Member Since: July 13, 2007
Answers: 38
Last Update: August 18, 2007
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Is there any possibility that I could be pregnant even though I got my period a couple days after having sex? (link)
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nope !! =] there is no way you can be pregnant you got your period ...so nope =]
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I have a guy friend, Erik and he's very nice, sweet, smart, and is just all the things that i could not want more for in a guy. He always walks me home from school and just about everywhere, because of this incident that happened to me awhile ago. Anyhow, I think I like him a little bit more than just a friend, and i told about it to one of my very closest friend and she thinks that he already started to like me and all, and all the things that he has said to me...he asked me to go to hungary with him for the summer! but unfortunately i couldn't go because of the summer school credit i need to get. He also waited for me over 20 minutes when i was stuck in the class, because a teacher kept the class in. And he taught me some of the driving skills and signs for my driving test. I think i like him maybe a lot more than i said before. But the problem is he is still in Hungary and not coming back until mid-August. what should i do once he comes back? (link)
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you should spend some more time with him and see how much he still likes you ..you no so that you r not worng or if he didnt chnge if he didnt then you should tell him how you feel i know it sounds scary but you should take a chnce becuase it really sounds like he likes you alot ..good luck =] ask me and make sure to tell me how it went =] ill be glad to hear from you agaian...
Y&B 14/f
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OK So, me and my friend were discussing this and i just wanted some other opinions. If your a virgin, and you got raped, would you still be a virgin? Cause it's not really your choice and stuff, it's a forced thing.
Thanks. (link)
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nope =] sry they arent a virgin anymore ...as soon as a penis went in and came out they arent virgin no longer ..even if they wanted or not ..
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well i havent made out with my boyfriend before and im kinda scared to bc im scared im going to be bad at it. got any tips to making me feel better about it or anything i can do to make me better.hellp (link)
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good news. i ve been through the same thing..i know it sounds scary but try to figure out what scaresyou most.. the process of making out or that your just gonna be bad..the truth is nobody is really bad ..its your first time and it usually comes naturally just start to kiss and when you guy moves in with the whole tounge action just do the same thing back....its easy trust me ..i asked the same advice and i didnt beilve any of it cuz im like yea im still scared heree. ..but trust me i went throuhg the same thing so just go and od it whats the worst that can happen ..bite his lip or tounge ...?? wow big deal ...you guys can laugh it off later ...hope i helped
Y&B 14/f
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Sorry for the length of this..but its been bugging me for awhile. Me and my boyfriend have dated for almost 2 years..he just graduated and im going to be a junior. We see each other everyday for at least an hour and we never get bored and we still arent of each other. However..we have been hanging out with his friends more and i have start noticing hes changed..he can be the biggest arrogant jerk to me/we first started dating he was the sweetest guy..he never got mad..now its like he gets mad over the stupidest stuff and i try to talk to him about it and he gets all pissed off so i dont even like bringing it up. I think its because he worried about growing up and all his friends are going to different colleges like an hour away. Thats one problem..his friends bring out his cockiness. Another problem is that its been making me all depressed..which i hate. I constantly think about us breaking up and it worries me. I know im young but i've been around people all my life who have married there highschool sweetheart and are the same ages as us. I really care for him and when hes a jerk it makes me feel really insecure about our relationship. Another is that hes going to college..a community one and its not gonna be any different hes living at home with his parents still and stuff..but what if he gets sick of dating a "highschool girl" i mean..i have 2 more years til i even get out of school and will he wanna wait for me? i know i sound stupid thinking about marriage and stuff now..and all that but i really care for this guy. I seem really clingy but its not that its just im worried im going to get hurt just like my exboyfriend who broke up with mein the worst way possible but thats a different story. Since my ex did that though it makes me really insecure and i shouldnt be at all. i think im more scared of being hurt again. Having to lose someone you see everyday to never seeing them at all is what worries the most. We are perfectly fine and we still have the same love for eachother as we did when we started dating which i think is amazing but..idk i just need advice. (link)
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i thinking of giving him some time ....time to see what happens next ..if the behavior continues like the same way i suggest trying to have one of those really serious talks ..lol like the one where u both r alone and you both sit out and just talk about things ...he might coness why his acting like that just sit down dont start the convo with like why are you actiong like an asswhole be like well you no i love you and im just asking how do you think i relationship is going and is it good ..a=is anything bothering you ..you not hat kind of stuff lol hope i helped =]
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does it hurt? (link)
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no fingering doesnt hurt at all its plesurable ..
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I seriously need help!
I am 13.
I recently moved across the country, from the towwn which I lived all my life.
At my old school there was this boy my age who really liked me... I was unsure at the time whether i liked him or not...so i sorta gave him the impression i disliked him...
I know he still liked me though because i would look up to see he was staring at me, and he purposly bumped into me in the halls.
But when i moved i cant stop thinking of him..
Should i conntact him? (link)
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deffintly contact him u'll make him happy and mabby it will make it easier on u ..lol good-luck
Y&B 14/f
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I need some serious help.
Okay, I'm 17/m and was hit by cupids arrow about a year and a half ago. However, recently my gf, that I'm still completely in love with, has gone out of town and out of reach (3 hour drive with no car working full time at a restaurant) for the entire summer.
Now, there's this friend of mine. She's very cute in her own way and because of mine and her past relationship were really flirty when were by each other. The thing is I can't control myself when I'm close to her and I go completely nuts (out of my mind) and do things I would never even think about with any other woman (except my gf). I guess what I'm trying to ask is, how do I keep myself from having to make that decision without hurting anyone.
P.S. I'm still extremely in love with my gf as far as I've told her I want a family with her.
Thank you for all your help. (link)
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NO!!!! its kinda would be called cheatin if anything else goes out besides flirting so yoursuggest watch ur back ........try to control your self around her ..preted like ur notinterested in her ..try not to flirt it will be hard the first time but once you get the hang of it youll be fine
Y&B hope i heped =]
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I'm a junior now. I've gone through at least one guy/relationship each year. One really hurt me.
I'm in a new relationship now. This guy is amazing, so sweet and funny. We are really open with each other and it's so different from my other relationships. I can't believe it lasted to 5 months. It's almost 6 months now and it's scaring me. I don't know how to get rid of this.. feeling..fear. I'm so scared that it's going to hurt really badly if this ends.. because I feel as though I'm too attached already. And since this relationship is without any abuse of some sort [verbal] it's the best I have ever had. I'm just worrying over things and trying to prepare myself. But I'm tired of doing this. One of my past relationships lasted over a year but I was still "with" the guy for another year or so, just not official, if you know what I mean. :/ 8th grade to the middle of 10th grade. And he hurt me so bad throughout the years and I'm afraid it's going to hurt worse in this relationship.
I don't know why I'm suddenly having this fear. I've dated 7 people and he's the first guy to actually treat me right.. and listen to me. He's patient and kind, he's actually willing to watch disney/chick flicks with me .. he doesn't make fun of me. He tries to make me smile and laugh.. and he tries to see me as much as he can.
It just seems too good. We haven't had any fights either. I'm not one to fight and in my opinion, I don't think it's healthy. For my relationships I guess. Others? Sure.. My friends always push the idea on me that fighting is a must in a relationship. They try to make me feel like our relationship is somewhat flawed.. and it makes me think that they are jealous sometimes.. because they always pick fights with their boyfriends.
How do I get rid of these worries? (link)
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U really cannot get rid of them its a worry and if its in you rhead its in it alright lol..but hey i think you should talk to your b.f about that feeling of whatmight happen ..yes deffintly talk to him about it its the best solution to a porblem like thim..i myslef have the same kinda problem same guy ( caring sweet) butin my relationship he told me he will never break up with me i have to break up with him....he told me that beacuse i talked to him about it i said i waas worried that you no we might break up and i really like you ..so take my advice it works ...what ever he says maabby the key to your worring ..=]
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i think i have pink eye. i shouldnt put my contacts in, right. just making sure. (link)
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NO!!! defently dont put your contacts in ..
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Do you think it's a big deal for an 18 year old girl to go out with a 26 year old guy? Is that too much of an age difference? (link)
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its fine shes 18 rite? so wtcha ya worring about go on an date her ..=]
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i hear people talking all the time about the different bases of sex. like someone will say, " we got all the way to 3rd base"
can someone explain to me what all the bases are and what they mean? (link)
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As every1 said before bases change and people hear diffrently i heard that it went like this :
1st: kissing
2nd: making out
3rd: tuoching/going up a shirt/ fingering and hand job
4th: sex ( you see how the 4th base never chnges though lol) =}
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in your opinion should a good night, or goodbye kiss be with open mouth and a little toungue, or just a little peck??
And if you have any makeout advice, please tell me. Like tips and stuff.
Thanks so much (link)
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makin out for a good bye kiss no way mabby just one little kiss or peck yea that is good for a goodnight kiss ...lol let see making out tips...hmmmm...1) if its your first time or your not that experienced at it yet ..then let teh guy lead you into it..try rubbing his shoulder or brushing your hands through his hair ( usually is good for biggenres lol) if your not a biggener then i suggest you no what to do ..lol ..hope i helped ;)
Y&B 14/f
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Ok so there's these 2 guys that I really really really like!!!
Guy #1- He's really sweet, caring and nice to me. Prob?? well he was my neighbors ex... so that makes it a little complicated. She is friends with me, but if I go out with him... she said she'll kill me and never speak to me again
Guy #2- is Guy #1's bff.... which also makes it hard and confusing. He was in my 7th, 8th, and 9th grade but we never really spoke to each other that much. Maybe because I didn't have a crush on him until I actually met him (thanks to guy #2)
HELP! I really like both of these guys but there's a twist to both of them. That makes it super hard for me.
Any advice on what to do?
I was thinking of ignoring both of them and looking for another guy, but i'm not sure.
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well you could do that...justdate some other guys and see if you can forget about any of the other two.. for guy#1 try talking to your friend why will you kill me if i go out with him and just mabby you guys can make a solution to it for guy #2 bff?? hmm thats hard but i guess you neeed to go out with one of them to see if one of them is right for you if one isnt then try the other ..sory i tired helping if i didnt im sorry =] but good luck wish you the best
y&B
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im so scared i might be pregnant. i had sex with this guy on may 18th. he didn't come in me, he had a condom on, but then he took it off, n he came in my underwear, which i put on like right after. that day was a friday. on saturday night, like at 11 or 12 at night i felt kinda nauseas. i dunno why. then i felt nauseas monday morning till like wednesday morning, but it might have been because we were disecting pigs in first period every morning. after that, i didn't get nauseas or anything anymore. i got my period regularly three times. i just finished my third time. i noticed it was kinda light. it ended maybe a day or two sooner than usual. last night in the shower, i noticed my stomach got a LOT bigger. not like super huge, but i'm a skinny girl, &it got bigger. could i be pregnant ? (link)
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i think im wrong but i dont thinm your pregnat you got yoour period i mean if you didnt then you should be worried and that your stomach got bigger you might have drunk alot of water or over ate you might of not felt that you over full but you probably wore so dont worry about... if anything chnges like your stomach get sbigger and you keep having chnGES in you period then try and go to any cvs or walgreens or anything like that for a pregnacy test ..hope i helped =]
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okay there is this guy i like, we hung out last week for the first time. (met through friends)A very cool kid we have a lot in common. I got out of the car and i gave him a handshake and thanked him for the nice evening. I mean it was our first time meeting and i began to like him so i didnt wana rush things. He hasnt talked to me since last thursday. I left him a comment, he didnt return one and i just called him now and he didnt pick up his phone. Do you think he isnt interested? (link)
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ok first he might of missed your call and mabby had no time to return it i suggest you call him one more time and if he doesnt pick up leave him a voice-mail ( be like oh hey name:_____?______ i was just saying hey you no wondering what up with you) or something related to that..try that if it doesnt work leave me another question ill get back to you on it =] good luck wish you the best !!
Y&B
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14/f
My parents are very protective of me going out... as on dates
well recently I met a guy and we are friends. (nothing more than that... we both agreed) ok??? so we are just friends.
Well he asked me if I wanted to go to a movie, and I said yes... but only as friends. So we agreed that we would go to the movies only as friends
Well how do I tell my parents that I wanna go to the movies with one of my guy friends??
If I tell them it's a guy, they will automatically think i'm going out with him and they will say no
I guess I'm just scared because I know that if I say "can I go to the movies with him, and we both agreed it was only as friends and nothing more than that"
well then they would probably let me go once they got to know him better
I could say that but i'm just so scared to tell my parents that!
HELP!! (link)
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dont worry ...you just answered your question but..if you really dont want to tell your parents that invite some1 else (one of your friends that had a b.f ) and tell them your simply going out with your friends as which of you are...lol and once you get there your friends can sit far from you guys or not waht ever you would like..hope i helped =]
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13/f.Okay yeah I know it's kind of retarded thinking about it now,but it's so pathetic that I've never had a boyfriend before.Ever.I mean I flirt alot,but psh.It's dumb.I feel so stupid sometimes..I just wish I could find someone who liked me too.Liking the person I like now,is worthless.It's not going to go anywhere,considering the age difference >.<
Help please?
I have no idea what to do.
And I think about it everyday.. (link)
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you no i've been told a perfect guy is hard to find so you no what your only 13 its not such a big deal ...maby its just time that you need ..time to find the right guy that you will like and that will like you..give it some time if nothing comes up then i suggest trying to ask a guy friend you think is cute/hot and see how well it goes ..you never no the perfect man might right around the corner ;)
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Hi..im Tara and i have been wanting to have sex more and one time i got my freind on the couch naked with me while my parents werent home....and once i looked up naked girls on the computer.....ive been doing this for a long time now almost 1 whole year. Sometimes i just ask my freinds over so i can look at there boobs and vagina and i ask them to have sex with me and they do it....and i love doing it with them...it all started when my freind took my virginity away from me she held me and started humping me and takeing off my clothes....fist the shirt then the bra and then shes says can i see it? and she takes off my under wear..and she starts licking it and licking my boobs andshe does it alot but now i like it and im starting to feel realy sluty and one time i sent a picture of me naked to her and she sent one to me...i like loking at naked women and haveing sex with women and feeling there vaginas and boobs...i just feel good when i do it what is wrong with me?? (link)
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nothing ! you simply like gurls more then guys which is a fact that you might be a lesbian ...nothing is wrong with that its just that you prefer gurls more then guys ..hope i answered your question =]..
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What can you do if you are having sex and the condom breaks and your parents are going to kill you if you get pregnant or even find out you had sex again?
Oh and we have no way of getting the morning after pill either.
PLEASE HELP ASAP (link)
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i suggest you beg god that your not pregnat cuz if you are theres no way out of this besides telling your parents and you really cant hide itt cuz you no your belly is gonna show .....but lets hope your not pregnat go to the store and buy and pregancy test or wait if your period donest come to take a pregnacy test ..=] hope i helped some how
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