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first time, no condom...


Question Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 4:00 pm

okay.
my friend recently had sex
for the first time.
without a condom. .
but he claims he didnt cum in her?

idk.
shes freaked as hell
and is worried she might be pregnant.


is there a chance she could be?
i think so, but i figured i'd get a second opinion.
thank you (:

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rubytuesday answered Friday July 20 2007, 12:04 am:
The other posters are correct, yes there is a chance she could be pregnant.

She might be able to get the morning after pill.

I would contact the planned parenthood in your area. They deal with all kinds of things like this.

plannedparenthood.org

I certainly hope that she's not.

BUT PLEASE- let this be a lesson to anyone reading- pulling out is not a form of contraception! Nor does it protect against STD's. Women, be strong! make the guys wrap that thing up-NO MATTER WHAT EXCUSE THEY GIVE YOU! No condom, no sex. Period.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Thursday July 19 2007, 7:02 pm:
Yes, she can be pregnant. Precum causes pregnancy.

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leLovely answered Thursday July 19 2007, 6:18 pm:
Yes, she can be pregnant. If there was no form of contraception, then she's a LOT more likely to be pregnant. "Pulling out" is not effective, considering there's pre-cum and you can get pregnant from that.

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babiigirl answered Thursday July 19 2007, 6:06 pm:
Alot of guys use the "Pull out method" and it usually gets the girl pregnant because the pre-cum.

Tell your friend to wait to see if she gets her next period and if not Wait 5 days after that date and she should take a pregnancy test.

She needs to stay calm and live life like she normaly would because if she stresses over being pregnant or thinking she is her period will delay. I stressed about being pregnant and i missed my period for 4 months.

goodluck

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Genrawks2 answered Thursday July 19 2007, 5:23 pm:
Yeah, there is. Tell her not to worry, just try to wait it out for her next period. Stress delays it, apparently. And if she's 2 weeks late, get a preggy test!


And tell your girl to buy some rubbers next time, please.

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disasterxwoah answered Thursday July 19 2007, 5:22 pm:
Yeah she could, even tho it was her first time and he claims he didnt cum in her. Sex with out protection = bad idea.

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Brandi_S answered Thursday July 19 2007, 5:17 pm:
I have a baby that proves you can...

ygs-29/f

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karenR answered Thursday July 19 2007, 5:03 pm:
Unfortunatley for her there is a chance she could be.

Be sure you let her know never to believe a teen
boy who claims he didn't cum. They do and it takes them no time at all.

Tell her she needs to protect herself always.
Nobody else is going to. She gets pregnant and
a guy can walk away. She cannot. So she must
always protect herself.

If he doesn't have a condom, he gets nowhere near her. She needs to make that VERY clear to the guy.

Part of being sexually active is being responsible. She won't have to freak out
every time if she gets informed and acts
responsibly.

Here is a good website that covers everything.
All teens need to read the site. Pass this on
to your friend. You read it too. The time to
prepare is BEFORE you take that step. :)

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christina answered Thursday July 19 2007, 4:57 pm:
Yeah, she should be worried.


Penis + Vagina - Condom = Chance Of Pregnancy.


Tell your friend that if she doesn't get her period then she needs to get tested.

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Hollister answered Thursday July 19 2007, 4:55 pm:
Yes. She shouldn't let him ever have sex without a condom.

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