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i want to tell this girl that she really upset me about something she said...should i do it online...in person or on the fone?
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When confronting someone doing it in person is always best.
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If you talk to the girl online or on the phone, it will not have as much as an impact on her. By talking to her in person, it would be less likely for her to upset you again. However, you do take the risk of getting hurt more. I would still suggest talking to her in person, though.
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I would definitely do it in person if you feel comfortable with that. if not than maybe sending her a letter explaining why your upset and letting her know you would like her to respond. but i definitely would not do it over the internet, its very impersonal. good luck!!
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well defintaly not online. personaly i would do it in person. but the fone is okay too. just make sure that you know that they understand what your trying to tell them.
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Well, I find that I can confront someone better online, or even by writing a letter, simply for the reason that if I am confronting them in person or on the phone, I tend to get overly emotional and start yelling, or I'll say something hurtful that I don't mean to say. The plus to online confrontation is that it gives you a chance to think about what you say before you say it :)
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Do whatever you feel comfortable doing. If you dont feel comfortable saying it in person than dont but in my personal experiance, I understand a person more in person than on the phone or the internet. It means more if they come to me in person and talk to me about something serious, its more emotional and you can see how much the other person is hurting, whereas online or on the computer you cant visually see it so its hard to understand and picture. =D
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In person. Over the phone is never a good thing. If you do it in person, they can look at you, in your eyes, and see how you feel. Just tell her streight up, right to her face. But don't be mean, unless you have to. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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Do not do it online...it is just stupid, and she will not get the full effect.. i would recommend doing it in person, but if you are nervous then on the phone.
Good Luck!
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