it because he might like you but you won't know unless you ask.
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