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love stinks!
Ok so there's these 2 guys that I really really really like!!!
Guy #1- He's really sweet, caring and nice to me. Prob?? well he was my neighbors ex... so that makes it a little complicated. She is friends with me, but if I go out with him... she said she'll kill me and never speak to me again
Guy #2- is Guy #1's bff.... which also makes it hard and confusing. He was in my 7th, 8th, and 9th grade but we never really spoke to each other that much. Maybe because I didn't have a crush on him until I actually met him (thanks to guy #2)
HELP! I really like both of these guys but there's a twist to both of them. That makes it super hard for me.
Any advice on what to do?
I was thinking of ignoring both of them and looking for another guy, but i'm not sure.
:/
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Oh, you're in one of these little rough situations.
I say go with the flow and see what happens. Follow your heart to see what you think is the best decision. If you choose Guy #1, you lose a neighbor//friend. If you choose Guy #2, you would possibly lose or gain Guy #1's trust, but its a risk that you could take.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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No go for what your heart wants. Because you never wanna regret something you could have but never went for. I say i would pick the guy that takes the most interest in me becasue thats the boy that i want to fall in love with and want to stick around me for a while. Besides Guy 1 seems to have more to loose then to gain. And i am sure once you fall in love with guy 2 guy 1 will be ancient history.
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I think that if you really like guy # 2, then go for it. I reallllly dont think guy #1 is a good choice...chicks before d*cks. Its not worth throwing out a friendship for some dude, when you really dont know whats going to happen in the relationship in the first place. I know from experience that its not a good decision.
Hope I helped.
>Jill
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well you could do that...justdate some other guys and see if you can forget about any of the other two.. for guy#1 try talking to your friend why will you kill me if i go out with him and just mabby you guys can make a solution to it for guy #2 bff?? hmm thats hard but i guess you neeed to go out with one of them to see if one of them is right for you if one isnt then try the other ..sory i tired helping if i didnt im sorry =] but good luck wish you the best
y&B
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Well- first off- If you like Guy #1- then go for him. Just because he's your neighbor's ex doesn't mean you can't date him. If she doesn't want you to- she's jealous. She isn't going out with him anymore, and she has no control over who he dates, or you, for that matter. If he seems like someone you would like more than Guy #2 [and I don't see a major problem with him, making it "super hard" for you], then you should date Guy #1. If you think you'll like Guy #2 more, then date him. Just because you haven't talked to him much doesn't mean the relationship couldn't work. It just might be harder to communicate at first, and it might be more awkward for both of you.
I would go for Guy #1. Sounds like you like him more.
--Jack
(15/m)
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hey
flirt with them both & see who responds better / first! that way, if you decide RIGHT now i'm giving up on guy one & it turns out he is a flirterr & really likes you, you'll have lost him.
so try flirting with both. your neighbor's ex, eh? who cares? you're probably not gonna be best friends with her for the rest of your life. screw her haha. seriously though.
if you think one of them likes you, go for him. but if you notice that they're both giving signs that they like you, CUT down on one of them. no one should get in the way of your love life, not even your neighbor.
so just flirt with both & see who responds right away. you'll know immediately who digs & who doesn't. if none dig, move on & find another guy who does dig you.
be cute but don't be a slut. if you really like both & keep flirting with both, they might get in a fight cause of you. just keep your space with each.
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