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okay.
my friend recently had sex
for the first time.
without a condom. .
but he claims he didnt cum in her?
idk.
shes freaked as hell
and is worried she might be pregnant.
is there a chance she could be?
i think so, but i figured i'd get a second opinion.
thank you (: (link)
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Unfortunatley for her there is a chance she could be.
Be sure you let her know never to believe a teen
boy who claims he didn't cum. They do and it takes them no time at all.
Tell her she needs to protect herself always.
Nobody else is going to. She gets pregnant and
a guy can walk away. She cannot. So she must
always protect herself.
If he doesn't have a condom, he gets nowhere near her. She needs to make that VERY clear to the guy.
Part of being sexually active is being responsible. She won't have to freak out
every time if she gets informed and acts
responsibly.
Here is a good website that covers everything.
All teens need to read the site. Pass this on
to your friend. You read it too. The time to
prepare is BEFORE you take that step. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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i have a laptop and i edit photos a lot with various fonts and stuff.
after getting a recommendation from a friend i go to dafont.com
since then i've downloaded a few fonts successfully, but now when i try to download new fonts it always says its 'corrupted' or 'incomplete'.
what's the reason for this?
and is there a program i can download to maybe 'uncorrupt' the files?
or any way to fix this?
'kaythanks. (link)
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To many fonts can slow down your computer big time. I have a program that will remove all the fonts you have added and leave only those originally meant for your computer.
You do not have to add them to your paint shop
or whatever program you are using. You just need to keep them in a folder. When you want to use a font from your folder, Simply click on the font you wish to use to open it, then click on the ( - ) minimize at the top right of the opened font box, this will minimize the font to the system tray.
The font should now be available for you to use. *
This will make that font available for all programs you are running without installing it. When you have completed use of that font, simply maximize it, then click on the ( x ) to close it. This automatically puts it back in your "Fav Fonts" folder until you need it again!!!
I also have recently installed a neat program called "Font Frenzy". Here is the link for that program:
http://www.fontfrenzy.org/
This free download can restore your computers fonts to the original fonts that were installed on your system, and move the extra fonts to a file you specify like "Fav Fonts"!!!
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had to get a Leptospirosis shot.
and now shes not doing good.
are there any bad reviews on getting this shot? (link)
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I looked it up and it seems there are a lot of
dogs having bad reactions to this shot.
From what I have read, unless the virus is a
big problem in the area you live in, it is
recommended that you just not have them
vaccinated for it.
But, its been done already so the best course
of action would be to take your dog back to the
vet. At the very least, give them a call and ask
for their advice on how to treat your puppies symptoms. :)
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I'm in the process of overcoming . . . eating issues. I'm not to the point where I can call it an eating disorder, although chances are, it is. But that's not important.
I'm increasing my calories slowly, and the higher I go, the more difficult it is. I'm still at a number well under the recommended minimum intake, yet it seems obscenely high to me. I have motivation; I want to be healthy because I want to eventually work as a psychologist and help others be healthy. The problem is remembering that goal when it comes time to actually eat the extra foods. Before I eat them, I'm pretty good at convincing myself that it's okay, even necessary. But after I eat, it's an entirely different matter. All I can think about is how sick I feel and how (irrationally) I'm destroying everything I worked for. I feel like I've totally lost control and that I'm going to regain the 100+ pounds I managed to lose over the last year.
But I want this . . . sort of. Any suggestions for reminding myself that no, increasing calories will not lead to out of control binging (I have a history of that, as well) and that it's for the sake of my health? I'd rather not have something as obvious as notes hanging around because frankly, it's not something I want my family particularly involved in.
Apologies for the length; if you've read this far, I appreciate it.
I'm 20, female, if it matters. (link)
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I know this won't be real helpful, but I will
throw it out there anyway. First, if you aren't
getting professional help with this you really
need to. Eating disorders can be very difficult
to overcome all by yourself.
Your body has programmed itself around bad eating habits. To start eating in a more normal way,
you may need a doctors help. I believe that
building up to it gradually is probably the
healthiest way to do that, but I am not an expert.
I do know if you suddenly just go nuts eating it can cause harm.
I know you don't want to involve your family,
and I understand. But, given your age, I don't
think it would be a problem. However having some
people supporting you might be a good thing too.
You need to get to the point where you aren't
obsessing over food. The problem is that unlike
smoking, drinking or gambling...you have to eat.
So, my advice will have to be for you to seek
some medical help. I think you know this already,
you just have to make yourself say it out loud
to someone other than yourself. That will be a
very big first step.
You aren't alone in this. It would be a big
help if you could talk to others who know
just exactly what you are going through.
Best of luck to you. You have a lot of work
ahead of you. You will make it though. :)
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okay so i had sex like a week ago for the 1st time and before i did my partner ate me out and i liked it alot and i gave him a bj and that was fine too like i like that but when he gave me sex i didnt like it, i had my eyes opened and looked at his walls and it didn;t appeal to me..for some reason i feel like ill like anal sex more but does it mean b/c i didnt like intercourse im not straight? i dont like girls i mean ive been eaten out by a girl and i liked it but i dont like girls what does this all mean? was it just that i didnt like this guy? who by the way is my ex. we were being fbs but screw that now (link)
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I think it is probably more likely this guy
is just a typical me oriented young man. Most
young guys are. It takes years sometimes to
really get to know each other physically.
Not to mention outside factors such as will
we get caught, will I get pregnant etc. that
are on both your minds.
So, I don't think this experience means
you're gay. I also don't think it necessarily
means you don't like this particular guy.
This was just a bad experience.
Besides, if you had satisfying oral sex before
this, then it could have just meant you weren't
in the mood for more at that particular moment.
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ive ben dating this guy for a long time about a year and one day my boyfriend and my bff were hanging out my bff said go buy us some pizza so i left to get the pizza when i came back with it the door was locked so i went in the back door and when i came in i didnt see then i looked in the hole house ecsep her bedroom so i went in her bedroom an they were both naked having sex.what should i do about my friend and my boyfriend? (link)
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She is no friend of yours. She sends you for pizza so she can put the moves on your guy?
Please do not believe any "Its all his fault" lines
They both are equally responsible for this.
Write them both out of your life. Feel free to tell
everybody why too. :)
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ok, so i have a...i guess u can say mini collection...of the lil soda tops things
like the piece of medal that u pull back to open te can?
what are these called?
and i heard hospitals and fastfood places buy them for like 5-10 cents each.
i live in lakeworth FL
what kind of places sell them?
--ashley
thanx (link)
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This is one of those urban legends that just
won't die. Here is a link to all the rumors
about pop tabs.
http://search.atomz.com/search/?sp-q=pop+can+tabs&getit=Go&sp-a=00062d45-sp00000000&sp-advanced=1&sp-p=all&sp-w-control=1&sp-w=alike&sp-date-range=-1&sp-x=any&sp-c=100&sp-m=1&sp-s=0
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okay, 16/f. me and this guy have gotten really close over the summer, and we even kissed. then one day.. he stopped talking to me completely. i asked why and he claimed it "wasnt me" and that they just didnt want anything. i said that was okay, now we dont even talk as friends. im trying not to let it bother me, but i cant help it cause i really liked him and i totally got led on. do you think i did wrong? (link)
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No, I don't think you did anything wrong.
I think his excuse is pretty lame. :)
But guys are just that way sometimes.
You are the victim of a summer romance.
He didn't take it as seriously as you did.
He may even have girlfriend. Maybe she was
on vacation and he was amusing himself.
Whatever the situation, it isn't your
fault. It will bother you for a while.
Thats normal. Just move on as soon as you can.
There are other guys out there who will
treat you just fine. :)
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I really like this guy. But i dont know if i can trust him. we've been going out for a year, and whenever we hang out he shows me pictures of his other girlfriend naked. We do threesomes sometimes, and dont get me wrong, she's really nice, i just dont know... is it normal for me to be jealous? im crying because i feel like im not as special as she is. I admit she looks better naked and has a vagina that tastes really good, but i feel really left out. what can i do to win him over? i really love him and he's really good at doing stuff to me. and i really dont want to let him go.. advice?
(13/f) (link)
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Having sex at 13 isn't "normal". Having group
sex is just bizarre. Most adults wouldn't get
themselves involved in a relationship like that.
He doesn't love either of you. Sorry, but if
you think you are old enough to do this, I see
no reason to sugar coat the answer. He loves sex.
You and the other girl are just so infatuated with this clown you will do anything for a little
attention from him. He knows that and takes full
advantage of the situation.
He will never even consider either of you as
a serious girlfriend. He probably blabs about
it to anyone who will listen too. Don't expect
any other guys to want much to do with you after
this except to use you for sex too.
You have gotten yourself into a situation you
need to get out of as soon as possible. Have
a little self respect. Stop allowing yourself
to be used this way. Don't trust this guy at
all.
Sorry to be so harsh but you need to listen.
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my upper abdomen hurts, and i don't know why it hurts right now...but my mom has been saying that it's because i stay up really late and wake up late, can that be the reason why? i'm not feeling very well and i don't have a good feeling about what might be the cause of it. (link)
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I'm thinking maybe that diagnosis of your moms
is one of those "mom" things. I have never heard
of staying up late and/or sleeping late causing
more than just sleepiness. :)
I would suggest you see your doctor. It could be
many things. If it just doesn't feel normal, or
its been around more than a couple of days, see
your doctor. At the very least give them a call.
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ive been getting really bad stomach cramps and it burns when i go to the bathroom and it feels like i always have to pee.ive had sex with two different people once each but i know for sure that neither of them have an STD.. could i have one? my period is coming up soon so the cramps could be from it. whats wrong.. please help (link)
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Sounds like you may have a urinaty tract
infection, also called a UTI.
The symptoms are almost the same as those of STDs,
Which is a good reason why those who don't have
medical knowledge shouldn't use the internet to
try and find out what is wrong with them. Just
thought I would throw that in. :)
Here are the symptoms of a UTI
Pain or burning during urination
More frequent urination (or waking up at night to urinate)
The sensation of not being able to hold urine
The sensation of not being able to urinate easily or completely (or feeling that you have to urinate but only a few drops of urine come out)
You may or may not have these symptoms too...
Cloudy, bad smelling, or bloody urine
Lower abdominal pain
Mild fever (less than 101°F),
chills
"just not feeling well"
Here is a website for more information.
My advice, See your doctor. It is very
common for girls to have a UTI. Nobody
will assume it is related to sex. :)
http://kidney.niddk.nih.gov/kudiseases/pubs/uti_ez/index.htm
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ohkay. so 15/f. My best guy friend has a girlfriend. And I dislike her very much. But if I tell him that I dislike her, he gets upset at me. And he sometimes doesn't talk to me after I tell him that :| But what annoys me...is that I fakely try to be nice to her. (I know it isn't right) But I try and be nice to her, just so he would talk to me more. But it annoys the hell out of me, when all three of us are talking...he embarrasses me...and puts his girlfriend in a more superior "position" than me! And I hate being fakely nice to her, because I KNOW that she doesn't like me. And I know she's faking it, just so she seems perfect to him! But she's not..she's SOOOO fake. I've been trying to convince him that she is. But he won't believe me. It's like one of those movies, where you try to tell the truth, yet nobody believes you. The thing is, I'm younger than him. And I have no intention of like going with him or anything. He treats me like a younger sister/girlfriend. But the thing is...when his gf isn't around...he flirts with me! I just don't know what's going on. Sometimes when we're on MSN...and both of them are online...I sign in, and they both just IGNORE me completely! I feel so left out. lol...I wish something bad would happen to her. ;_; Is this jealousy? =/ (link)
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It sounds like jealousy to me. ;)
You are going to have to back way off if you
don't want to ruin your friendship. Do not
try and tell him how "fake" his girlfriend
is, or how you don't like her.
He is supposed to put his girlfriend in the
superior position. She is his girlfriend. I
know that can be irritating and annoying when
you want to be that superior person. But you
aren't anymore. He will probably go through
the same thing when you get a boyfriend.
Once friends start dating, the boyfriend or
girlfriend becomes more important than the
other friends in their lives. It is normal.
It would be no different if he were a girlfriend of yours. The same thing would be happening.
Because you are a girl his girlfriend will
also probably be jealous of you. That would
be normal too.
So you really do need to just let them have
their relationship without interfering. Without being the third wheel all the time. unfortunately he is going to choose her over you if it comes
down to that.
Don't let it go that far or your friendship will be in jeopardy. If she decides she doesn't want
you around anymore, he is going to side
with her. It sounds like that is where this
all is headed.
If you think you like him as more than just
a friend then speak up. Not while she is
around though. Just tell him you'd like to
talk to him in private sometime. :)
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m/13 so me and my girlfriend are planning to have sex. we dont know whether she should put her tampon in during it so she doesnt get pregnant, or i should use i condom. also, how do u put on a condom? when i put my penis in how fast do i go in and out? (link)
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Having sex with a tampon in will shove the tampon in so far it will have to be removed by a doctor.
That will have to be explained to the girls parents,
who will in turn call yours. Not removing it will result in toxic shock syndrome, which could be life threatening.
You are to young as others have said. Unless you have a good paying job and are prepared to raise a child. Of course most young people ignore that until
it actually happens. Then they beg for help. :)
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What can you do if you are having sex and the condom breaks and your parents are going to kill you if you get pregnant or even find out you had sex again?
Oh and we have no way of getting the morning after pill either.
PLEASE HELP ASAP (link)
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You hope nothing comes of it. If symptoms appear, you have no choice but let parents know. Thats the truth of it.
NO birth control is 100% effective. That is why I always say, if you are not prepared to face the consequences do not mess around. You just can't.
It changes your life forever. Just ask any teen
facing a lifetime of explaining they have HIV.
Or good times cut short by the responsibility
of having to raise a child. :)
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Alright, so I've filled out a few different applications before, but I don't recall this question: "Please enter how many hours per week you are available to work"...So am I supposed to put 168 hours [every hour of the week], or ANY, or what? Sorry, but as you can see I've never had a job before and I just don't know what to put, and it's probably really simple haha, Thanks! (link)
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If you want to work full time, put down 40.
If you want part time work, put down whatever
number of hours you re able to work.
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I asked a question about my eating habits and someone responded, but never answered my question. Here was the question:
What are you supposed to eat when you're hungry?? I usually eat 3 meals, but they most likely are light. Lately they haven't been because there has been parties, but I'm going back to my diet tomorrow. If my dinner is at 4 or 5, by 9 pm I'm hungry. Do I hold myself off until breakfast or eat something small?? I thought it might be a bad idea to wait for breakfast because it would've been 12+ hours without eating. I usually eat grahm crackers when I feel hungry. Is that okay or should I be eating something else?? I rather not eat fruit at night because I have that during the day sometimes. Thanks!!
superstarblue89 answered Sunday July 15 2007, 9:55 pm:
truth be told you're going about this whole small portioned dieting thing completely wrong...if you really want to see results eat 5 smaller portioned meals a day...anything you want...it helps keep your appetite down and will help even more with weight loss...doing that instead of 3 smaller portioned meals a day is not only healthier but it will actually help you see results faster..I do it and I don't find myself hungry all the time...just make sure you space out your meals by 4 or 5 hours
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not exactly sure how I got a 2...I lost 25 lbs in a month and a half by doing it that way...celebrities even do it that way...its healthier...I'm sorry that your more into starving yourself for 12 hours or better...starvation has been proved to cause bloating and make you look fatter...but hey...it's not my life...but don't ask for advice if you can't take it
I left her an inbox with why the rating was given and I reasked the question, but I thought she was being immature about it and a bit rude. Should I just let this go or is there a reason to file an abuse report?
Thanks! (link)
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Its ok to file an abuse report. I think you asked a legitimate question and she had no need to make it sound as if you are "starving" yourself.
She does have a point about eating more smaller meals. More like grazing than eating really.
They claim it keeps your metabolism going.
I personally gain weight when I don't eat.
I have a lot of years to take off now!
I went on Nuti System years ago and just couldn't
believe the food I had to eat. But, I lost weight.
Honestly, It seemed like I was eating constantly.
Anyway, some things you can eat that won't hurt you any.....
Salad. Eat salad with your lunch and dinner. If you get hungry later...eat salad. 1T
of whatever dressing you like.
Grapes. If you want a great cold type snack, freeze some. They are good that way.
Yogurt, non-fat. They have such a good variety
of flavors anymore! I could live on yogurt.
Eat what you want but cut down on the fats.
Eat a real small hamburger, a big salad, and a
ton of rice since it doesn't have much fat.
Graham crackers won't hurt you either. Dip them in yogurt!
Not much but a few tips for you. :)
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I have a job interview comming up, and I have a conert on a day I would have to work. Should I bring it up during the interview? And would they not hire me because of that? I was just going to say I had out of town business... (link)
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Don't mention it at the interview unless they
end the interview with "you have the job".
Once you are hired, then you can mention the
concert. Just tell them that you have a
concert on ___ and that is the only scheduling
problem you have. They will understand it isn't
something you can get out of.
Good luck with the interview. :)
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Hey
I know you're not a therapist or anything, but I think I might be depressed, or something else. I'm not too sure.I would ask my mom to bring to to a therapist, but I'm too embarrassed face to face with somebody. I know something is wrong with me. Is there anybody on this site you can recommend to me, who will be able to try and figure out what is wrong with me, help me cope, and build up confidence to go to a therapist? It would be easier if they have AIM, or even E-mail. I need help, and I know you might not be able to help me. Maybe I could get an online therapist or something. Just.. to help me, like a real one would.
Thanks :] (link)
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If you think you are depresses you don't necessarily need a therapist. You regular doctor can help a lot!
We do have a doctor on the site. I think you should try talking to him/her. Sorry I can't remember which!
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=AKSherma
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I saw that you dealt with a previous report about something similar (confusing much? haha). But, I wasn't sure how to deal with it and I thought that since you dealt with Jack's other report maybe you could take a look at this one. Unless someone else gets to it first. Up to you of course. =D
http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php?mode=view&aid=2421
Kate (link)
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I will have a look. :)
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was there ever a case in which the movie was better than the book? (link)
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I don't think there ever will be a movie that is better than the book. Main reason being the characters thoughts are written in a book. Its
really hard to display thoughts on film. :)
There is one I can think of that was pretty close
but just didn't have those thoughts that made the book better. That was the mini series Lonesome Dove.
I will tell you a couple of movies that were very good, but you will learn so much more if you read the books. Forrest Gump and Gilbert Grape.
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