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not being pregant?
What can you do if you are having sex and the condom breaks and your parents are going to kill you if you get pregnant or even find out you had sex again?
Oh and we have no way of getting the morning after pill either.
PLEASE HELP ASAP
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IF your scared that your parents are going to kill you then your to damn young to be having sex. If you do not have a way of getting the morning after pill then wait to see if you start your period. If you start then your lucky if not then you need to talk to your parents. You will have to see a doctor or you will cause alot of complications.
I doubt your parents will kill you. My parents said the same thing about me if they found out i ever had sex with a guy while i lived under their roof but i did and they found out and they were disappointed but they didnt stress over it.
You have no one to blame except for the guy and yourself.
hope everything works out for you
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Call your local planned parenthood office.
This is the kind of thing that they deal with. They have offices all over the country, so there should be one in your area.
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Listen to younggrandma.
If the consequences of sex are too much for you to handle, you should not be having sex. If you are not going to abstain then at least, there are plenty of ways to enjoy yourself without risking pregnancy.
Other ideas.
Get on birth control if you can. Research it. See if there is a planned parenthood office anywhere you can get to, and go talk to them. They have a wealth of information about pregnancy, STDs, birth control, and might even be able to help you get on birth control.
Also. VCF. Vaginal Contraceptive Film.
Ever seen a breath strip? These look kind of like that. Its a film that breaks down into a contraceptive spermicidal Gel.
You put one inside yourself and wait 15 minutes and they quote that without a condom it is supposed to be as effective as a condom for preventing pregnancy.
Used in conjunction with a condom, it is a good protection in case the condom breaks. A second line of defense, as it were. Use one, wear a condom, and it should go a longer ways than just a condom towards keeping you safe.
You can buy the stuff the same places you can buy condoms.
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You hope nothing comes of it. If symptoms appear, you have no choice but let parents know. Thats the truth of it.
NO birth control is 100% effective. That is why I always say, if you are not prepared to face the consequences do not mess around. You just can't.
It changes your life forever. Just ask any teen
facing a lifetime of explaining they have HIV.
Or good times cut short by the responsibility
of having to raise a child. :)
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well you cant really DO anything about it, becasue whats done is done you know??
so what you needa do is find a way to get a pregnancy test without your parents finding out about it, and then take it.
if your not pregnant then good, and your parents dont need to know about all of this. but if you are pregnant, youre just going to have to tell your parents the truth, even if they do get really mad.
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Is there any way that you can get to a clinic?? There should be free health clinics around you that can help also take a pregnancy test...you might have to tell your parents bc if you are pregnant your going to need the support, they might be mad at first which im sure they will be but trust me just tell them and everything will cool down it might take a while but it will! Goodluck!!
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how old r u??????
and i doubt your parents would kill u.
im 17 ad pregnant right now.
my bf 16
we totally thought that our parents would flip out
expecially his mother.
but everyone was fine about it.
and what happened happened
noone can erase it.
and you really shouldnt have an abortion
but if you really cant take care of it
if noone will help you
and the father dont want it and left you
then thats a problem.
just tell your mother or whoever
asap
because if you wait and they find out
itll be a lot worse.
make it easier and just tell them now.
tell them you had sex and that you think you are pregnant.
i bet your parents had sex when they wanted to also.
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what do you mean what can you do? live with the fact that you had sex too early and weren't prepared. you should be on birth control if you're not ready to have a kid. and if your parents are really going to "kill you" then there's no problem, cause you'll be dead soon, right? so no there's nothing you can do
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okay, so what were you going to do? relay the advice to your friend, right? then go ahead and tell her what i said, because it's true. you're just upset cause you know it sucks and there's nothing you can do about it. well sorry but i didn't mess up, your friend did. did you ever hear 'the truth hurts'? yeahhh, it does. so just suck it up and deallll. i think it's pretty ridiculous what the world's coming to.. the truth being rated badly, such a shame. i bet i would have gotten a 5 if i said 'omg im so sorry that happened, but there's really nothing you can do.. but just tell your parents and hope they aren't mad!! omgg im sooo sorry=[ omg omg good luck' yeah f thatt
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i suggest you beg god that your not pregnat cuz if you are theres no way out of this besides telling your parents and you really cant hide itt cuz you no your belly is gonna show .....but lets hope your not pregnat go to the store and buy and pregancy test or wait if your period donest come to take a pregnacy test ..=] hope i helped some how
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