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13/f.Okay yeah I know it's kind of retarded thinking about it now,but it's so pathetic that I've never had a boyfriend before.Ever.I mean I flirt alot,but psh.It's dumb.I feel so stupid sometimes..I just wish I could find someone who liked me too.Liking the person I like now,is worthless.It's not going to go anywhere,considering the age difference >.<
Help please?
I have no idea what to do.
And I think about it everyday..
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You aren't alone. There are people in the world that are just like you. Just enjoy life as it is right now and don't worry about a boyfriend. I didn't get my first girlfriend till I was your age, so it shouldn't be hard for you to get a boyfriend. I would suggest for you to don't go too far with the flirting. Just talk, don't be all touchy//slutty, and you'll be set to find yourself a boyfriend.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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We all have crushes. Sometimes things werent ment to be and we can not control that but if you do believe in fate it will happen just don't push it and think about it everyday. What i tend to do is go on living my life being who i wanna be and being the person i wanna become and in the back of my mind realize that whatever happens. happens you can not control somethings. But listen, its kinda pathetic to put yourself down that you dont have a boyfriend i know its hard to be patient but listen everything good it worth the wait.
GoodLuck_Becc
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well i must say that it's not pathetic that you haven't had a real boyfriend. hell, i didn't get my first girlfriend until i was fourteen and in high school, and that's the same thing for most of my friends. there's the occasional one that had something by 13, but not usually. and not to sound mean here or anything, but most relationships that happen at your age don't last, or don't really mean much.
you say you flirt a lot. so what? flirting doesn't really do much; sometimes it makes you look like a fool, and at 13 can get awkward. just be yourself. you don't have to act different to get guys to like you. sure it's cheesy advice, but it's true.
might i add that nothing is worthless. some things just can't happen. have you tried talking to this person you like? if you haven't, why not? it's worth a try.
-collin
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heyyyy. girl u are NOT alone..lol
i'm 14 yrs.old n i'm going to be a sophmore in the fall and i haven't even been kissed yet. and i'm in the same positon as you are, i like someone and it's worthless because it's not going anywhere at all..lol .but the plus side about being single is that, you can always like someone else..and have feelings for a person. Unlike, if you had a boyfriend, you could only like him and he'd be your only option to have feelings for. As you can see being single isn't a punishment, it's an invitation for flirting and just enjoying your carefree lifestyle...THERE IS NO SHAME IN OUR GAME!!!..lol
HOPE I HELPED
***HERSHI WISHES HUGS AND KISSES***
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I know a lot of people are going to tell you that you dont need to worry about having a bf at 13. and i know its not what you want to hear. cause i felt the same way.
firstly, think about how much more fun it is to be single. you dont have to worry about your bf cheating, waiting for him to call/im you, and you can flirt with other guys!
secondly, i like a guy thats two years older than me, and we still talk and stuff. at first it was really hard and awkward to talk to him, but i was myself and smiled and flirted. im sure you can overcome the age difference. but for now, enjoy being single!
hope i helped hun
xx tiffany
PS.
hmm. 4 years is a LITTLE tricky. because when you are a freshman, he'll be a freshman in college. try to keep in touch with him. when hes 25 and your 21, you'll hardly notice a difference. also, if this helps, my aunt married a guy 17 years older than her! just dont stress over it, because you may be thinking about him so much that you wont notice someone youre age (or maybe a little older :]) crushing on you!
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you no i've been told a perfect guy is hard to find so you no what your only 13 its not such a big deal ...maby its just time that you need ..time to find the right guy that you will like and that will like you..give it some time if nothing comes up then i suggest trying to ask a guy friend you think is cute/hot and see how well it goes ..you never no the perfect man might right around the corner ;)
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hey
ok sweetie you're only 13 !! you have SO much time to find a nice guy. don't feel pressured when it seems like everyone around you has a boyfriend & you don't. you'd rather wait 3 years for a real one than have 3 fake horny ones.
just flirt & be yourself. guys will soon realize how beautiful, smart & wonderful a girl like you really is. if you really like him so much, then go flirt with him! if you don't think you have a chance, then stop thinking about him. things happen when you least expect it. so don't expect him to like you right now ;]
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