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Gender: Female
Age: 17
AIM: BreathlesEyesXo
Member Since: June 30, 2007
Answers: 18
Last Update: September 16, 2007
Visitors: 1455
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okay, i know theres about bazilion of this topic.
but I REALLY NEED EVERYONES HELP.
im getting cellulite, and i want to get rid of it as soon as possible.
any ideas?
[any idea other than working out]
any bodycreams that help?
pleeeeasssee help.
oh, and its on my thighs & butt.
[if that helpss]
thanks to whoever reply!
=] (link)
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umm there is a body creme by ummmm arbonne. its called figure vanish 8. there is a shower creme and an after creme i beleive. my friend used it and she said all of her cellulite has vanished she said its great.. goodluck
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HELP!
i think i got my first period today and i don't no how to tell my mum. I'm totally clueless!!!!!!!!!!
PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!
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its actually simple. its not like you can get in trouble. its your period. its not like your pregnant. when i first got mine, it looked brownish and it wasnt very much.. just ask your mom. it shouldnt be so hard. you should think of opening up the relationship with your mom so its not so hard to talk to her. welll good luck..
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my mom wont let me get my belly button peirced.
im 14 & i want it done.
how cna i get it done w.out her finding out
please&thankyou (link)
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There is no way you can get it done with out her finding out. She will end up finding out sooner or later. Plus my friend tried to do hers a while back and all she did was createa huge scar on her stomach and go through lots of pain. She dont have it done but the scar remains. Your mom will notice.
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Whenever me and my friend are fooling around or something, i feel like i don't do enough. he always does everything and i just kind of let him do it... then if he asks me to, i do something. i just dont know what to do when we're in the moment. he feels bad because he says it feels like he's forcing himself on me- but he really isnt. i feel bad because i let him do it all. how do i spice things up? (link)
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i agree with the person below me. hes your FRIEND you never said BOY FRIEND. so yeah. dont spice things up.
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ok well im in 9th grade.! and it seems like alot of my friends have done some/more sexual things than i have done!!.... all i have done it make out and stuff.. but i refuse to give head b.c i think its dirty.!! 1st am i the only not doing it??/ and 2nd i wouldnt mind going a little farther but not sex how do i make it known that i want to do that with out sounding like a slut!!???????????? plz help me..!!!! (link)
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your not weird and you shouldnt want to do things just because other people in your class has. when i was in 9th grade i never even kissed a boy. i didnt even kiss a boy until i was 15 i was in 10th grade. and thats all i did was kiss him. and now i am going to college and i am 17 and i am still with that boy i waited to do anything with. and i am happy that i did that. dont do things just because you think that your the only one not doing things.
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15/f
I know, its really long, sorry. :[
Alright, I don't even know where to begin. I use to live in Seattle, for 6 years. About 8 months ago, i moved to Texas.
but I met a boy in 8th grade. I started falling for him, hard. We were best friends for about 6 ish months, before he told me he liked me. and we were together. I know i'm young, but I know i love this guy. && I know he loves me.
anyways, in the middle of 9th grade, i moved. we both cried, but we decided to have a long distance relationship. So we had one. were still together now. for almost a year already. my parents don't approve of him, and this kind of relationship. But the only reason they don't approve of him is because they found out that he fingered me.
So they think hes one of those guys that are "all about one thing". && hes really not, he respects me. && he came over for 2 weeks. We held hands, and hugged, and my parents freaked out. which is another reason they don't approve of him. && they use to love him before they found out that he fingered me.
They said were too "in love". && I don't know if its just me, but I think thats a good thing. We love each other a lot. Were both willing to wait for each other, shouldn't that be enough? So now, me and him can't talk on the phone as much. I can only talk for an hour today, and over the computer. But i just miss him so much. && I only concentrate on my friends in Washington. Its like, i live in Texas, but my mind is in Washington.
I don't want to go through high school being a "loner" and not having fun. But I don't want to loose him.
I'm sorry this is so long, but I just don't know what to do. =/ (link)
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you can TRY to keep your long distance relationship. most times it dont work though. you might eventually fade away from one another. you might not think so now. plus relationships with the couple living within blocks of one another is hard enough, nevermind a long distance one. you just have to beware of other girls back where he lives. thats all i would worry about. because right now im having a problem with my boyfriend myself and he lives only a couple blocks from me. well. goodluck. but dont worry about your parents by the way. they dont know what you feel or what you think. if you love him, thats your situation, not theirs.
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13 female nationality: Filipino
youve probably seen this question but ill post it again to show you that im really not gonna give up about my situation.
skin pigmentation: EDP (erythema dyschromicum perstans)
i will do whatever it takes to get this skin pigmentation out of me. [description: its like gray spots all over body mostly around torso] i dont know any treatments or what caused it. not even any dermatologist ive been to. do you any good ones? i dont care about the money. i mean i cannot live my whole life like this not knowing what to do or just give up and stop researching and trying new things, had this for a year and a half and i cant take it any longer. this is my story im so jealous of the other girls my age, its summer time and they get to wear bikinis and clothes w/ no sleeves while i feel like i always have to hide my body. ima person who always "lookED" good and that boosts up my confidence around people. now that i have alla these spots all over me, i feel like im losing friends and people stare at me all the time and tease me. srry about my long story, i mean theres a lot more to say but youre probably tired of reading. i just hope i can get something out of people. maybe they have what i have to or if they dont maybe they can help me even if theyre strangers, it really means a lot to me, my parents who help me a lot are not enough. they dont even know how to use the internet and research stuff about so im asking you people if you could help me. IM really BEGGING. i dont wanna live with gray spots all over my body.. please do what you can to help me it means a lot to me.... thanks in adavance (link)
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alli could think of and find out was that its caused by the sun. its kind of a sun damage on the skin. i think. on quote me on any of this but i think that they are sun spots kind of and it is from the sun damage. your skin got to much sun light and it caused the skin pigmentation, the melanin is increased which creates the skin in some spots to turn grey. your skin could be exposed too much and you are sensitive or you are just in the sun too much. soo. this is what i think. hope i helped some. good luck.
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Ugh, im so mad at my friend, lets call her MEL. Recently she lost her virginity last week, to a guy she doesn't even like. (which pissed me off) Then today they were you know in the woods doing it; again except my other friend, lets call her TYE was there with another guy whom she just met about three days ago. Tyes cherry popped and there was so much blood going everywhere. She nearly fainted [i arrived 20 minutes later with napkins when i got the call] I'm telling you there was alot of blood, is that normal??? My friend mel said she bleed only a little bit, not nearly as much as tye. (link)
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yea that deffinetally is nootttt good.
something could be wrong with her.
she needs to tell her parents. its badd.
if that ever happened to me my mom would b the first person i would go to. a person should not bleed that much... noo wayy.
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Ok well i had "sex" for my first time about 4 days ago, it did go in but we didnt fully go at it if you get what i mean. we didnt use protection but he didnt bust or have any pre bust at all (it was only for like a minute anyway). My period has been off lately to. I have gotten blood but like not alot and then it will stop im not sure if its my period or the "cherry" pop. It has been bleedding on and off for a few days. Im kind of nervous, can you please help me =) (link)
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ok first of all.
just the precum
which every guy has even if they dont "bust"
has, can get you pregnant.
ok now.
when i first lost my virginity
i usually have a really irregular period
but usually i get it more
then i dont get it.
but after sex
i didnt get it for weeks
i thought i was pregnant
but it was just because
my first time messed up my periods
im on birth control.
its more controlled.
but even still
it was off because of losing my virginity.
so i beleive its normal
good luck
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What can you do if you are having sex and the condom breaks and your parents are going to kill you if you get pregnant or even find out you had sex again?
Oh and we have no way of getting the morning after pill either.
PLEASE HELP ASAP (link)
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how old r u??????
and i doubt your parents would kill u.
im 17 ad pregnant right now.
my bf 16
we totally thought that our parents would flip out
expecially his mother.
but everyone was fine about it.
and what happened happened
noone can erase it.
and you really shouldnt have an abortion
but if you really cant take care of it
if noone will help you
and the father dont want it and left you
then thats a problem.
just tell your mother or whoever
asap
because if you wait and they find out
itll be a lot worse.
make it easier and just tell them now.
tell them you had sex and that you think you are pregnant.
i bet your parents had sex when they wanted to also.
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i dont no but this is how it went me and b.f were hanging out the hole day and it was fun nothing was wrong untill this evening this feeling came over me like i didnt care about what happend to me ..im 14/f and it was really weird cuz my b.f kept asking are you ok and all i cant say is yea i was smilling walking i dont no what was happening and he asked what am i thinking about and i answered " how lucky i am to have you " he said something but i wasnt paying attention ..im sroyy if its to long but i no it has nothing to do with him i just dont knoe why i was acting like that and when we came home i went upstairs and went on the computer and then i got to my normal self like i was asking my slef wat was wrong with me??? and my b.f spent like 30 minutes sitting outside just staring on the street ...i dont no wat it was plz help !!!
sorry if it was to long but i will really appreiciate all the answers ..thanx !!! (link)
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yea i get that feeling alot.
ill br perfectly fine then all of a sudden
its like ehhh whatever.
but its not something to be overly concerned about
or worrying that somethings wrong with you.
sometimes your mind wanders.
and you ust start thinking about different things.
to me it feels weird but i got over it.
nothings rong with you.
and ur bf sounds like a keeper :)
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first things first--15/m.
ok so like i said, im 15 and theres this girl(lets just call her bonqueesha lol) who is basically all over me, and shes really cute and all.. but shes only 13. see in my opinion i think it would be wrong/weird for us to hook up or go out or whatever, so what do all you advicenators think? (link)
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i think that age doesnt matter. but yes she is a bit young to have a boyfriend or get involved wth a guy.
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hey..
ive been with my guy for nearly a year now...
everytime im with him, if hes happy im over the moon, wen hes unhappy i always think there is something wrong. and the thing is i always seem to get really emotional wen im around him. i dont no y and i feel if i dont stop im gonna lose him. even just over the littlest things, i get upset so easily, even if he says something wrong, or doesnt give me affection... y is that? my emotions evolve around him! is it becuase im truely inlove with him.. wen im not around him i want to be and all that stuff.. we do tell each other that we love each other and all that, but i feel sometimes thats not enough. they say love hurts, and im thinking that it truely does. can someone give me some advice on how to be more stronger in a relationship, becuase im at witts end, i dont no wat to do.. how do i stop these emotions?
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i had the same problem and i still kind of do. ve been with my boyfriend almost 2 years now. i still get emotional and everything, when hes unhappy i know that it hasnothing to do with me at all, but i still FEEL like it has something to do with me. sometimes you just have to sit and watch a movie or something. get ur mind off of all the things that get you upset. boys minds work muchh differently and ive noticed that. since ive noticed that before ive been getting upset ive been trying to think simpler and of how he might feel, its much different. maybe even as your boyfriend and explain to him how you feel.
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hey 13/f
all my fiends that i hang out with have all kissed a guy at some stage i feel really left out and stuff sometimes and they treat me like a baby..i just want to get it over and done with but want to like the guy as well
Please help me!!!
thanx mwa (link)
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dont worry about it. if your friends are treating you like a baby and making fun of you or whatever. then they just are not good friends. they need to accept you for who you are and not have you feeling peer pressure. because thats what it seems like this is. peer pressure. i didnt get my first bf or my first kiss until i was 16. im still with him. i didnt care what ppl said about me, i waited for the right one to come along, no pressure.
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ok well i have swimmers ear and i have had it for about 2 weeks. i havd it for about a week a 3/4 and then my dad was like "well i dont think you have it any morre so i think you should go swimming. so i did, now it hurts so bad and my dad wont let me go to the doctor. he says its just an earche. all he does is make me take some tylenol but it still hurts, what can i do?????
thanks in advance (link)
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i cant really help answer this because i have swimmers ear also, yes it hurts badly. i suggest u try some ear plugs.. i would but they fall out of my ears... i just dont go swimming often, and when i do dont go underwater.
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Hi I am 16 and I am going to get both of my ears pierced in one day somewhere, I'm not sure where yet... I have been doing some research and I have heard that the piercing guns suck! and they screw up a lot... Do you think I should just get my ears pierced by a gun, or by hand at a professional piercing or tattoo shop? (link)
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i got mine wit a gun on all 9 of them on my ears.. i have 5 on one ear and 4 on the other. and all of them were done with a gun besides the one i got with the middle peice.. ive never had problem w the gun...
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Everyone on here says that breasts grow until you're 18, but is that really true because im 14 and mine haven't grown in a really long time and i know this because my stretch marks which were once there are now gone. Also, i got my period when i was 11, so i know thats really early.
Im a 28A and I'm perfectly happy with my size even though its small. I'm fine with it and I dont want really big boobs anyway, and my mom says that her boobs were the size they are now in 9th grade and i got my period a year before her. And most people in my grade and who are a year younger are bigger than me even though they got their period later than i did.
Any input or personal experience would be great, thanks :] (link)
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ur lucky u even got boobs that siz, im 17 and i 5' mine are 32 - 34 A..i wish they were bigger but they aint. i got my period at 13. if anythin i think ur growin normal
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I want to get my cartilage pierced but I'm scared it will hurt. I already have my first and second holes done, so I'm wondering.. does getting your cartilage hurt more or less or the same than a first or second hole? And do they do it with a needle or gun? Which way hurts less? I need to know a lot. :] So if you got yours done, tell me everything about it!! (link)
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i have 2 cartilege on each ear. so that means i have 4 peircings on each ear. but yes the top ones (cartilege) hurt much worse for me, but pain varies for everyone. and for me they used a gun
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